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I have this really stupid problem. I hate my boyfriend partying and it makes me feel like a shitty girlfriend. He doesn't really do it so much anymore, but he just got a job recently with some people that like to party and I'm scared he'll start again. I know he won't cheat or anything, I just hear all these horror stories about parties in our area that I don't want him to be a part of.
I used to hate when he smoked weed, so I just kinda forced myself not to freak out over it and eventually tried it and got myself over the fear. Thing is, I didn't think I wouldn't like smoking, and I don't think I'll like parties, because I don't particularly like people, and I REALLY don't like drunk people. I'm more of a stay at home playing video games or playing with my pets or something kind of person. I just feel like I really need to get over this because just thinking about him partying upsets me, even when he's not partying. I just want to be able to stay levelheaded (at the least) if he does go party again, and I especially don't want him to have to lie to me. I should mention, I have pretty bad anxiety and have panic attacks on about a biweekly basis...
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Of all the tales of sorrow you will read about loves lost on this board, none is more truly doleful than mine. Because unlike the simian-types that devout their lives to monogamy because of emotional barriers, I am a champion of social circumstance, able to mold the feelings of those around me. I've never known these common man issues, which is why this loss has affected me so passionately.
The love I've lost is that of my nation. After throwing myself into even the most hungry and depraved branches of my once great country, I've been rejected and thoroughly insulted. This door has now been closed for me and I refuse to jiggle the lock, which is why I've turned my search to foreign military organizations to inflict more longstanding scars on the face of mother earth.
Two options I've been considering are as follows: Converting to Judaism and immigrating to Israel where I could join the IDF and probably be running the country in about a week.
Applying myself to the French Foreign Legion. Success is probable. I am a staple of physical and psychological prowess.
I am also curious to know if there are any other foreign military bodies that are willing to except foreign applicants. Any help would be greatly appreciated, and as a barter, I can provide advice for anything that ails you to a degree mistakable for mastery.
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What should I do /adv/? There's only a few thing in this world that make me happy, and one of them is helping people out. It's probably my favourite thing to see someone who's been going through a tough time manage to turn it around and they usually thank me for it.
The problem comes is when they clearly don't care about how I feel. Like I'll help a friend out with something that could be anything small to something serious (like helping a friend finally get treated for her bipolar), but nobody asks me how I'm doing ever. I managed to almost die this year and still nobody asked how I was.
It's not the fact that they're unthankful for my help, they say how grateful they are at the time. But eventually they'll go off to do something else now that I'm not needed, and leave me behind.
What should I change about myself to avoid this? I still want to help people since it makes me happy, but I don't want to be left behind afterwards.
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Hey /adv/. First off, I'd like to just say that this is not a troll thread. I'm not making any of this stuff up.
Well, anyway, I've known my boyfriend for a while now, we were good friends before we started dating. It's gotten to the point in our relationship where we've just become very serious about each other; making plans for our future, we have joint bank accounts, bills under both our names, we live together, etc.
Well, anyway, I've always known that he was very close to one of his female cousins, she's like a sister to him. They've always gotten along the best out of the family, even better than his own brothers, and she's always been there for him. She's talked him out of suicide and helped him recover from a really bad place, so she really means a lot to him.
Well, their relationship kind of makes the rest of the family uneasy because for a while they thought that they were actually sleeping with each other. When that happened, my boyfriend and his cousin kind of backed away from each other and put distance between them. Personally, I thought nothing of it when I first heard because their family is a bit on the conservative side. I just thought they were overreacting.
Truthfully though, I've never been able to brush it out of my head since then. And the more I think about it, the more uneasy I felt. So one night, while my boyfriend was in the shower, he had accidentally left his facebook open. I don't normally snoop around, but it had been bugging me for a while so I decided to go through his messages. I figured if I had just come out and asked him, he would have denied it. Of course, who wouldn't?
While going through it all, I found messages between them.
I don't get females
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>get rejected by 3-6/10s from craigslist OVER AND OVER AND OVER
>online friend of 4 years won't visit me (She's rich as fuck, and is just a bitch or trolling me, I don't know. She say's I'm "OMG HOT" but won't spend $3000 on a trip to visit me. Her dad is worth over $250 million)
>no girls IRL come to talk to me
>teenage girls actively distance them selves from me at night
>women act shy/hesitant around me and make it hard to talk to them
>online girls i meet all flake out
>I think i might have a handsome face. Squareish, defined features, good jawline, look mid-late 20's while early 20's.
>Shortish - 5'8"
>Semi-Thin (Not skinny twig mode, but slightly lower than average)
>Receding hairline (but I shave it down to stubble to match my face so i think it looks fine)