How do I get laid?
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I'm going to my cousin's wedding in a few months. Besides my parents and some family, I won't know anyone. The kicker though is that I'm single and a virgin (24, cis female) and I don't want to stay a virgin any longer. I'm shy, quiet, but approachable and easily persuaded. Without trying to sound conceited for reference in this post I'm pretty. Always being checked out, complimented, target of jealousy, assumed that I'm with someone, too good for people, etc., which on a side note makes me miserable but that's not what I'd like advice on.
Since I'll be around so many people I don't know I'd like to lose it the night of the reception. So how do I get laid? Should I even want to? I feel it's time that I sleep with someone by now or it'll start to get weirder than it already is. I'd feel embarrassment and shame to ask friends or anyone about it. I'm on birth control. The only thing that worries me is STDs. Do I just ask the guy and trust him? Do I take the 50/50 risk?
Halp me anons ;_;
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Hey /adv/ I'm in the middle of a sort a life problem, I've begin getting back together with old friends and all of that has been going well but the problems not with the meeting with all these people has got me thinking about who's really there for me and who's not mainly my current "best friend" I leave it like that cause we tend to cross paths a lot, I find him making fun of me and talking behind my back sometimes, he's gone out of his way to call me out for absolutely nothing at times and make me seem like a bad person he also keeps in touch with my past girlfriends. Now the problem is though all this happens he's there for me when I have a problem if I need his advice on something, we've been through a lot and do generally have some good memories, he's good friends with most people I hangout a lot with and I wouldn't know what to do about that from the start. I have no idea if he's a shitty friend, two faced, or if I should just flat out kick him out of my life to the best of my ability..
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Should I feel guilty leaving work before my boss?
I'm salaried, so there's no 'punching in and out,' but it's agreed that the start time for the office is generally 8-9. She shows up at nearly 10 AM a lot, as does the other guy at her level. Their boss is fine with it because they stay late, but it creates an awkward situation for me. I show up with the rest of the office, normally right on the dot at 8:45. She wouldn't mind if I showed up when she does, but I'd rather be able to leave more around 5, rather than 6 or 7, like her.
I've never been reprimanded for it, but she does kind of seem short with me when I'm leaving, and it limits our ability to collaborate, since we're missing about two hours during the day to work together. What do you think?
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Let me begin by saying how aware I am that this is probably the worst place in the known world to seek information, but fuck it I've got nothing else to do. Weed. Drug tests. What are your opinions on how long it will take for someone to be clean who's smoked daily for about a year, and has not smoked since the end of March. The amount smoked per day was quite low, about 2 hits from a bowl's worth.
My two "most trusted" IRL sources have said in this situation it'd take 3 weeks to get clean, and that in this situation it'd take 90 days to get clean. And I know it varies by person, I'm looking for some anecdotal evidence that could put my mind at ease.
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How do you deal with someone that is so blind that can't seem to notice that they keep falling and making the same mistakes
But they parrot the easy answers they hear from others?
Shit, like someone who goes on and on about Alcoholics Anonymous but they don't realize that they just traded their alcohol "addiction", for religion, gambling, caffeine, and peddling false hope?
No matter what they parrot from something that the repeater thinks is the only way, they'll never see the forest from the trees?
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Hanging with my bros and GF. Order food. Food gets here, go upstairs to get food with friends. GF and my one friend (we'll call him dickbag) are left alone in the basement. I don't think much of them staying in the basement. Probs not hungry. Eat. Come back downstairs alone. Overhear light slapping noise. See dickbag slapping my gf's inner thigh while they hold a converation. They don't notice me, I can make out what they're talking about. But from the look on my gf's face she's enjoying whatever the fuck they're talking about. Decide to go back upstairs, come back down a few minutes later with my bros. Find dickbag still slapping my gf's inner thigh. Had enough. Punch him in the stomach. Leads to a wrestling match. I pin him 5 times, he can't even touch me. He starts to insult my relationship with my GF. Salt overload. I get him in a chokehold. He taps out. Sweaty as fuck. I start to feel better, since I rekt my friend. We cool down and dry off. I try to sit next to my GF, she gives me a face and moves away. I try again and she ignores me. She starts a game of poker with my friends. Doesn't deal me a hand. I walk to the other room. Currently sitting here alone, while my GF and my friends are having fun. Do you think my GF is into my friend? I already know dickbag is into her. I heard about it through my other friends. Dickbag doesn't know that I know he likes her. What do I do if the feelings between my GF and dickbag are mutual? Halp me plz.