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What's the major things you lied/are lying about for a extented period of time?
For me right now it's failing a class 2 times, and not telling anyone, and my parents still financing my education and thinking that that I'm going my 3rd year right now. No one knows this, except the people at school.
I kept pretending to be sick and truanting school since I was 11, pretty frequently. My father was gullible and believed me the whole time, he never had the thought I was just pretending. He kept thinking that I had a serious sickness. We kept going from Doctor to Doctor and for some reason, they all gave me a sick note, allowing me to stay home. My father kept spinning crazy theories for the cause of my sickness, that I was eating bad etc. etc., I kept getting bad grades because of it, and was he very dissapointed. He ended up thinking that I was just a ill indivdual like the rest of the family. Somewhere he probably knew that I wasn't really sick all the time.
Due to this nature I often went to a psychologist. I kept lying that there was nothing wrong with me, even tough I had personal problems. But I was too embarrased and had too much self-pride, to tell them.
At my recent psychiatrist, I even lied about that I was going to 3rd grade, and told what everyone else was believing.
Nobody is in a bigger mess than I am.
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>girlfriend makes me a tumblr
>immediately think its cancer
>go on it, fuck around
>check out her tumblr
>find lots of things about a guy named Jack
>immediately assume cheating
>ask her about "Jack"
>she says its a guy from a band she really likes
>look around a little more and find links to fan fiction sites
>realize she probably schlicks to this guy on a regular basis
/adv/, I don't know how to feel about this. She really likes this band, and she's gone to see them live a few times on top of posting pictures of him all over her tumblr. She has also written a fan fiction, but it's really shitty. She isn't nearly as sexual with me as she is about him, so is this something I should really be concerned about or is this just one of those sorts of things I should let go?
tl;dr girlfriend fantasizes about guy way too much, what do?
pic related, the band she is obsessed with. I think the guy is the one on the far right
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Adv, please help me. I work at my family's business at home, and my sister came home to help for the holidays. While she isn't here, it's okay. But when she's here, my family creates this weird dynamic, where they all end up ganging up and hounding me, For starters, our business requires we work 16 hour days. I not only work, but I end up doing a majority of the physical work when my sister isn't here.
Now that she is, there's a more even division of labor. Part of the work I did goes to her, and I end up completing menial tasks.
But whenever I'm around my family, whenever their attention is directed at me, they simply start in. I'm lazy, I'm a "princess", I whine and complain about everything, and I have an attitude that I never had before.
I hardly talk to my family now, because I'm just so fucking tired of it all. I don't complain. I do most of the work. I don't demand anything, and I hate drama. I work very hard because I want everyone to be happy. And my family wonders why I was so depressed when my sister was hear in the summer.
Please help me. Am I just being too thin-skinned? Hearing them constantly harping on me makes me so tired.
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Hey /adv/, I'm taking a survey for one of my college classes.
In short, do you feel that violent behavior from people (as it is usually has been blame of media influence aka video games, music, mvoies, none of which I believe personally) is a result of a lack of parenting or that the person had a predisposition to it.