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I can't treat women like shit...

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Can anyone else just not fucking treat women like shit? My friend was telling me "Dude, in order to actually get anything out of women... you have to treat them like dog shit or like they don't matter. If you treat them normally then you are just doomed to fail because women have a lot of power when you treat them like a normal person. The trick is to get HER to invest more in you and not the other way around." Basically... I don't want to hurt anyone but I am really lonely. I like really desperate because of this but I just can't bring myself to treat a woman like dog shit. Its just not in my nature. What does it mean? Why do I have such a hard time treating women like dog shit? I just want to experience... romance and relationships? I am 24 and never had a girlfriend. Its getting crazy...
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Can we have an social anxiety thread? How do you overcome? tips for overcoming? or just share your feelings.
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Wife of 6 years walked out. Lived together 5 years before that. I'm 32, no kids. She says she is not sure if she will come back. Life sucks. Wanted somebody to know.
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I'm graduating this year with an engineering degree... I have an offer for 75k out of college and I plan to take it, but there's 1 problem: they randomly drug test and I'm so sad about having to quit weed until I retire. I haven't smoked since August so I'll definitely pass any drug test they give me, but I'm just super bummed out. Has anybody else ever been in this position? Did you grow out of it? Also, is there any GOOD alternative where I can smoke after work (I'd never be high at work) and not get tested randomly? Do engineering firms like that exist?

Starting relationship advice please.

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Sup /adv/ i need some advice regarding a girl i like. So my brother is married to a mexican and her sister came over for about 2 months, now there was something going on between us but she doesn't want a long distance relationship. We did make out after getting drunk but she seemed to regret doing it. She's gone home for now and won't be back for quite a while. So how do i make her fall in love with me? I'll be more then happy to provide additional info or pics if requested. Thanks in advance.

Dual Purpose Thread

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>1st: I am offering advice, AMA style, to anyone who needs it.** >2nd: If you can into interpersonal relations & conflict resolution, please read the rest of the OP. I've hit a block and outside perspective would be greatly appreciated. Situation: Older married couple. Shoddy communication. Long-standing unresolved and unaddressed issues. Generally speaking, neither is more in the right or in the wrong than the other. It's all come to a head recently (starting ~5 months ago). 1 month ago: The full extent of this was brought to my attention. They were on their way to calling it quits. She had essentially given up; he had not (though she thought otherwise); and both believed it was hopeless regardless. Currently: The love is still there, and there are a number of reasons neither of them can feel it being returned anymore. Both would (ideally) prefer to remain together. She is still torn over wanting out yet not wanting to actually get out. They are both now aware of all these things. The stance he's decided to take: actively putting effort toward progress and resolution. The stance she's decided to take: being difficult for the sake of being difficult. I understand what's motivating her but I'm not sure how to proceed at this point. What's best practice here? ** I'm neither judgmental nor wishy-washy. Forthright and thoughtful input if I can help; won't pretend otherwise if I can't. >This isn't a conditional offer, just a constructive way to maybe keep the thread bumped a bit longer. If all you want to do is ask a question and get an answer to it, that's totally okay. I'll try to respond to everything that gets posted.
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I need to make a couple hundred bucks so I can afford to buy this motorscooter on craigslist. The listing for the scooter is 900. The guy said if I paid him 800 I can pay the last hundred off later. My friends tell me it looks fucking shady because the guy in the ad says he has throat cancer and cant talk. I don't really care, I just want this motorbike. Anyways, I get paid about 430 by Friday. I have 100 in my account. I could take money out of my Roth IRA but I don't really want to. I have some friends with money but I don't really want to have to go to them. This month I did go to my parents and tell them to cut my allowance. (I'm fucking 27 and they still give me an allowance cause they are putting me through college, so I am super beholden) I told them to lower my allowance because I just got a job so I figured I could do with a little less and it would help them out. If I really wanted to I could go to them and tell them about the situation but I dont really want to do that. How much does selling your blood/plasma give? I am not tall enough for sperm donation. I actually had a temp agency job that was going to give me a few extra hundred this Friday but the job ended up finishing last week. My gf has also offered to loan me the cash but I also feel fucking weird about it since we been together for only a year. We share a lot of things but I won't be able to pay her back till a few weeks and I'm afraid I will feel beholden to her and she will rub in my debt by making jokes (which I think may be kinda funny but am also afraid I will be seriously hurt by) I've tried selling some of my things that are worthwhile on craigslist but only scammers asking to pay with check are replying to my listing for my NS WAV Electric Violin that is worth 800. You think a pawn shop might give me at least 200?

ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

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Never comes back

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So many of my friends have ex girlfriends that have come back to them, or at least still talk/text them every now and then. The girl I dated for almost 3 years broke up with me, got into a relationship with someone else 4 weeks later, and doesnt talk to me at all. They have been dating for 3 months now. I dont try to talk to her and blocked her from all social media. But why am I different? Why do all my friends ex girlfriends still at least text them every now and then and my ex just totally erased me from her memory?
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how do I end OCD? >constant intrusive unwanted thoughts I've tried therapy, prescription drugs, exercising... pretty much everything.. nothing is working.. this is ruining my life.. i wake up scared of what thoughts will come into my mind and when I sleep I don't even get any relief from the anxiety/thoughts.. my dreams turn into the things I avoid thinking about during the day and its worsening every day, been like this for years.. but recently (past couple of years) it has gotten out of control. I've been drinking a lot and was on xanax for a while (only two things that give me some relief) what do i do?
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Tips and advice on being a webcam girl? I don't need to make a living off of it but I wouldn't mind getting paid a little for it I've done it for fun a few times and they seem to like my big boobs and butt.
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What do you think of my jumping side kick?
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How do I quit cancer sticks?
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Hey, /adv/, I have a problem and I thought I'd come to you. I have been in a relationship with this girl for a month now. It's actually the first real relationship I've been in since ever, not counting a kinda 'friends-with-benefits' relationship I had a few years ago. Anyhow, it's been great and I really really like her, though in the sex department, there isn't really much going on yet. We make out all the time, but haven't actually had sex yet. I finger her sometimes, she once stroked me over my pants, but only because I kinda led her to the area. Last time we were going at it, I tried to kinda lead her hand to my dick a bit but she didn't do anything. Whenever we do anything sex related she seems to enjoy it, she also said so, but she lays there.. not doing much. Main problem is we have so little time to spend together since we're both busy and shit, also her parents are quite strict so they won't let me or her sleepover. I've been obsessing over this.. I just think sex is important in a healthy relationship. I've learned that I'm quite insecure, and this doesn't help. I wanna talk to her about it, but I just don't know what to say. I don't know.. what are your thoughts on this? pic unrelated
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Any advice on how to GAS THE KIKES RACE WAR NOW? Thanks in /adv/ance
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Sup /adv/ I have depression and I've been on antidepressants for about four months. I think I've had it since I was around 12, and it's been so long (8 years) that, until recently, I thought it was just who I was. I was hesitant to call myself depressed because it was normal - for me. I thought that the situation I was in 4-6 months ago, which put me on antidepressants, was a temporary depression but I've realised it was actually one episode of major depression occurring within a general depression that perhaps would be more accurately termed dysthymia. Often, I am quite socially withdrawn. I can't think of things to say, so I say nothing. Occasionally, though, I am lively, energetic, animated, engaging, even charming; words come easily, I can talk to everyone (even strangers) and I'm quick-witted and funny. I also fidget less, and, if it happened while I was doing work, I would probably also be a lot more productive. I don't need alcohol or other drugs to get into this state, so I believe this is who I really am. I'm not introverted like I always thought; I'm an extrovert with depression. My real personality has been subsumed by an inferior, boring, awkward version of myself. I was always talkative as a child and I can be as an adult. My question is this: I want to learn how to produce this state naturally. So, how do I? Could a therapist teach me how to do it? I don't expect to be like it all the time, but I'd like to swing the ratio back into my favour. Right now it's probably about 80% in favour of apathetic and dull. >tl;dr Have depression/dysthymia; occasionally show secret charismatic personality; want to be charismatic more often; what do? pic unrelated

Appreciation Thread

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We need something positive in here. What makes you happy, anons? For me, it's when the man I'm seeing delicately kisses my hand. It's a simple gesture, but makes me feel so wonderful.

Girlfriend losing interest?

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I've been seeing this girl for a couple months now and things have been mostly good. However I think I fucked up. We went out last week to the bars with some coworkers. I don't really go out much as I don't really drink, she does. Well after bar close we went back to one of our coworkers places. At this time her and her friend were pretty drunk. Then everybody went to the basement and was passing around a joint. I don't smoke weed and was feeling pretty uncomfortable. Not just cause of the weed, I'm just weird socially. Long story short, my girlfriend and I ended up arguing about me leaving and her staying and I made her cry. Since then she's been fairly distant from me. She just gives short replies to my texts, canceled plans to stay the night twice, and barely makes physical contact when we're together instead of being all over me like before. Anyway, last night I sent her a text asking if everything was cool between us. She never replied. Then in the morning I sent her a text just saying have a nice day. She ended up replying to that 5 hours later just saying "you too" ignoring the other one. She just sent me a text asking me what my plans were for today. Do I reply like nothing is wrong or just ignore her or what? I'm just confused on what to do...
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How can I motivate myself to do something? Right now I don't want to do anything but lying in bed and sleep. Even the things I used to like bring me no satisfaction (e.g: anime and movies, videogames, novels), and is not that I don't like any of those, I just don't care anymore.I'm not sad anymore, but I'm not happy or anything.

25 Never Had a GF

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I have ever have had a girlfriend. I see couples everywhere and I am constantly reminded I'll never experience that because of my height. Thugs that made my life hell have no trouble with women meanwhile I'm fucked due to something I can't change. The loneliness is slowly killing me inside. I missed out all of the good stuff I don't get to experience any of it because of my height. It's truely to late for me isn't it? No girl will want a guy with my level of experience.






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