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My parents have been in debt for as long as I can remember. This is because of my father's overly ambitious and unrealistic business that gave, as you may suspect, no fruit. I suspect he's bipolar.
I have two brothers and one sister. I don't mean to sound arrogant, but we are all kind of really bright (My sister, maybe not), yet, fucked up and frustrated over our parents debt. They are not just in debt, but are overly demanding and critical of everything we do.
Because of my parents inability to deal with life I feel very guilty all the time for no reason. Also, my brothers are all unconfident, even though they do not admit it, and cover it up with "misanthropy".
They are all underachievers, pick on each others all the fucking time, are always arguing about one thing or other for no fucking reason, and sticking their noses into each others lives -criticizing each others relationships, believes, and notions, to no fucking end-
Because I'm the youngest (18 years old), they won't listen to me, and just think I'm being "bratty" or "stupid" every time I tell them they should stop being so immature and try to solve the matter. But they are wasting their lives living in the mud -while feeling superior to everyone- and I'm stuck with them, their problems, and opinions of me. (They are all absolutely dependent on each other, specially my sister).
I feel powerless, frustrated and angry. I can't have fun, feel happy or concentrate in this state; always in a bad mood. I'm not suicidal, because I'm not stupid, but I certainly am not in my best state, and I fear drowning myself into self-doubt. I used to have all my shit together but now I just don't know what the fuck I should do to feel free again. I feel either like an asshole or like a sucker. Honestly, how should I feel about this and how should I act? They even get mad when I ask for privacy.
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I come here like once a year.
My girlfriend told me to go into her email and find an audio file she sent to herself so I could listen to her singing.. just out of boredom, she was at work.
Came across an email from a sugar daddy dating website dated for one year ago, before we started dating.
She told me she made it 6 years ago with a friend as a joke, but not after accidentally sending a message saying she made it for her "granny" and that she forgot to block it.. and then she just outright admitted to lying and said I had nothing to worry about, and that she would never do anything like that.
I think that's fucking disgusting. Even if it didn't happen when we started dating, I told her that says a lot about her.
Am I in the wrong of being upset?
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Promised I'd make a thread about how it went with my friend, so I'm using the same picture.
Anyways, regarding the thread from yesterday, I guess I didn't write the whole story because I thought they were two different stories. But, logically, they're not; it's my fault really.
I have this FWB (let's call her Jill) who is in the same group of friends we hang with at college.
I've never cheated, and I don't ever plan to, but my friend (let's call her Claire), the friend I went earlier to talk to before she went on a trip, seems to think she's going to be a problem. It's understandable, since Jill and I are always in the same group and sometimes we party at her house. I don't really want to stop talking to Jill because that would mean I'd have to stop talking to my other friends. I've always thought that, unless they're toxic friends, stop talking to them because of a gf is something really shitty to do.
I'm guessing, then, that it's not happening, because:
1) I won't stop hanging with my friends
2) I refuse to lie to Claire (e.g. "no, Jill's not here!")
3) I don't know what to do to make Claire trust me.
Any suggestions are accepted.
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So that's it, today was my last session with my psychologist. I'm done with all that nonsense, almost 3 years and I've gotten on where, 34 years old and still unmarried and never had sex. at this point, I'm not looking for advice about anything; I'm just wondering, how much am I really missing out on? I mean, is it like that important? or is sex just one of those things people get hooked on like booze and smokes and can't seem to stop looking for it?
On other news, I get to spend my money that I was spending on the sessions on upgrading my boat, so that's pretty cool I guess.
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Hey guys. I asked this on /r9k/ but I got directed here, might as well ask more people for advice on this issue right? It's been a long time since I've been back here, since the inception of /adv/.
My girlfriend is yandere.
She wants to kill people because she knows they hurt me in the past.
What do I do? How should I feel about this? Should I do anything or let it happen?
>She's my fiancee. We're planning on getting married.
>I wouldn't have asked her to marry me if I didn't think I couldn't spend my life with her. I'm loyal, she's amazing. I had a feeling she had homicidal intent in her but I let it slide.
>One of the people she wants dead is close to my family, the other is an ex.
>There isn't any good way to tell her I don't want her to kill people. She is thoroughly convinced she can't rest until the people she hates are sufferng, dead, or have taken their own life.
It's hard watching someone you love be consumed by hate and misery. I want my bouncy, happy, fun, loving yandere fiancee back. She was a bit better today, but only because she was masking the anger bubbling inside her, she's still likely going to do it.