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So ther's a problem.
I was a lonely person, for 24 years. Never dated, even held hands, straight, very slightly bicurious because of traps and such.
I meet this guy, shy and timid, cute personality and fun. With usual problems like social anxiety, still a virgin. We became friend and after a while I was like 'fuck it why not' and we went for lewd. Now we're together for almost 2 years, but there's a problem.
I really started yearning for girls, lately. To have a girlfriend. They seem nice and soft and warm and I never experienced that. I'm not repulsed by the guy, but I don't know if I'm attracted physically either.
I don't wanna hurt him because he has nobody other than me, but fuck. It's not like I'd have a girl anyway, what the fuck do I do?
Am I just freaking out?
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I look very similar to this girl, body shape, breast size, and dress in a cute, sexy, but still conservative fashion.
Like her, I don't wear a bra. Today, a 12-year-old came up to me and told me to wear a bra. I was startled and asked her why I should do that, but she refused to answer further and only repeated that I should wear a bra.I gave in and said I would, but that was a lie, I'm not going to wear a bra.
What can I say next time when someone gives me unsolicited helpful tips like this? I want to convey something like, "Thank you for your advice, but I'm going to continue to not wear a bra."
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I'm trying to decide between two girls that are interested in me, and I'm really depressed about having to hurt one of them's feelings.
I'm 26, one of them is 24, the other is 18. We're all very religious and waiting for marriage for sex. I also don't feel comfortable kissing a girl unless we're in an exclusive relationship, it would feel wrong to make out with one and then go on a date with the other.
I met the 24 year old two weeks ago at a dance. We've been on three dates since, and while she's giving some mixed signals she is very eager to keep spending quality time with me.
I met the 18 year old two months ago, went on a date with her, and then decided to let things cool off for a bit because I was going through a rough time. Met her again at the same dance and we're going on a date next Friday (would have been sooner but her family is in town). From our conversations she seems pretty in to me and excited about going on another date. She's fairly introverted and doesn't have too many friends.
I'll give more details in the following posts but that's the gist of it. I'm tryingbto figure out how to 1) decide which one I like more and has the best long term potential 2) how to juggle between them until I decide without setting them up for too much pain and 3) how to go about telling one of them I'm not interested when the time comes in the least painful way. Your advice is very much appreciated!
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In 2009 I was introduced to this band from another country. I got really, really into the band. Something just drew me to the music and I found myself enchanted by them. And because I am not very logical, I began to admire the vocalist. He seemed like he had something in common with me I hadn't ever seen in anyone else before, I don't know what it would be but that is just how I felt.
2010 I traveled half way across the country to go see them for a birthday. My biggest wish was to see the vocalist outside of the concert and make some kind of impression on him so he would forever remember me. At this point I am sure I had fallen in love with him, and I was saving all the pictures of him I could find, even going through his music videos and taking screenshots of the entire thing frame by frame.
I got part of my wish. I got to see him outside the concert the day before, and even though we didn't talk I caught his attention. He was so adorable as he waved. And I had never been happier. I stole his attention and he knew of my existence!
I have been obsessing over this man for years, and it has only intensified after I met him. I have folders and folders filled with photos of him on my computer, he is my only motivation. All I think about is him or something that can be tied directly back to him. I would literally kill if he asked me to. I would do anything for him.
I thought I would be content to step aside when I heard he had gotten married, but he has gotten divorced now, and all I can think to do is go to his house and somehow try to comfort him. Or go and fuck the bitch who broke his hearts face up. She deserves to be punished.
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>19- year old average white kid-
>Been best friends with this half black half hispanic girl since I was like 9
>Just got out of a recent relationship
>Best friend now coming on to me hard and says she has had feelings for me for awhile now
>Not sure what to do
We've been friends so long now, I don't know how a relationship would be, and if I did enter a relationship with her, if we broke up we probably wouldn't even be friends anymore.
On top of that, my family is fairly racist, at least my parents and grandparents are, and would probably crucify me for dating a mixed girl even though she is probably a solid 8 and doesn't have black facial features. But I also feel like, if I turn her down it would also ruin our friendship.
What do I do? This shit is confusing.
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Yesterday I was contacted by a potential employer, and was unable to answer the phone. The phone call came late (7 pm) in the day, so they left a cell phone number for me to contact them at. Unfortunately I never had an opportunity to call them back and I was now wondering what is the most appropriate time to return the call? I'm assuming the earlier, the better, but there is such a thing as too early. My best guess is 9 a.m.