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Okay 4chan - this is a question that has beset me for some time now. It deals with a morally gray area - and I'm sorry if it makes you uncomfortable.
I am 20, and attracted to younger girls. 13-16 year old girls are a predominate attraction for me. I browse sites like cutechan, ilovenonude, and primejailbait pretty consistantly. I also lurk loli boards on /b/. I never view nude photographs. I don't download, or distribute these pictures, although I know that they are stored on a permanent, invisible cache of my computer.
I live in the US and am concerned about legal ramifications. I'm genuinely preeetty fucking scared. In my opinion, US law is determined largely by victorian-era morality and frankly, I think there's nothing objectively immoral about my feelings.
/adv/, am I going to inevitably have feds knock on my door one day? Going to jail for this is no joke - people going to jail on these charges either get murdered, or survive a 5+ year sentance only to live being branded a pedophile. Because actually, I'm NOT a pedo. I like young girls, not kids.
Should I be worried? What should I do? Good advice determines future course of actions.
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My husband is smothering, and refuses to give me space.
Whenever we argue, I tell him I need some space to cool off for a few minutes in order to not have it escalate, he does the exact opposite and follows me wherever I go and basically backs me into a corner until I go off on him. I tell him repeatedly to stop and leave me alone, but it's like the word has no meaning to him.
Even when it's a minor argument, he'll start to say manipulative bullshit like "you're going to leave me and if you do i'll kill myself." Part of me is afraid that he actually might go through with it if I divorce him.
I'm SO tired of it. And he never learns. The only way I can get away from him is by getting in my car and driving off. But then he'll repeatedly call and text me. Or he'll actually get in his car and follow me.
How the fuck can I tell him to leave me alone during an argument? I'm afraid this shit is only going to get worse.
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>Been with girl for 5 years, been living together for 4
>Was planning on proposing to her before the year is out
>Yesterday afternoon I found out she cheated on me 2 years ago with some random, she came out with it and told me herself
>Lost my shit
>Put my fist through the wall in our bedroom
>She tried to hug me to "calm me down", kept telling me how much she loved me and shit
>Shoved her off of me and called her a fucking bitch, and that if she loved me she wouldn't have cheated on me
>Left the house, got in my car
>She got in hers, and tried to follow me
>She got caught at a red, and I lost her
>Drove 2 and a half hours to my parents where I'm staying right now
I'm so fucking furious its insane. I'm surprised I made the drive here without running my car into something yesterday. I didn't even sleep last night, not even a few minutes.
She has literally called me a 103 times since yesterday. Left a bunch of voice messages, talking about how much she loved me and shit, sounded really panicked. I sent her a text telling her to kill herself, so she left some more messages crying and shit.
What the fuck do I do now?
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I'm terrified of life /adv/. I feel like anyone I could meet, any place I could go, at any time of any day, I could die without a moment's notice.
Why should I bother getting anything done when someone could smash my door down and shoot/stab/burn me to death without me getting a chance to fight back?
Why should I get fit when someone out there could end all that effort with the press of a trigger instantly?
Just why? Even out here, with my relatives that I'm visiting, out in nowhere outside of a city, pretty much in the farmland, anyone could just roll up with a car unnoticed, waltz in and murder us without a moment's notice.
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>Friends with my ex-gf
>We're hanging out one day, she has new bf and we've both seen other people since
>Mentions that she took nudes for her new bf
>Tell her that its a bad idea as she works with children, its her dream to work with children, and her field requires a great deal of professional credibility
>she complains that I'm "not her dad"
>tells me that if her nudes end up online she'll blame me for it because I "talked about it happening" and they don't have face anyway
>I don't even have nudes of her, that's completely irrational
>she has a new bf (again)
>browsing the interwebs
>see her nudes, with face in some of them
Do I tell her, or let her find out on her own?
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>Share a house with 4 other people
>Have a roommate, he's 25 years old, let's call him Tom (I'm a 23 y/o female btw)
>He's usually a pretty okay guy, he's nice to talk to, fun to party with, cooks dinner for all of us from time to time, cleans up after himself etc,
He's a decent roommate, I'm not going to complain about his habbits or anything, but lately he's really been pissing me off and disguisting me and I want him to either change or leave and I don't know how to convince my roommates to side with me on this one (one other female roommate agrees with me, another is on the fence, the guys aren't saying anything, but they're generally indecisive and I think they're afraid of getting into an argument with Tom)
So let me explain what's happening.
Tom graduated from university like a month ago or something like that, so right off the back, you guys understand what kind of person he is, being just out of school and he's 25, people have families at that age and are actual fucking adults who don't even party anymore, have serious careers etc. he parties, goes to clubs and shit like that.
Now here's what bothers me the most
>Is constantly bringing home little girls (One time I asked a girl how old she was and she was fucking 18 for fucks sake, this guy is TWENT, FUCKING, FIVE.)
>I mean CONSTANTLY bringing home strange women and having sex with him, sometimes those women sleep over and I have to get dressed for work with some drunk kid stumbling around the house or them sleeping on the couch
>Brings his buddies over some time and they occupy the kitchen for the entire night, sitting at the kitchen table, playing cards and drinking, end up sleeping on our couch
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Okay, literally my second time posting on 4chan period, and the first time was quite an experience ugh. But here goes. My boyfriend ended it a bit ago. Range of stuff, depression, I'm an anxious fuck and ruined things, he deals better alone at times, etc. There's no telling what'll happen. He wants to work on himself and that's all fine. He said we weren't done for good and that our relationship isn't his goal, yet he can't promise the opposite either. Sort of a "whatever happens, happens" sort of deal. And even so, if it were to happen, it wouldn't be for a long time. That said, I'm having trouble digesting all of this. Try, lying in bed for days on end crying upset. He told me things like "no man will ever love you like I do." Cry if I cried, got generally upset at any moment I seemed unhappy yet now this? And he doesn't seem to care? How does this work. I talked to a couple of his "friends" now- though he should be careful because they don't seem much like friends- telling me he's literally insane and goes on noble conquests to find himself since they can remember. One was basically like, "he broke up with you because you picked fights. How faggoty is that" but ugh is something wrong with ME because I CAN'T get myself to believe that he's anything but a good person. I knew him well, so I thought, loved the absolute shit out of him, and now hearing things like this makes me question if everything I knew was a lie. What do I do?
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It is currently 4:37am, my nan, sister and little brother are asleep.
Night time is the only time I get to watch anime on my big TV in the lounge room. My delema is, do I begin to watch a 2hour and 40 minute long anime movie or do I grab the ps3 sneak quietly back into my room and play darksouls while I wait for tomorrow night to watch the movie. I ask this due to the fact that I don't want to be interruped, at all, and my nan is 68 and gets up approx every 2 hours, so if I stay I run the risk of her waking up and ruining my animevibes, and as well as that I run the risk of my 2 younger siblings waking up and annoying me.
What do I do /adv?