Return of the ex?
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> be me 22, dating 29 year old single mom in february 2014
>love each other etc (shes my first love)
> fast-forward to august fall semester begins and I cannot pay her enough attention because school and work
> She messages me that "im gonna let you go, you need to focus on you and your goals if I am truly the girl you claim then the right time will come"
> Agree tell her im not gonna force her into anything, I will always love her, and it isnt fair for me to make her wait for my career and be financially successful for her, I wish my love was enough and that you would take a leap of faith with me
> 2 months go by without seeing or talking to her
> Text her I passed my classes and catch up for a little bit, tells me shes proud of me
>I stop texting her for a week
> Ask her if she would consider talking to me in person
> Her: 'I dont know....I am pretty upset"
> Tell her I dont want us to be strangers at the very least
> Her: Ok....
> Ask her again and she says " Ok we can talk"
> Ask her if she can see me tonight
> Her: "Sorry...you know I am watching my cards(football team). they need to win!! I will try!"
> Me: Oh
> never texted me back that night
> Decide to write her something of a love letter and roses
> Give it to her co-worker so she can surprise her and I leave.
>Her: I received the flowers and letter both are beautiful thank you. But please move on. I have and I am going to continue to. I am proud of your accomplishments and know you are going to have so much more. I wish and pray nothing but the best for you. Take care.
> Her: (again) : I am at work please dont respond or make it harder, your young and handsome and talented, keep doing you -name-
> utterly heartbroken
> Me: I dont get it ? Why do you choose to give up? Are you seeing someone
>Her: Yes I am. I am happy.
>Me: you said when the time was right our time will come....how can you do this to me. You dont love me anymore?
>Her: No. Please leave me alone -name-
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2 new years resolutions been made..
Firstly: quit smoking
Secondly: Confronting my ex!
It's been 3 years and I havent been able to gt hr out of mind, Itbothers me 24/7 - 365.. I think it might be that we had to nice of a break-up..
We just sort of "agrred" upon it but I never accepted it.. I feel like I need to throw some well considered words her direction, get angry and let her know that things where fucked from my pov..
There was another guy involved, she never came clean about it but there was (she ended up with the guy in question barely a month after)..
I just need her to know how unfair, fucked up, bad and unrespectful the break-up was!
How would such a speech be crafted?
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Tell me where you live and about the women you know?
I need to have a confidence boost. Not because I can't get a girlfriend, but because I can't get a good one, and my prospects of changing that seem slim.
I live in the Pacific Northwest. All the girls I've dated, all of my female friends, all of my friend's female friends, hell, even my female relatives, they're all the same: They're total countrygirls. They love mudding, and country music, shooting guns, working on cars, camping, hunting, camoflauge clothing for casual wear, football, cowboy belt buckles...
I hate the country. I hate the outdoors. I hate camping and sports. I don't care what I drive. Why, why is it like this? Where are the women who wear pink, love to shop and to go out on the town in a little black dress? Where are the girls afraid of spiders and unwilling to open mayo jars for fear of breaking a nail?
Please tell me you have them where you live.
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Any advice for a first time stay in jail? Not prison, but jail?
I was recently cited for doing 85 in a 70 in VA. For those unfamiliar with VA's driving laws, anything over 80 brings an automatic reckless driving charge which allows for up to a year in jail, among other punishments. Even those with an otherwise clean record *AHEM* may very well see time in jail.
Not prison, but jail. Not as harsh as prison but that's not to detract from it's seriousness. Anyway, in the event that I am sentenced to time behind bars, does anyone have any advice on paying my debt to society and getting out safely?
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So, uh, hey, what's up? I think I might have autism.
Is there a way I can get tested without having my personal information recorded? If I am actually autistic, I don't want to be labelled as such, but that's what happens when a doctor finds out you are autistic, at least from what I've been told by others. I've heard many horror stories about this sort of stuff.
I don't think there is a way, but who knows? Maybe you guys...
How should a guy act towards his crush?
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In the past I've had low confidence and fear of rejection, so all of my experiences with girls came after they made the first move. I've decided it's time to grow up and take the initiative myself if I like a girl. The only thing is, because I've been so defensive and never done it before, I've actually got no idea of what to do.
So how should I act around a girl I have a crush on? All tips and advice, from guys or girls, is greatly appreciated.