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Ive been dreaming alot about zombie apocalypse happening recently. Now, the worst part about this is that the dreams continue from each other. Today is the fourth night in a row ive been dreaming about running, hiding and being terrified of zombies. Ive had dreams continue from each other before, but all in 1 nights sleep. This has carried on 4 nights in a row. In last nights dream I got bitten and didnt wake up (in the past I get bitten I wake up) but its seriously fucking annoying now.
Im a great lucid dreamer but when shit like this happens I can't break out of it. During these dreams I don't wake up once, where usually i'll wake up at least once in the night. These dreams feel long and drawn out, how the fuck can I at least change them without feeling exhausted waking up?
What exactly is the strong appeal to living alone?
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So I live alone in a cheap apartment, my daily routine consists of wake up, shower,brush my teeth, Feed my dog, go to work, come home, clean my dogs shit, feed him again, Cook myself something to eat, find stuff to do which is usually TV,video games, internet, Walk the dog, go to my room, play a few more video games, then go to bed.
I repeat this until the weekend which are my days off from work, on those days I do the usual first few things but instead of go to work, I go on the internet for a bit, play with my dog for a bit, then if I don't go out I play video games all day, eat, and sleep. But if I do go out it's usually just to eat out or just loiter around at a bookstore until I come home to play video games all day, eat and sleep.
Occasionally I would have friends over to keep me company and hang out with or let them use my place to crash once in a while, but lately that's been happening less and less.
This has been my pattern for the past two years since I moved out despite my better judgement, because I assumed I'd go nuts living alone and I figured it be best I either have a reliable friend be my roommate or I gain a girlfriend, but I was persuaded to move out so I did and just as I expected living alone is BOOORING and as empty as I thought. I can see the appeal of living alone if you're have a lot of friends who are active and fun to hang with or you have someone to have sex with, but your own space and "Freedom" by itself is severely overrated.
Maybe I've been going about this the wrong way I have no idea, the advice I'm asking for is for those of you who have been or ARE going through my situation how have you kept your experience manageable or fun without feeling like you're going insane?
Should I Tell Her How I Feel?
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Hello, everyone. So, I'm looking for some input concerning a situation that I'm in. I've known a girl for a little over a year, and we've become pretty close friends. We do a lot of things together, although not as often as I'd like, but that's because I'm in college and a bit far away. We have gone out to concerts, eaten at restaurants, shopped, and spent hours talking to each other at cafes. I feel like I can really confide in her and tell her about my own life story. I rarely feel that way. We've shared a lot of our personal issues with each other. And I guess I've developed pretty strong feelings for her. The problem is that I don't know how she really feels about me, and how she would react to knowing that I like her. There was a point when I was pursuing her older sister, but I didn't really feel the same kind of spark that I did with the younger sister. I honestly don't know what I was thinking or why I was acting the way that I was. She has said a number of things to me regarding how kind I am and how I would make the perfect boyfriend. She even said that she feels like I care about her more than anyone else. There have been times when she has told me that she has had the best day of her life with me and, afterwards, just stared into my eyes for a few seconds, which leads me to believe that it isn't just exaggeration. I'm planning on seeing her briefly soon, so do you think I should just roll the dice and tell her about how I feel? I haven't seen her in a while and I got her a pretty amazing gift, which I wasn't able to give to her yet since she has been pretty busy. Should I just go for it? Any input is welcome, and feel free to ask any relevant questions if you feel the need to.
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Girlfriend says I'm cold and blunt and the things I say are hurtful without meaning to be. I asked her to give me examples and she said she'd think of some but that it usually had to do with giving advice or my opinions on a situation.
I think it has a lot to do with the fact that some of the things that are ridiculously obvious to me just don't come easily to most people, and some of the things that are incredibly easy for her are so far off the map for me I don't even get how she can be so smart.
I've been told this by other people, but it's usually in a somewhat playful manner by friends i.e. "Dude you have the bedside manner of Dr. House, it's so funny".
> No, I'm not on the spectrum, before anyone makes that suggestion.
What does this mean?
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I've been "the other man" in my girlfriend's life for a few years. (We dated in high school, and then reconnected on Facebook.) 2 months ago, she broke up with her boyfriend of 7 years to be with me. I moved in with her a few days after he moved out.
Things have been... not so good since then. Before, we were basically deliriously happy together, not to mention always horny for each other. Since I moved in, we've hardly touched each other. Her libido fell through the floor, and we've had sex maybe 6 times since then, mostly in the first 2 weeks, and not at all in the past 2 weeks. She's also been pulling away from me emotionally, and this has left me very sad. (Not depressed like clinical depression.)
Her ex refuses to admit that their relationship is over, and she's been kinda weaning him off of her... except not really. They talk every day, and have taken 2 trips together.
On Facebook yesterday, she announced to the world that she's in Vegas with her ex. (I knew this and okayed it.) Today, she announced that she got a tattoo up there... with the ex's name on it. I've seen one pic, and it looks drawn on, not a real needle-under-the-skin tat... pic related.
We already had a talk 2 or 3 weeks ago about whether or not I need to move out, and at that time we decided that we would stick together... but I wonder. She had a short list of complaints, most of which were things about me that she already knew about (for example, I'm incredibly lazy, and when you add that to my 70-hour workweek, I don't do any chores unless asked/told to, and that bothers her).
So, /adv/, can I salvage this relationship? I am truly, deeply, madly in love with this girl, and before I moved in, she felt the same about me -- but now I have to wonder if it was just words.
If I leave, I will completely sever all contact with her -- I'm not going to continue being "the other man". Her being with another guy in any way is painful, and not being the one she chooses would be pretty rough on me.
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Hey adv, are any of you guys also insecure about your dick, or do you just nt give a shit?
I think I've always had deep psycological issue with my dick, and I'm not really sure what it is exactly. My very first memory in life is my dad grabbing me by the leg as a baby and throwing me on a table in some strange place, and some guy called an "iman" or whatever cutting my foreskin off with scissors, I still kind of remember the pain too. I am very self conscious about my dick. Firstly, it's a grower not a shower, so it's tiny when flaccid, secondly I have no foreskin, thirdly it bends to the left slightly, but also I just feel disgusted by it in general, and I'm scared of people seeing it, even though I know that objectively it's perfectly normal.
I'm 24, I've had sex a couple times before but I am always extremely self conscious, don't know what to do and generally afraid to just get intimate / please the woman. I think also I'm just very protective of that area because subconsiously I'm scared someone will cut my dick off. Recently my self esteem has dropped really low and I've given up trying to meet girls (or women at this point, since I'm getting older)
I try to not let life get to me to much, but still I am human and I would like to enjoy intimacy too, and I would prefer not to die alone.
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1. Is there actually a way to get grills without speed dating, social circle, online dating, bars, parties, or clubs?
All of them except for the first two are basically women filling up their attention whore containers to the nth degree and scooping off the top 5 % of male LMS. How can anyone possibly think these are viable ways to get girls?
The first one I think is done by older people in cities but looks awkward as shit. I have no friends so social circle game is not a possibility.
How do people actually get grills? Don't say they don't, every white male gets grills.
2. Be srs, how big of a disadvantage is it to be an Arab in the UK? I live in an area with barely any other ethnics, go to the gym, am westernised, non-religious, am 6'0, have a UK accent, but I've never EVER had any interest from girls ever...and I mean ever. I also notice that cashiers act less friendly towards me.
I rarely ever thought of white people as a separate group but I am starting to.
NEET and Shut-in Advice Thread [Version 71]
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Welcome to the NEET and Shut-in advice thread!
(Version 71, running since Oct. 31st, 2013)
Before I go on a rant about the IRC channel I'd like to thank the helpful people in the last thread. The last thread was exceptionally depressing; thankfully there are some of you out there that keep trying to help no matter what. For that I am thankful. The community wouldn't function without your input.
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