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I have this really stupid problem. I hate my boyfriend partying and it makes me feel like a shitty girlfriend. He doesn't really do it so much anymore, but he just got a job recently with some people that like to party and I'm scared he'll start again. I know he won't cheat or anything, I just hear all these horror stories about parties in our area that I don't want him to be a part of.
I used to hate when he smoked weed, so I just kinda forced myself not to freak out over it and eventually tried it and got myself over the fear. Thing is, I didn't think I wouldn't like smoking, and I don't think I'll like parties, because I don't particularly like people, and I REALLY don't like drunk people. I'm more of a stay at home playing video games or playing with my pets or something kind of person. I just feel like I really need to get over this because just thinking about him partying upsets me, even when he's not partying. I just want to be able to stay levelheaded (at the least) if he does go party again, and I especially don't want him to have to lie to me. I should mention, I have pretty bad anxiety and have panic attacks on about a biweekly basis...
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Alright /adv/, I know you get this a lot, but I'd still like some advice.
I have this girl in my school which I have very strong feelings for, she's in a few of my classes (germanfag in highschool btw) and I've known her for a few years since she was always in that class. She's not a girl that talks alot, she talks very few in classes, but she's not shy. You can talk to her outside of class and stuff.
But anyway, i used to be kinda close with her, i never told her my feelings thou. Now I rarely talk to her, but I want to get together with her. Also I don't know alot of her interests. What should I do to get her or at least get back in a freindship kinda level with her? would it be weird if i asked her to do something with me if i dont talk to her alot at all? Probably, right?
tl;dr: Need to get girl I knew before. Advice?
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So my gf and I have been together more than a year. She doesn't get close to people easily and doesn't have many close friends. But this one guy I live with and she have gotten pretty chummy recently when I work at night. At first I was really worried and jealous, esp when I found them cuddling once, but I trusted her and indulged her.
Anyway, this past weekend there was a party I couldn't attend cuz I was working, and she got smashed and made out with this guy, who was also smashed. She doesn't remember it but he does. I got pissed and told her that she couldn't hang out with him or text him anymore, but she thinks this is unfair.
What do you think /adv/ ?
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