DID I FUCK UP?
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So this girl I really like and get along with keeps coming over for coffee, a beer, a movie or just small-talk. Last night we were up for hours just getting drunk, singing karaoke and shooting shit, talking about people we both know as well as our love lives. At some point, we were even wrestling around on my bed for shits and giggles - I can't think of a better way to describe it really. We were up until 5 AM and keep in mind she had work in the morning and we live in the same building, so she really shouldn't have stayed for so long. At some point, she nonchalantly asked if she could stay for the night and I agreed.
She wanted to put on a tee-shirt of mine to be more cozy, and started taking off her tee-shirt without closing the door behind her. To the point where she started undoing the staples of her bra with her back turned to me. At that point, I just closed the door and started getting changed as well. We snuggled up in the bed (it's only 1-place) and I started watching an episode of a TV show. She watched a few minutes of it with me silently, not answering what I was telling her, but then she just lied down and closed her eyes, her body turned in my direction.
Eventually the episode ended and I fell asleep. The next morning she just got dressed and left almost without saying a word. It's only afterwards that I started thinking about what happened with more clarity of mind.
Do you think she was waiting for me to make a move? If yes, how bad did I fuck up? Is this salvageable? At that point I'm almost hoping for me to be delusioned because I'm not sure I could stomach missing an opportunity like this.
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What's a wiser path: Going for a masters in a field I think I'd like in the future, that pays around $90,000 a year, but is not a guaranteed job. Or should I go for an associates in a field that I'd be okay with, but it practically guarantees a decent paying job around $70,000 a year.
Please help guys. I don't want to make a mistake with so much money going into this university.
My parents set me up with a date - total disaster
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I'm currently at marrying age and not seeing anyone. My parents are constantly asking me why I'm not seeing anyone and I usually say I'm busy at work and have other things in mind.
They seriously want a grand child already but since my younger brother is already dead and my older sister is a lesbian, I am probably their only kid that can give them their wish.
So lately they set me up with a woman for a date. She looks really qt but what turns me off is that I feel she's a gold digger. On the first date alone, she's already asking me to buy her stuff. My parents we're the one who set up the date as well but I'm the one who paid $50 for the dinner. I'm not being a cheap ass but seriously, I haven't dated anyone who is asking for stuff on the first date.
Now, how do I explain to my parents that I don't like this girl? For the record, I'm not in a hurry to get married even though most if not all my friends are married or engaged.
SOB STORY TIME YEAH YEAH YEAH
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Hey /adv/ so I'm just gonna get straight to the point like I always do
Made about a million of these threads before so one more can't hurt
Alright so pretty much the only reason I haven't blown my brains out is because I don't have the means to do it. My life is shit. I'm 23 years old(big surprise there huh yeah i'll bet), been out of college for a year, haven't done a goddamn thing because my degree was pretty much worthless, and I'm just wasting away.
I feel so old, and I feel like I've accomplished next to nothing. I've tried to do so many things but never succeeded at any of them or I never even tried or thought to try: I've never achieved true fluency in a foreign language, I don't understand how to play or read music even though I want to, I can't really draw and haven't tried since I haven't had inspiration in over 10 years, I can't do math, I can't do shit. I'm worthless. I'm a leech. And I feel so fucking old, man. I'm at the point where there's no reason to bother trying to develop myself anymore, so why bother?
And meanwhile the US is shit and getting shittier and the rest of the world is falling apart in other ways and it's like what's the point in even trying anymore? Even if I were worth a shit is it even gonna matter before long? Are we even gonna have a planet in a year?
Sorry for the mess /adv/ but I'm at the end of my rope. This is rock bottom
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Riddle me this /b/
>Girl ive known 6 years
>started talking to her again after a year of not talking
>Has a boyfriend, so were friends again
>Automatically is comfortable and calls me best friend again
>3 weeks before thanksgiving, they break up
>Have had feelings for her, and shes known this and missed me
>We start flirting, I take her on dates, spoil her, surprise her etc.
>Spend as much time together as we can get
>then I take her out under the stars and have a deep conversation about our feelings
>Find out we both love eachother and miss eachother.
>We start acting like were in a relationship, (Kissing, cuddling, couple cutsey shit)
>Her best friend comes back from the air force who she hasn’t seen in two years
>Starts talking about him a lot and how shes missed him.
>She wants to stay the night at his house to catch up and hang out with family
>No big deal, ive known both of them
>Fast forward to now.
>She loves him and has brushed off everything ive done for her, to be with him
>Mother fucker leaves tomorrow for air force base on other side of country
>Mfw theyre dating now, and she sets me up with her friend.
I guess 6 years of friendship and spoiling her like none of the other guys in her life have done before don’t mean anything to her. And im just so in denial and rage because I never do anything like this for a girl unless im in love with them, and this is the second girl ive been legit in love with. What the fuck do /b/??