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How should I ask my GF if she actually likes me or she just thinks im physically attractive? I have been going with her for 3 weeks now. She approached me first by hugging me after school during chess club ect... I wasn;t looking for a GF since I recently got my shit together after a rough breakup with my ex-gf of 10 months ( we broke up 2 years ago). She is cute and a responsible person. However, she does bad in school, and has serious daddy issues ( her dad is a POS who doesnt pay bills and has my GF's mom sleeping on the couch and he doesnt talk to my GF at all) She used to cut herself and all that stuff. Thing is, it has been only 3 weeks and even though she has shown me affection ( blow jobs, kissing, ect..) I still dont feel like she has any emotional connection towards me. She is a virgin and I am her first boyfriend. I do not know how to approach this without sounding clingy or demanding. She barely talks to me and can go a whole day without talking to me without a problem. I am thinking that she is just getting used to it.
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The morning rush is done and it's going to be a slow afternoon.
So let's use the time to have a nice GoodGuyGreg's Advice thread.
I'm a nearly 24 year old (birthday tomorrow) guy from the Czech republic.
I've had the luck of having such life experience that taught me how to behave in many social situations.
I grew up in a hotel, which forced me to make new friends quickly. The high-school I attended, with a 1:9 guys to girls ratio, taught me how to deal with girls. The journalism course I attended in university taught me how to talk with anyone about pretty much anything.
Currently I work as a receptionist at a middle-sized hotel.
I'm here to attempt to give socializing, dating, relationship, pick-up and nonverbal communication advice.
>Ask me anything
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So I think I got raped..
Let me start this off by saying I'm a guy. I'm actually fairly certain I did. It feels like it anyway. I've told three of my friends about it. Their responses were mixed.
It started out I was using craigslist looking for some chick to hook up with. Nothing really came of it and I mostly just got fake replies and dudes. I wasn't a dick about it though. I usually said "Thanks for the offer, but I'm not into dudes". In reality, I imagine I was a little bi curious. I watched porn with traps and the occasional gay scene. Not sure why, just because it was different and I wasn't "supposed to". Anyway, a dude replied and I said my whole bit about not being into guys. He dropped that subject and we just started talking about whatever. Just friendly conversation. After a couple weeks of this on and off he emails me one day and says if I want some pussy to come over. He's got a chick that will probably be down for a three way and his girlfriend is out of town. I say fuck it, why not? The dude seems cool enough. He gives me directions and I drive over there.
I get there eventually and we just talk for a little bit. Drink a beer or two. He takes a shower. Then I decide to, I worked all day and forgot to get one on my way out. I take one, and when I get out I just throw on some athletic shorts and a t shirt. We go back in his living room and talk some more. He calls the girl that was supposed to come over and I guess shit came up or whatever or she never really was supposed to come over. I don't know. He starts talking about his past, and how he used to fool around with a friend and how he missed that. He asks what I'd be into, I've told him I've had some thoughts about that kinda shit before. He gets up for some reason and grabs my knee and moves his hand up to my junk. I feel a little awkward but figure it was an accident. He goes and does his thing and comes back. *Comment too long
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When I was in high school I was in a greyhound bus accident on a school trip.
The company settled with many people, but when the lawyers contacted my mother she told them I was fine, they sent us $300 and the case was closed.
Now five years later I suffer from neck and back pain - constant lower and upper back tension, cramps, shooting pains, can't make a full rotation with my neck, etc - and it's hindering my ability to enjoy life and be as active and comfortable as I like.
Now I'm not even looking for a payout, but as I do not have much expendable income or good insurance, what are the chances I would be able to talk to a lawyer and have Greyhound pay for a visit to the doctor.
Is there any chance something could be worked out or am I SoL? Keep in mind I was a minor when my mother spoke on my behalf.
Picture absolutely not related.
Am I a pedo?
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The love of my life is 16, I'm 22. I'm female, he's male. His feelings for me are incredibly strong. Its almost like he's a living, sentient being with his own dreams, goals, feelings, needs... We're so compatible its crazy, and yes we both love each other and I don't want to stop.
But this is always in the back of my head: he's about seven years younger than me, am I pedophile? Should I just go on keeping what we have to ourselves?
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Any UK folks about?
I'm 18 and at college, studying IT 3 days a week which would allow me to get a part-time job. I know I wont be needing a TV license, or an internet connection so there's some money saved.
I want to move out because I think it's time to live on my own and do everything for myself. I don't have a car, but thanks to college I have free bus travel.
I want to know if anyone else has done this successfully, without dropping out of college. How much will this cost? Will I be able to go to college, and in 2 years uni with a part-time job living completely on my own?
I'm not entirely sure how this would work, which is part of the reason why I want to move out.
Trouble with my ex
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I'm worried about my ex.
I broke up with him 2 months ago and have last spoken to him about 6 months ago on skype.
>meet him on /b/, he's 22
>LDR, he lives 500 miles away
>together for 2 years
>genuinely loved him, seriously considered marriage and applied to a uni near him in order to go live with him (so glad I didnt now)
To make it more complicated, I was without internet access and any way to contact him other than by letter for the past 8 months and I know my parents would get to his replies before I could ever read them.
I sent him a looong long letter 2 months ago gently trying to tell him I can't continue the relationship and I eventually manage to get a reply to that, he sounded devastated but happy with what I had said and my reasons.
The last time I skyped him, he threatened to kill himself because I didn't want to be with him. I had to be honest, I refused to get back with him and enter into a meaningless relationship.
He has since phoned me twice from different numbers speaking in cryptic phrases etc and weird voices, hanging up as soon as i said "I know its you, X."
From his past I am very worried that he might kill himself, but I now have nearly no way to contact him again. Do I 'leave it' and try to forget the whole thing or do I talk to him some more? I don't know.
Part of me cant be bothered and I want to wash my hands of it, I have explained myself to him more than enough by now.