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Money money... I cant hold that shit. I've been stuck in overdraft for a LONG time and since august my credit card was been around $1000. How overdraft is just cause, I've had all my shit taken away by exs and stuff so many times, when I see something I just grab it. Sometimes I end up buying useless shit. I have no control over my damn self. With the credit card tho I went into legit depression and took a trip down to the US. Hotel really wasn't worth it. I would have paid it off by now but I got a boyfriend in a different part of it the US, it was much cheaper but I bought way too much. Now I'm back home, I worked a bit but then I was bedridden for a week due to pills. FINALLY it's over but the moneys become a big problem. While I was sick there was no one to take care of me. Yes I've asked my family, my mother didn't want to drive me to the hospital because she worked in 3 hours and slammed something on the floor in anger. Now while I was sick, I got hungry, But I was not able to make food. This was not a flu. I couldn't move without electric shocks going through my head. It was fucking awful. But well I spent a lot. I'm currently on call for work but any tips on saving up money? I owe my bitch mom lots of rent too and I really want to see my boyfriend again.
Self-esteem gets rekt
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I overheard my gf pretty much telling her friends my dick is small.
I'm 6x5.5 just for the sake of knowing.
She also has a pretty big ass.
She was talking to her friends during one of these lighter house parties and I was about to go ask her where my phone was when I heard my name being mentioned.
She basically said that most of her guys, including her ex were a fair bit bigger than me.
She told that I'm not too bad but it feels weird for her after the others she had and that we have to fuck around with positions a bit too much.
She said she misses how good sex felt and that she won't tell me because she's afraid we'd have problems.
Well, she was right, I tried to act normal, etc. after this.
But in the end I couldn't really do it.
I told her we should end it and I told her I heard. She made some excuses, and she's still trying to talk to me.
My question is /adv/, what meds should I take and what should I do to keep myself from blowing my brains out. Also, how the fuck do you get over such a blow to your ego? I was always insecure and this just seemed to prove that I was right.
My self-esteem is pretty much non-existant right now and I feel like this'll happen again. I'm afraid of relationships and shit like that now.
Help me get my shit together
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You might get this a lot, but I figured here would be a good place to both vent and to get some help with planning to improve my life. I decided I need to because I'm only 18 and I feel like I have the health of an old man, it's ridiculous. Here's my current situation
>Red spots on tip of tongue
>Gum was bleeding a little this morning but I think it was cause of brushing too hard
>Fatigued kind of feel
>Generally feel unfit
>Constipated, but only at the end. Like, I can shit, but there's always some left over at the end that won't come out. (disgusting but yeah)
I think that's about it. Here's my current lifestyle
>Shower every day
>Try to get 3 meals, most of which are balanced (I don't live on junk food)
>Drink a decent amount daily
>Brush teeth twice a day
>Drink alcohol on occasion, rarely to excess and even then, not to a great extent.
My lifestyle isn't perfect but I don't think it's THAT bad, so I don't get why I feel and look so shit. I need a plan of attack on what I should be doing. If anyone could give me a good exercise routine for a beginner and a good dietary plan that should help clear up the symptoms I've been having, I'd appreciate the help. Thanks.
Leaving it to fate
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Hey /adv/, I have a question for you guys.
I'm married with a loving husband and life is pretty great. Combined we have a killer income, lovely house, no debt besides our house and a great lifestyle. I'm 23 and he's 35. We are expecting our little one in a few months and add beyond excited. When we first started dating one of the things that clicked was that we both want LARGE families. I don't mean 3 or 4, we're talking 10+ kids. I got pregnant our wedding night and we're already planning kid #2. Here's where things are getting slightly tricky.
This pregnancy has been hell on me. I'm constantly sick, everything hurts and I have gotten huge. Sleeping through the night is impossible and I'm always exhausted. My doctor told me that it only gets worse the older we get so if we want lots of babies, the younger I am, the better. I still want a horde of babies, I just want a little recooperation time between each one.
What's the best way to approach this with my husband without sounding like I'm changing my mind on what I want?
Thanks everyone (:
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why doesnt anyone want to hang out with me? i used to have a lot of friends in school. but once that finished about 5 years ago and we all went into university (the same university due to the remote city we live in), they all stopped interacting with me, but not each other. they do not talk to me and ignore or fob me off if i try to talk to them
so i tried meeting new people, but i found the same thing happened. they were not interested in getting to know me beyond the cursory nature of being some guy in one of their classes. and so i finished university with zippo friends or even acquaintances really, and most sadly no memories to look back on
and now im at work, the same thing is still happening. i come in the morning and say hello, maybe one person murmurs a hello back. every other person that comes into the office, and the same people who ignored me welcome the newcomer enthusiastically
can anyone posit some reasons as to why this might be? i shower every day, i dont have any crazy body mods or even a tattoo. im friendly and polite and i dont go out of my way to bash anyone. i dont know whats wrong
tldr how do you get people to like you?