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I'm going to word this as best I can without making this /pol/ related, and hopefully this won't turn into a political shitstorm, but I really need advice.
I am severely depressed about the prospect of a certain political candidate becoming President of the United States, which I love dearly. I am so upset, depressed, and terrified of this person becoming President that I have been sick for a couple days, been feeling suicidal, and have lost all drive and energy regarding work and school. My friends support this candidate and it's making me angry, upset, anxious and terrible.
How do I get over this? How do I let politics roll off my back? How do I just live life and ignore those in power fucking up my country? How do I just breathe and let live?
What should I do with her
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I asked this girl if there was a chance of us dating, her reply in pic, prob not. I then proceeded to seenzone her and reply only 2 times after that total.
I didn't mean to get feeling for her.
Here's where I'm at right now- I like her more than a friend, if theres not a chance of us dating in the future then I don't wanna stay in contact with her, meaning I'd prefer to delete every trace of her I have, off games, social media and her number.
Only issue is, Im not sure if I should do that or at least try to talk more to her about it.
I know Im gonna be dwelling on this all week but I dont wanna keep her in my life or around and see her end up dating another guy or anything or just stay friends because then the hurt will come back.
Advice or thoughts pls, most help will be appreciated, never used this board before so Ill see how it goes
Which hobbies will force me to meet girls?
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I'm terrible at being decisive and making the first move, but when girls are forced to get to know me, they usually end up liking me. Girls I've worked with on class projects, friend's girlfriends, work colleagues - all of them seem surprised that I'm a cool enough guy, and I've made some friends this way. What hobbies/activities should I do to meet more girls this way? I'm not necessarily looking for romantic attention, just trying to expand my circle of female friends so that I have more options.
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first off, I met this guy in Tinder ok? I know, I know!
We actually really liked each other which I actually found hard to find in Tinder-world. It was weird because we agreed we felt like we knew each other from before for how similar we are.
However, over time he confessed he still has feelings for his ex of 5 years which they broke up in January. I didn't judge him about it because I also broke up my 4 year long relationship with my ex not too long ago. So everything kept going as normal, we spoke almost all day every day
I ended up going to bed with him, I really needed it tbh it had been around 6 months since the last time I had sex. He became distant after that night and barely texts me now, that was a month ago and in the last 2 weeks I've become too annoyed to even try and talk to him
The thing is, I really don't do one night stands. Don't get me wrong, I've had "things" with guys, but I don't go to bed with guys just because. The shortest time I "spent" with a guy was with one I met during summer in England and we were almost inseparable for the month we knew each other. We have a good friendship and even still chat with him from time to time
The questions I'm trying to get to is, opinions on if he was just trying to get in my pants from the beginning? I really do need to get laid, by this point could I be perceived as easy if I make it understood I don't care if we don't become bf/gf, I really just want sex? Please don't be a smart ass
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So I dont post here often, but my dad just revealed to me after 19 year's worth of a lifetime of arguing with a thick headed italian man how ignorant he really is. My dads not a bad guy, if you know the stereotypical short stocky italian older male, in his 50's, with receding hair, chubby, you have a good idea of the like, mindset my dad comes from.
In short, my dad is very passive aggressive, very obnoxious in terms of communication, constantly cutting you off, like RIGHT in the middle of sentence, then getting mad at you for getting mad at him for it, then piling question upon angry question on you while you try to just answer the first. He's very fast and loud, and quick to use any number of things against you in an argument, something you said in jest, or an alteration of it, months ago, is free game. He even came in while I was typing this and managed to turn two seconds of what should be calm talking into me once again trying to tell him the world is different from when he was a kid, which he ignorantly and stubbornly, not to mention passive aggressively sighs at.
Today, earlier, he told me that I ought to have opinions that coincide with his because I live under his roof. And you might think thats him being controlling or manipulative, but heres the thing, hes a complete dumbass, or to be kinder about it...a rather...simple man. So all of these tendencies, combined with how annoying they are and the reactions they prompt out of others, he's completely ignorant as to why they would annoy someone and escalate even a throwaway argument into a screaming match over semantics and communication,
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How do I stop obsessing over old shit? I feel like people move on so much better than me. If my girlfriend of four years ago asked to hangout, I'd drop what I was doing. Same for my girlfriend of last year. I feel like at any given point I could revive these dead relationships, while they just clearly don't care. My life isn't that pathetic. I do well in school, I have an alright sized group of friends that I am pretty close with, I am going abroad next year and I am really looking forward to that, and I do go on dates/hook up once in a while. Yet I still look back on these moments that I wish I could redo. Why am I putting so much value into these relationships that in the long run meant nothing?