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ok guys need some help. I'm a depressed person, been so since my early teens. have some problems functioning normally after my relationship of 4 years ended early last year. Got back together with that chick, but still didnt feel better... Now a year later I'm back were I started. depressed as hell >going on paxil in a few hours >dont know what to expect. >need help...
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>cute girl i've liked for a long time >good girl too, no kids, graduated college, does a lot of community work >only know her because back in elementary school my best friends knew her >dont think ive ever really talked to her as far as i can remember >thinking about hitting her up on fb and talking to her i can't use the recently added line because she added me back in 2010. i can't use really any line about our old friendship either since we never had one. is it a bad idea to message her? if not, what should i even say?
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Hey guys After a pretty long time beeing single it kinda begins to bug me... am i ugly? I have never really been into dating girls and stuff like that but i think i got into that age (i'm 19) where i sometimes really wish to be with a girl. Nothing special so far, everyone experiences these things, right? But the real question now: how good looking am i? i want to look out for girls "in my league" and i really have no plan where to begin. asking my friends seems dumb to me, because my good friends will tell me i am good looking and my best friends will tell me that i look like a peace of shit lol. so, how do i know how good looking i am (on a scala from 0-10, for example)? sry for my bad english - not my mother tongue

Need To Disappear On The Web

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Hi guys, I have a problem. Latetly I am worried about all the information that is out there on the internet about me. For the past 3 months I have been trying to find all possible information about me and get rid of it. Yes I have facebooks, twitters, youtubes, etc. But what about all those stupid games I signed up for and still have that pop up when I put in my username on google search? I just wan't as much information taken off search results as I can. I'm going through like a total internet reform, and saving only certain, very important things on a hard drive. Restarting my computer, and re doing all this, redoing my internet life as a different name, too make things harder for outsiders to identify who I am. To start new life.


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Hey guys I need help dealing with my nephews. I'm seriously mad at my sister because they are a bunch of brats and I can´t stand it anymore. I'm trying to be cool about this situation but I can't. I want yell but I'm not going to do it. Seriously, what should I do to calm myself?
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Hey /adv/, I was putting a lot of thought into the subject of dating, and I was hoping for feedback on an idea. I see a lot of people complaining about slutiness, virginity, and experience in dating, and I think it's extreme to only favor virgins only since you deny yourself and your partner of experiences. At the same time, it's extreme to say virginity doesn't matter at all since constant sexual activity seems to degrade values of love and intimacy. So I think there's a middle ground: the virgin romance. The proposition is that there is no issue with dating others with romantic experience so long as you yourself experience a virgin romance. What I mean by this is having first felt mutual feelings for a partner who is also just as inexperienced in love as you before you either stay together or move on. Sex is optional. If you move on, then experiencing modes of intimacy with others regardless of their sexual endeavors shouldn't matter. The reason this is favorable to both of the conventional positions I mentioned above is because it grants the individual the privilege to decide feelings for his or herself. A virgin dating an experienced partner corrupts, in a sense, the virgin's feelings towards what love ideally ought to be. Instead of adopting the ideas and inclinations that others would impose upon a virgin in a relationship, the individual explores his or her own personal feelings. Adopting social opinions denies the individual access to search for subjective perceptions of truth (this is sort of an adaptation of Emerson's and Nietzsche's conceptions of experience). So, I propose that for the best way to find love, you ought to first experience feelings with someone as inexperienced as yourself. This is to maximize the individual's ability to interpret his or her own interpretation of the world without the nudges of a partner's experiences. >kv in college majoring in philosophy Am I socially retarded, over romantic or what?

Ex girlfriend contacts me, now needs space

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Hello fellow OP My former girlfriend who I broke up with 2 years ago and I started seeing eachother about 2 months ago. We had sex, fun, everything was perfect. (She had a boyfriend who was on vacation). Then she broke up with him, and I thought "this is it" my life is complete. But then she gets from hot to cold and says she needs space and just wants to be friends with both me and her boyfriend. I then get devastated and decide that she has to make next move. We then catchup again in end december and end up spending new years eve together and everything seemed fine again. Then 3 days later she says she needs time and space again "to find herself" and when she knows what she want, she will come back. What should I do? Is she just telling me that I'm her backup while she fucks a ton of other guys out there? Please help <3

please need advice

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Hello /adv My problem is that I have stress at school. I'm beeing bullied, and they are doing everything to provoke me. The problem is that I can't concentrate at school, also it's destroying my self confidence. I don't know anymore what to do. I tried laughing at it, repaying these attacks, talking to them, but whatever I do they attack me even more. Also it's already weeks like this and I think I can't take it anymore. I want to punch my fist into those stupid faces so badly but in the end something is holding me back... I'm scared to get a fine to pay them for attacking or loose my job. Don't know if this is possible? If they provoke me like pushing me or saying offensive things do I have the right to hit em? I hope so, because it's soon happening I think. But I don't want it this way, can you give me advice how to resolve this please? Also how can I get my self confidence back? I know that I shouldn't care what others think or talk about me but somehow it concerns me... how can I fully neglect these feelings? Any tips?
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So since new years eve i have had this fucking sore throat Its terrible every time i swallow it feels like im swallowing a whole fucking mouthfull of marbles My fucking nose is completely jammed and i sleep for thrree hours a night because of this shit. The waking up is the worst shit ever, it feels so fucking bad.. Should i go to the doctor with this or what is wrong?
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How do i start caring again about stuff I havent cleaned my room in like 2 years. Havent changed bedsheets in over a year After a while you just dont see it anymore Pic related its my bed

I legitimate hate memes

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This isn't meant to be ironic, shitposting, whatever the fuck; but I've grown a legitimate hate for memes. Literally everything in pop culture has become a meme in my eyes. I even think the Ferguson riots are a fucking meme. This is interfering with my everyday life, and I want to get your take on how to resolve this. Even a remedy would be nice. The reason for this is mostly /tv/
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Girl I'm seeing bursts out into hysterical laughter whenever we kiss. Is it just nerves/anxiety or is my past life as a court jester coming back to haunt me?

Ask the opposite gender thread

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Hi All It's me again. >Wife ran off to her mom's with our baby because she is mad I lost the temp job I had due to a hostile workplace incident. >Seeking new jobs Wife came back yesterday and we hashed it out and it sounded like we were making progress. She then left...baby got sick and she was up all night alone, (so I guess that kinda went my way because she realized how helpful I am with that usually) but she sounded like we were breaking ground. She wants to go to counseling with me. She came back today to give me some time with the baby. I ended up speaking for 3 hours with her saying very little then she threw in some harsh words. She's basically in her head comparing me to our lazy sister-in-law who is a stay-at-home mom making her brother miserable. She finally partially admitted that today. I told her straight up I hate not working. Anyway, I told her she was basically breaking her vows and abandoning me with this because even if I find a job, she's threatening it to be over if I'm not stable by March or if I end up unemployed again. Yet, I would NEVER do that to her. It was obvious from our convo she has a lot of unresolved financial worries because she was careless with the credit cards. I've been working hard with the unemployment office to find a job. I have 1 maybe 2 interviews tomorrow, 1 is a job like my old job. Then I have a really good interview on Monday that my friend helped me with.

Fucking people man

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How do you deal with people? Normally when someone says something really fucking stupid I just play along and go away because its less of a hassle to call them out. I get so sick of all the bullshit people spew that its become natural to take it. My mother, as much as I love and appreciate her, is a master of this and can be selfish. My dad does something similar. I'm tempted to go ahead and go full blast, and by that I mean call out all the shit I hear. Everyone would think I'm an asshole and I would probably be more isolated than ever. I find it to be a weakness that I accommodate others and listen to their shit, or can't confront them. I hate being weak. God it makes me so mad thinking about this shit. I can't even sleep. Stories about this welcome. Example: stupid whore I fucked, tries to justify using her body and self to be a girl for a sugar daddy, men who pay for "companionship". Basically just be their close friend and you get paid shit loads of money. Turns down like $20,000 a year + allowance for being a companion like twice a week for no more than an hour on the basis "He's being cheap". Mind you, a poor college student. She then goes on to try and justify the entire "Sugar Daddy" concept and being a girl for them without directly saying anything. Me: Well, people do whatever they need to do right? >What I would want to say: Its a pathetic thing and its sad that you try and justify yourself in doing this, either accept the fact of how lowly it is to do this and to be a "sugar daddy" or don't do it at all. I don't need to hear this bullshit when I'm in my room. Get out. I don't want friends or people around me anymore. Am I just an asshole?
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/adv/, I've had no human contact outside of the internet for over a decade now, other than family, literally none. I was pulled out of school at 10 and homeschooled, I've been in my room ever since playing video games and educating myself via online courses etc. High School - Online College - Online Job - Online The extent of my contact with other people has been the cashier at 7-11 who works night-shifts. How do I break out of this? I have no life outside of the internet, internet friends, internet relationships, video games etc. I don't want to be alone forever...
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Is life worth living if you're going to be alone forever (in terms of an SO)? Serious question, because I'm pretty sure I will be alone forever. There's no logical scenario I can come up with in my mind in which I have a loving girlfriend/wife

My friend married a random guy she met off the internet in five days?

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Have a serious problem. >best friend of three years >most amazing human being i have ever met >so loving >we were more than sisters, we understood each other in a way most people can only imagine >would stay up nights together, do crazy shit together >we would laugh about even imagining the idea of not being friends >we would always say that we would never get into a fight over a guy <except this >she always used dating apps (not tinder, but similar ones) >used the app, two guys came down from across the country to come see her >yes they were from those apps > would always tell her that that was so lame and so weird and creepy >she always would never be serious about anyone from those apps >had a past of being in relationships with guys she met on weird apps, but that was before i met her >she didnt do that shit when i was with her >until a week ago >some guy came down from across the us >we made a reservation in some fancy restaurant just so we can show them around the OC/LA area >he came with his friend >complete asshole >could immediately tell he had serious anger issues >didnt even introduce himself or say hi or anything >never met someone so rude in my life >immediately ordered alcohol (we're middle eastern, so it's kind of dumb to do that with w someone you barely know) >showed them around LA, the bar scene (we didn't drink or anything) >he ordered shots >got rip roaring drunk >danced in the streets >the kid was a pretty good dancer >my friend was just enamored by all of this >said he was hot, a great dancer, etc >super shallow reasons to like some random guy you met online >we didnt know him at all and she was all over him >in some random la parking lot some arabs came around and all starting talking to me and my friend >told us we were completely gorgeous, etc etc >my friend said to one of the arab dudes that 'a guy who doesnt share his feeling with a girl isnt truly a man'

Homework help

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Can someone help me figure out wtf my psychology assignment is supposed to be about? I'm not a psych major, this is my 3rd day in this class, I was only given these vague instructions today and this is due tomorrow and I have no idea what this means. Nothing was explained in class Instructions Please discuss this assignment in two paragraphs. Pay attention to " the state of human relations in the USA IN 2015 " ; it appears that human relationships seem very strained " due to a myriad of reasons. Discuss some of those reasons.

Dumb Question

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Why do parents always complain about the "I gave you life, I keep you alive" to their chidren? Isn't that their responsibility? For example: I'm in the house, my dad says "hey, let's go somewhere". I ask "where?" And he starts the "I gave you an order, you can't ask my authority, is amazing that you make this even though I gave you life". If parents don't want to deal with children then why the hell do they have unprotected sex? It's a dumb question, I just don't get it.

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