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Hey, time for another general advice thread. We had a great one last week that hit the bump limit.
About me: 29, male, highly educated in economics, former high school teacher & financial adviser. Extensive experience in dating, casual sex, LTRs, BDSM. I'm poly and currently dating 4 girls (one of them rather seriously, we just had dinner with my parents actually).
Go ahead, ask me anything and I'll give it my best shot.
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Critiques, troll accounts, funny stories, anything goes. Mod stories are always welcome.
Also if you want a critique, critique someone else's as courtesy. If you don't think you're qualified, just say what the general impression you got from the profile was.
You can critique if you want, but keep in mind that I'm only looking for platonic encounters. So far I've had a lot of convos ranging from scary to awesome, but nothing substantial (IRL meets that aren't dates). Like the other anon said, OKC isn't really good for anything other than dating, but I'd still like to see how it goes.
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Well, it seems I really screwed the pooch this time...
So here's the story. I'm an English teacher, and I was giving class, and I regularly use my computer to play short videos like Schoolhouse Rock and the like.
And well, I was giving a class on verbs to these two... 11-12 year olds. And well, I booted up my comp and put in the password and turned around to write something on the board, when suddenly I hear, "WOAH" from this kid. So I turn around to look at him, and notice he's staring at my computer screen, and the both kids begin to giggle like little girls. When I look at my screen, I notice pic related is my background.
Now this picture REALLY isn't that bad, well at least from a jaded adult perspective, hell, I've drawn so many nudes, that neither a full nude 2D nor 3D girl really excites me anymore. But from the eyes of a prepubescent 11 year old, this is like the mother-fucking Holy Grail; I mean, it brought me back to when I was that age, back when just seeing cleavage got you super excited. And well, I never expected such a picture to cause me so much trouble. When I got it, I simply got it because some drawfag drew it, and I liked the colors, but never did the sexuality of the image cross my mind.
gf with background that upsets and confuses me
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>Getting anonymous advice on a website you know the person browses
My current gf responded to an ad on craigslist looking for a sub/slave. It was a 32 year old man (she was 16) and she went to his house once a week, would call him sir, service him, let him inspect her, thank him for punishing her, do chores for him, etc. He did things like punch her full force across the face and lock her naked outside in the cold. Eventually she stopped going.
This really really gets to me. I don't quite know why. After a couple of mentions I told her we weren't to talk about the negative aspects of it, and this was sort of ok, but then today she mentioned a positive aspect and it still hurt. I want to know everything about the episode, but again don't know why.
Advice very welcome.
Just got curious and decided to ask a question about sex
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How does a man HAVE sex with a woman?
Sure, we all know you put the ponos to her vagoo then JAM IT IN, but I'm sure as hell there's more to that...
For the record, before anyone asks, I am 17 and I am a virgin, but I'm educated (in the least) about sex and it as an overview, but not specifics, which is why I'm asking...`
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No relationshit/depression/beta stuff
I need some help getting a job. Right now I'm 21. I never had a job in high school. Just focused on school and extra curriculars. Finished high school, went in to community college and am finally moving on to transfer this next fall. I've been busy with an extra curricular as well while I've been in CC and that's even made me a few dollars on the side because it's music related.
I've had one part time job. The guy didn't need my help or his other interns help for long though so that only lasted about a year and a half.
My mom is single parent and I'm at home with her. She does ok. And my dad who I'm still in touch with gave me a little money when I finished high school so I've had a bit of a buffer. I only spend on gas, school, basic food and maybe a game/movie once in awhile. I'm tired of not being able to support myself. Especially since I have a girlfriend now
How do I get a job. I have no experience I can put on a resume. All I can put is my extra curricular school stuff and maybe the part times shit
I just want a low end basic retail job.
When ever I apply to stores. It's always the same story.
>Fill out app/ask manager if opening position,
>never get a response back/we'll call you in a week. >Call back on my own
>position has been filled
and so on. When I go in person I always wear a nice dress shirt, slacks and a tie. Shave. I do have long hair which I'm cutting soon but even that is always tied back in a clean pony tail/just showered
What am I doing wrong
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I want a girlfriend whon which I can go out to clubs and bars, and have a lot of fun.
Reading something my friend told me maked me realize this. You see, he told me he usually went out at nights with her girlfriend, and had a lot of fun, more than with his usual friends. In comparision, he says, going out to clubs with said friends was weak in comparison with the parties he maked with her girlfriend.
I realised this whole means I need a girl like that. A brave woman who knows how to have fun, who can show me things. I'm not exactly a coward, I've been out alone a few times, and so, but sometimes I feel shy, and you know, with a woman like that I could have fun and experience new things...
What I'm exactly looking for, /adv/? There are girls like that in real life? How are they, really?