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How do I get out of a lease?

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I'm in a sticky situation here. I've signed a lease to live in a house with a friend of mine for one calendar year, but I can't really afford it. My parents have no money, so they can't help too much either. I've got a few thousand dollars saved up that I can use to pay rent, but that money was really designated towards paying off student loans and stuff, so I don't wanna dabble too much into it. Basically, I'm going to be in class for 25 (not credit hours, just pure time) hours every week this Fall, and 3 of those classes are upper division mathematics courses that will require loads of time. I need to have time to do homework above all, not work some job to try to make ends meat. I live in the same town I go to college in, and I spent this past year living at home, which is really nice and cheap, but wanted to get out and have fun. But I'm going to be way too busy to work enough to pay rent so I'll just be blowing all of my savings on rent and losing my mind because of stress. I think my best option is to either get out of my lease or find someone to sublease so I can live at home and focus on school. Can someone give me some tips on how to do either of these? I'm desperate and I don't know where to start besides just asking my friends if they know anyone. My only other options really are to (a) live at home while trying to find someone to take my lease, still pay rent but not utilities since I won't actually be living there. This option makes it so I don't have to work as much and I'll save close to 130 dollars a month in utilities and food, but will still have to spend some of my savings on rent or (b) live in the house and either work a lot to pay for everything or work a little and use my savings to pay for a lot of things. Option (b) is less ideal because the added stress of cooking, cleaning, and not having much space to yourself in a rental home will make school harder. tl;dr how do I go about getting out of a lease or finding a sublessor
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How Do You Deal With A Bad Boss/Manager?

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And managers or people that have dealt with bad managers on /adv/??? Don't get me wrong, I like the guy. He is a good guy and a friend. But lately, he's making me hate my job. Basically my main problem lies with him being so passive he lets one person in our department continually get away with anything. Also, this other person does no work! Ever. But my manager hates confrontation and he won't call her out on it because she can turn into a bitch in about 2 seconds and he doesn't like someone who will argue back with him. The bigger part is we are fixing to go to a night shift. We have done this before. We have a small team. Always been around 6-7 of us. Each of us (except manager) have all had to pull a stint on night shift...except for the woman. Because last time her schedule even got changed a little bit, she started crying. And when that didn't work, she argued with the manager until he gave her the schedule she wanted. Keep in mind this woman never helps us when it comes to doing any work either. Well I just found out it will be me and another co-worker going to night shift now. And it's not that I'm even that pissed about going to it. I know thats part of it. What pisses me off was when the discussion was brought up about a possible night shift, she wasn't even considered as possibly going. When we all got together (except her) and asked him what the deal was, he said he just didn't feel like putting up with her to put her on night shift. But he refuses to do anything to get her in line. Also, the past week we were asked to come up with a list on what our job duties were. All of us except for her came up with 20 things that we do weekly. She came up with 5 because she has no fucking idea what we do. We will be having a meeting this week to announce the change of shifts. Is there anything I can say or do to bring this up without being a dick? FWIW the rest of the team is tired of the situation as well.

Depression

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I'm a guy who is not attractive and I have this awful feeling of inferiority and feel pretty worthless a lot. This feeling comes and goes but sticks around for a long time whenever I get depressed. I'm not ugly, but girls don't think I'm cute or hot either. What can I do to accept myself? I don't like much about me other than my inner self.
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NEET and Shut-in advice thread [Version 50]: Nine Months

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It's hard to believe it's August already; time moves way too quickly. I hope some of you have been making progress towards breaking out of NEET life these past few weeks. If not, there's still time to get your résumé together or to sign up for classes. Fall is just around the corner so please don't wait until the last minute to get started! It has been nine months since the first NEET thread. We've had a long, interesting and somewhat dramatic journey but I hope that we've been able to help a few people along the way. Thanks to all the people who have and/or continue to provide advice to people in the channel and in the thread over these past nine months. As always, if you're feeling alone or just want to make some friends our IRC channel #NEETadv on the Rizon network is always open. We're here to help, listen, and maybe even have a laugh or two with you. So drop in and say "hi" some time. I'd love to hear how other NEETs deal with life, and how we ended up here. Suggestions? Advice? Make some friends? Carrying over from the old threads: >Some conversation starters: - What other boards do you browse? - Hobbies and interests? Collections? - Diagnoses both physical and psychological? - Daily schedule? Sleep schedule/habits? - Try the MMPI! Google: "Found an online version of the MMPI" >Our Ongoing Google Doc! https://docs.google.com/document/d/1MOL822Z70BLJZNmDsVQeB5PEeFCFgpIbVLFkfb5eELw/edit?usp=sharing >Steam Group! We has one! Come Join! http://steamcommunity.com/groups/Comfy >Need help finding a career path? http://www.sokanu.com/ >The IRC Channel On the Rizon Network, channel: #NEETadv Try: https://qchat.rizon.net/?channels=NEETadv&uio=d4 If you're really nervous about joining the channel, send a /msg or /query on IRC to cpucake_13 or Ten. Since the link above can be unstable, please see below for more alternative instructions.
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>three weeks ago >unemployed for six months even though I was really trying >boyfriend is getting really resentful >we have a fight one morning >i leave to go get a job but as i walk to the bus stop the bus blows past >start crying and walking home to wait the hour until the next bus >friend drives by >sees me crying >picks me up and asks if i want to go run an errand with him >end up dropping acid and swimming in a pool for six hours >realize i fucked up bad and my bf is going to be furious with me >ask friend to front me a quarter and ill pay him back out of my allowance from family >he gives it to me and keeps saying dont worry about it when i bring up paying him back >im like no dude i am going to pay you back i just dont have it this instant >he insists i should not worry about it >i cant stress how many times he said the exact phrase it's cool dont worry about it >so i didnt worry about it >got a job last week >get paid in a few weeks and i have some scheduled bonuses before the end of the year >same friend is always complaining about being cooped up so i make a proposition >loan me 400 and give me a ride to the next state over to fix my license and I'll pay you back 600 in two months >he isnt having it >immediately demands his money back from three weeks ago and launches into a tirade because i am not trustworthy >says he doesnt really feel like having me steal another 600 on top of the one >im stricken speechless because he was so insistent about saying DONT WORRY ABOUT IT >now hes going on about how im trying to steal from him >i didnt even ask for 6, i asked for 4 >after he calms down and gives me a second to speak i explain i misunderstood the situation and i will pay him back tomorrow >he uses this opportunity to continue bitching about how untrustworthy i am >still saying things like 600 IS A LOT OF MONEY 600 IS A LOT OF MONEY >im trying to tell him i only needed 400 >600 IS A LOT AND YOU STILL OWE ME THAT 100 >tell him to forget about it
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>get waken up by stomping at 2 PM >hear the girl neighbours upstairs talking about me >they keep saying "heeee's so cute" but they also bring up the fact that they think I'm "weird" >and they were also discussing the fact that they thought I was maybe retarded or something >they mention how the sound insulation isnt good and one of them says "he can hear us laugh" >she recalls one time when they were laughing while I was laughing at some comedy I was watching >on that day when they heard me laugh they said "I can hear him laughing" and then she said "that means he can hear me laugh" and they were laughing about this >They also mentioned how I'm "really intimidated" by them >They noted my interactions with them and they also talked about how I don't go outside much >I feel like they were talking loud on purpose because they wanted me to overhear this >But I'm not too sure >I was too hungover to remember most of the convo but at the end one of them said >"Let's laugh in there, he'll come" I'm not sure of what their exact opinion of me is. But I always try to be quiet and courteous. I'm not sure if they kept saying I was "cuteeeee" and "so cuteeeeeee" out of pity or if they meant I was attractive Can you guys make sense of this?
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So I got my facebook account locked even though I rarely post on it or add people. Apparently its because I used my middle name as last name because i'm noided. I sent a shooped id, I cant even speak to a human and even the pre-typed emails have stopped coming. Anyone ever been through this shit? any advice?

Nipnip Psycholonip

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Alright /adv/ocado's,simple question time. I'm currently studying both Psychology and Japanese and I'm going to move to Japan to become a psychologist. What reinforced this was the Sasebo killing the other day,I want to see what makes our friendly nipnip's so aggressive. And why they keep to themselves. I've spoken to many japs and many have said they'd rather "Cry on the shoulder of a gaijin" than go to their own people for help. So. /adv/ Am I making a good move? If so,how far do you think a Psychologist in japan (From britainnia mind you) would go? Thanks in /adv/ance (Sasebo murder for those wondering: http://www.japantoday.com/smartphone/view/crime/15-year-old-girl-arrested-for-killing-classmate-in-sasebo )

Do I want to live?

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I apologize for this wall of text:(but please, read it) I've been known to be a careful person I never do things without me knowing what I'm heading into. I'd always weigh out risks/ rewards/ future benefits/ costs of everything I did in my life. Most people would say that someone who decides not to do thing X will miss out on the experience of messing thing X up. Opposing to that I would say by evaluating each and every single result of thing X I experienced just as much if not even more. And on top of that my decisionmaking has almost always been spot on (it's almost always because I can't warrant for my doings at age 3 and younger). I explain this almost perfectly accurate and flawless decisionmaking on my "diagnosed" above 140 IQ and if I were to give myself a label of profession I would be an artist. My illustrative imagination allows me to think of and deliver my paintings/ ideas/ thoughts at an astonishing accuracy: people would say lines like "wow it's almost like I had this dream myself now" "I somehow can see the image without you actually showing it to me" Without overastimating myself it is fair to say that I make my decision for a reason and when someone grasps the full extent of my situation he/she at an overwhelming majority agrees with my decisionmaking. Why am I stating these things? Since age 12 (I am 19 now) I lived with the knowledge that I did not chose this life; it represents unwanted and often uncontrollable risks; and if I was given the right to chose wether I want to be born or not, I would have said no to life. But with the knowledge that my parents wether they want to or not would call themselves responsible for my suicide. So I waited it out until I would be called an adult by official means, during this time I had to make a lot of compromises that kept me alive for another year (My morals require me to put promises I made to others above my own death, meaning an appointment would force me to live on until I fulfilled it.) 1/3
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I've got a friend. We used to be good friends in school, and after we left we still shared the same friendship group together. He was always good to me. Lately however he's been a complete cunt. He always picks on me because I'm short and not too good looking. He's tall, handsome and gets a lot of women. I don't know how to deal with this. I always try being mean to him back, because if I just let him get away with it that makes me a betafaggot, but every time I am he'll say something like "yeah well you're a short ugly virgin" and he wins. What the fuck can I say to that? What's worse is my friends never say anything. Help me out here /adv/

Grill that's hard to understand

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There's this girl who's in this club I'm in, we're very active, we meet once a week for more than 2 hours usually. She's cute, well to me, to society she's probably a low 6 or worse. So here's the thing though, she talks like this: something keel me to equilibrium. Apparently I am to rattle a sprig of illustrative detailing into my surefire tone of "political correctness" by using ethical means of portraying a wavering state of consciousness zoning out til delirium and all the brute atrocities upon the physio-mental body during terminal and likewise horridly grudged state of quadriplegia for what I deem odd just cause. I just finished watching the sea inside and the diving bell and the butterfly. I finally watched that second french movie and it left me sick and a-gape for what should be heartbreaking, even humorous, but the prior serious I cannot not admit to my reverence duly. That was a Facebook status but she talks like that and I dunno if she has bad grammar, incoherent sentences, unnecessary vocabulary mixed with philosophical concepts that really. really make it hard to tell what the fuck she is even trying to say. Help? A lot of people are passive aggressive towards her and I just want to be able to respond to her
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I quite a full time job cause I told myself I was too good for it and now I feel like a terrible person. What do?
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I am 23 years old. I'm 6'4". I weigh 250lbs. I am currently a mathematics tutor at a local college, which I am also attending to gain my masters in mathematics. My wife and I have been "Married" for two years now. "Married" because I haven't had enough money to have an official wedding. We have been seeing a counselor together for a while. We both have a deep fear of death, and a slight fascination with it as well. We were talking with her counselor about it and she mentioned that she realizes that death could happen at any moment without any provoking. She said that she wouldn't care if someone came up and killed her, because there isn't anything she could do about it. This counselor signed a "pink slip," thus forcing her into the hospital on a possible indefinite stay. She is currently in the psychiatric ward at the local hospital. Every time I go see her, when the visiting hours are up, she breaks into tears... This breaks my heart. I can't bear to see her like that. I can't allow her to see how it effects me. I feel powerless. I don't know what to do. It hurts so goddamn much, I just can't... I don't even know what to do. I can't get my mind off of it. I've tried going for walks, driving around, working, watching movies, playing games, helping people, etc. Almost every waking moment away from her, I see her in tears, crying for me to not go. I feel like I want to die to escape from that pain. What can I do? Am I truly powerless? I can't imagine my life without her in my arms. What if they won't let her out? She's not suicidal. She's not homicidal. She doesn't self harm or anything like that...

NEET and Shut-in advice thread (Version 51): Oh, Life...

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It's hard to believe it's August already; time moves way too quickly. I hope some of you have been making progress towards breaking out of NEET life these past few weeks. If not, there's still time to get your résumé together or to sign up for classes. Fall is just around the corner so please don't wait until the last minute to get started! It has been nine months since the first NEET thread. We've had a long, interesting and somewhat dramatic journey but I hope that we've been able to help a few people along the way. Thanks to all the people who have and/or continue to provide advice to people in the channel and in the thread over these past nine months. As always, if you're feeling alone or just want to make some friends our IRC channel #NEETadv on the Rizon network is always open. We're here to help, listen, and maybe even have a laugh or two with you. So drop in and say "hi" some time. I'd love to hear how other NEETs deal with life, and how we ended up here. Suggestions? Advice? Make some friends? Carrying over from the old threads: >Some conversation starters: - What other boards do you browse? - Hobbies and interests? Collections? - Diagnoses both physical and psychological? - Daily schedule? Sleep schedule/habits? - Try the MMPI! Google: "Found an online version of the MMPI" >Our Ongoing Google Doc! https://docs.google.com/document/d/1MOL822Z70BLJZNmDsVQeB5PEeFCFgpIbVLFkfb5eELw/edit?usp=sharing >Steam Group! We has one! Come Join! http://steamcommunity.com/groups/Comfy >Need help finding a career path? http://www.sokanu.com/ >The IRC Channel On the Rizon Network, channel: #NEETadv Try: https://qchat.rizon.net/?channels=NEETadv&uio=d4 If you're really nervous about joining the channel, send a /msg or /query on IRC to cpucake_13 or Ten. Since the link above can be unstable, please see below for more alternative instructions.
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A 6' dancing student approached me me a couple of weeks ago, and practically asked me out. We went out on a few dates and enjoyed each other company: Same vulgar sense of humor, have a lot to talk about, ... However, me being 5'6", don't know how to dance, having a boring life style, ... I was terrified of her being way out of my league. She was patient for a while, telling me I could take hip hop classes if I wanted to go out dancing with her and whatnot. I freaked out when she accepted to go out for drinks with sex being on the horizon for I was sure she was more sexually experienced than I am and will only be disappointed by me. I cancelled the offer a couple of days later and she got mad, and said she is done with pussy men like me. I don't know what to make of all of this. I am single most of the time, anyways.






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