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Has anybody ever had experience with resenting intellectualism?
More specifically has anybody ever come to admire "dumb" people over "smart" people.
I'm 20 and my view of the world has been revolutionised. i admire constantly how working class people, for example, typically seem to be funnier. They seem to enjoy the moment a bit more in life. They can find humour and bonding moments out of trivial things. It is completley human and completely social. you need to have tip top social skills to take part in these activites. smart people on the other hand are awkward, bonding experiences are hard to come by. humour is found in things that have nothing to do with the social moment at hand but rather things that are already established as funny - look at this funny youtube video or look at this good joke "isnt it smart"- tradies, for example, could piss themselves laughing for example by making a joke of sometihng really trivial,. like a fly on the wall for example. they excel at conversation. Smart people are very formal. i dont like this.
this was fucken retarded. but can anyone sympathise or provide guidance?
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Please tell me what to do here.
Been "seeing" this girl for a few weeks now. She is ridiculously hard to read, and I cannot tell what the fuck she thinks of me. We had sex last week, she was very drunk, but when she is sober she is like a robot. We have fun and get along, but I cannot gauge any interest from her. She asks me to do stuff with her but it's always platonic, like going to the beach with her and her dog or something. We did that today, (I called her up to hang out) and she just gives me the weirdest, most stand-offish vibe, and so I don't try and escalate things physically because it's just so awkward. I don't even feel comfortable kissing her.
Lately i'm the one calling her and asking her to hang out but i'm just getting over it. I'm sick of putting in the effort and getting treated like some platonic guy friend. I feel like the more often we hang out in this way the lower my chances of anything going further with her. She knows I like her (she said this when she was drunk) so I'm not gonna tell her that.
What do I do? Do I just straight up ask her what the hell is going on? Or just drop it? Surely she can't be expecting me to do 100% of this, because that's what is going on. If she wanted some sort of relationship surely she would make it clearer than sleeping with me when she's wasted and then just shutting down on me, but still agreeing to hang out
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Im a girl and Im 18 years old. I dont have a boyfriend since around 3 years ago. Im not showing off but I consider myself a good looking girl.. i know it.. not only psychically, people tell me i have a nice personality and that i don't need to show skin to be liked. Lately ive been feeling too depressed and i dont know why.. i have friends, i have my family that is always there for me, im not alone literally. but why do i feel so lonely? theres too many guys out there trying to flirt with me but i keep on rejecting them, some of them are guys with good intentions and some of them just want to "fuck". i don't understand whats going on with me, i don't know what do i want, this weird feeling is horrible....
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How do I cope with losing all my friends /adv/?
I've tried my best to be as social as I could for the last few years because I wasn't happy being by myself. I remember being so happy making new friends a few months back, since all my close friends seemed to have left me I made a bunch of random friends and I felt so happy yet later I realized no matter how hard I tried I just don't feel as comfortable as I did before, I don't know how to talk to people anymore and I didn't want to be the only one putting effort into a friendship. I know the other day a girl who I appreciated told me to fuck off and i felt like shit because she wanted to be my friend, yet after that I see her talking to my other friends and I say hi to them and she walks away from me. But I keep getting situations like these happening where I'm just ignored or I'm not relevant to anyone anymore.
I've posted this before but I'd like some more help, I think one reason I feel like this is because of my ex, we were good friends before we went out and I didn't even want to go out with her but after we dated she told me everything was fine then preceded to make my life terrible for a while and now I see her constantly and she seems so sad and I feel it's my fault yet hers to. I just wanted my friend back
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How does a male in his mid 20s with no game at all learn how to flirt?
I wanna try skype, talking to bitches from around the world, pretending I live nearby, but I need a plan first. you know, how to go about it - using pick-up lines at the beginning, telling something from my life, discussing some topic or only making jokes and never getting personal.... I just dont know