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Been thinking about becoming a biology teacher for a while now. However, I live in America where the education system is an absolute train wreck. Can anyone give me some insight as to whether or not it's worth becoming a teacher with the USA's current education situation?
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We're a mixed race couple along the lines of pic related. Our respective families do not approve of this pairing, so we've both told our families that we've broken up. We stayed together however, and live far enough away from our families such that it's not a problem. Lately we've been talking about getting married. Hiding a relationship is one thing, but a spouse, and probably a family? I guess it's possible, but we'd both be forever alone from the perspective of our families, and they're already worried about us. Any tips on not having this blow up in our faces?
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Fucking fuck! I'm attracted to my best friend! This is the worst feeling I've ever had! It's like a tiny knot in my intestines that just won't untie itself. We're really good friends her and I. I've been single for a little more than a year now and I can't stop thinking about how beautiful and sexy my friend is! I'd say I love her but I think that's just the attraction mistaking my friendship for an emotional connection. What the fuck do I do? I haven't had a girl in a year and I have no idea when I'll get back into the game. Being around her is so weird. It's ike being turned on by my sister.
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>sleeping at my friends house >we always sleep together in her room >shes bi but has always been respectful to me >we go to bed as usual, she asks for a hug, we sleep hugging each other >around 4AM I wake up with a weird sensation >it's her kissing my mouth me while I'm half sleep >feel her hand down there as well >at first I'm petrified >wake up, push her away, scream >go home early and don't talk to her again >tell my bf about it >he says I shouldn't have slept in my underwear with her to begin with >blames me >is super mad >now refuses to talk to me even Am I the fucking crazy one here?
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How do I stop resenting the fact that I have to work for a living? My parents were both highly intelligent, educated people working in a STEM field and I was raised with this attitude of "do what you love and you'll never have to work a day in your life." So I grew up assuming I could somehow make a living with art and neglected everything else. By the time I graduated (with shit for grades) I had come to realise there is literally no fucking way to make a living with art. So I tried to get into some other schools but they also seem to hold my parents' attitude of needing to LOVE engineering to deserve a place in engineering. I just want money. My only life goal is to one day have enough money to be able to stay in bed with my laptop and my dog all day every day and never have to do anything ever. I know nobody explicitly LIED to me, but nobody had the common decency to slap me and tell me the truth, either, so I feel kind of betrayed. How do I stop resenting the fact that I have to go to work every single day of my life for the rest of my life until I fall down dead?
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How can I deal with constantly wanting to reach out/talk to someone? They're very shy and introverted and would provably get on fine without me, even though I think we're friends - it's really difficult for me to gauge an introvert. The problem is that they treat me sort of hot-and-cold, with the cold being just completely ignoring me/not responding to my messages. At best, they'll send me a picture of them (which I love) and stay up for hours either texting or talking to each other over headsets. Is this normal? How can I deal with these cold periods effectively? If I find it stressful, should I just 'get over them' and try to cut my losses? Thanks.
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I'm running out of excuses to not kill myself lately. Life just seems so Sisyphean. I don't see a point. I don't see any value in being alive versus not being alive. I've got a college degree but for what? A job? What the fuck kind of job am I going to get with a History degree? I don't really want a job at all. Nothing I'm good at pays, and nothing that pays is anything I'm remotely interested in. My family tries to encourage me. Tells me stories of friends and family members who pulled themselves out of a rut with hard work and determination. My uncle, a troubled genius who dropped out of college, started working at a Lowes, and became a millionaire with careful saving and investment. That doesn't inspire me. It just reminds me of the basic drive to succeed and survive that I seem to lack. As far back as I can remember, I always coasted on my talents and my privileges, until those weren't enough, and then I quit. When the going got tough, I went home. All the way to highschool I was capital-ess-Smart, so I could always get good grades. When those grades got me into a good college, where being capital-ess-Smart didn't mean a damn, I stopped getting good grades. I barely scraped by with a C- average, only out of obligation and guilt because my family had spent so much money on me. So now I got a diploma and a C average transcript, no tradeable skills, and a complete lack of any survival instinct to speak of. If my parents weren't paying for my food, I would probably just starve. Sometimes I wish they would. I don't like making them pay to support me. I know I'm a lost cause, and I don't want them to spend any more money on me, but I also don't want to support myself. I feel like suicide is the only good thing I could do, since it's the only way I can get my family to cut their losses and give up on me. I feel like I'm in a vegetative state, and I'm just waiting for someone to pull the life support so everyone else can get on with their lives.
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>girlfriend asks me to check her texts >open conversation with her friend >scroll up a bit >"oh my gosh last night I had a dream that [celebrity crush] and I were getting married and then I woke up and I've never been so disappointed to wake up to my boring life" >"seriously all I want in life is a man like him. I'd give anything to be one of his side chicks" So should I feel insulted or is this a normal thing, seeing your partner as just a fallback? I don't understand how she can talk to me about our future together and how she wants to spend the rest of her life with me, then say things like this
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What do you have to do to make girls laugh and not be boring? Why do some guys make girls laugh so easily and are so friendly with them? Whenever I look at a girl she gives me a that half smile and a look like she does not want me to talk to her. Is this a sign of me being ugly?
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I need an advice. In light of Ramadhan I felt it's the appropriate topic. So I come from a family of religious upbringing. Every single one of my family is Islam since birth, and the topics that get discussed the most when we get together is about Islam. Heck, my mom even has her own travel group for the holy pilgrimage stuff. At some point in my high school days I started to realize how wrong this is. Basically they only reason I even did all of these religious stuff is because my mom told me to or else I get scolded or punished (my dad is a bit lax about this) and not because I have any faith for the Big Guy above. So ever since then I've been doing all Islamic stuff only when my family's watching, in my private times I tend to just mind my own business and never cared much about it. There has been times when I want to come out but I'm scared of making my my mom cry or worse, get disowned. Right now I'm a college student and live in a dorm so I got a break from all of this until I returned to my parents' house and my plan is to come out with this after I got a job and a place of my own. What do you think? Is this the right way? I'm really confused by this. Despite all the bad I still love my family and I hate to let them go or get excommunicated.
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Would literally do anything to be as skinny as pic related girls. How much do you think they weigh? What do you think their exercise is like/diets would consist of? Cheers.
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How do you stop hating yourself when you're not good at anything, don't want to do anything, and fail at everything you do?
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My girlfriend of 2 years is catholic and after months of sensing things were wrong, she finally told me that sex and nude pictures make her feel so guilty and like she is betraying her faith. Im agnostic and think its a bullshit decision but obviously didnt say that. How do I approach this subject without disrespecting her homophobic sex-shaming guilt religion?

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Failed my second year at an engineering school twice. I don't really know the reason of my failure. Classes aren't that hard and I did my best and studied hard to succeed. I'm studying in an other city far away from my home town and my father feels disappointed and thinks I'm such a disgrace cuz he spent money on nothing. I don't know what to do.. I sent a letter asking if it is possible to redo the year again, I don't feel optimistic about it maybe I should gtfo. If the answer is negative I would probably go back to home and study in a shitty faculty maybe studying things from 0..I have no idea. Now how do I deal with failure? I'm really broken and feel like I have no future even if I have a bright mind concerning math, physics etc... But why did I fail, I found no reason. Luck maybe?
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How do I list a job I was fired from? I did entry level data entry. I dealt with sensitive information such as names, address, SSNs, and phone numbers. This was for people applying for home loans. All computers were blocked from Facebook, 4chan, etc. The one computer I was assigned did have a webfilter. I was the fastest, and most accurate worker in the office. When there was no work, I would go on SFW boards, or facebook for literally less than 2 minutes. I would go back and refresh constantly to see if there was work for me to do. The exact reason I was let go was for gross misconduct. I need to list this job because this is my second job, after working 2 weeks at a fair. Any ideas will help me tremendously. please
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Just inadvertently helped my crush patch up her relationship. I know I never really had a chance but fuck me this feels so fucking terrible.
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>yesterday >drinking at bar with friends >little sister is at friend's house >calls me around 1-2am asking for a ride home >say ok and tell her that i'm on my way >accidentally run over her friend's cat as i pull up into driveway >freak out, pick up cat and just drive off >tell sister that i got in my car and decided i was too drunk to drive >sister decides to spend the night >couple hours ago sister comes home >says her friend's cat has been missing since this morning and her friend is really sad >tell her not to worry, her cat should be fine probably just walking around somewhere FUCK you guys. I feel terrible. I don't know what the fuck to do. Should I confess or should I just act like I'm oblivious to what happened? inb4 fuck you etc YES I KNOW WHAT I DID WAS TERRIBLE, I FEEL HORRIBLE. I would never kill an animal on purpose.
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What's this bump? Had it for a couple weeks now. It doesn't hurt and has stayed the same size.

Am I really "transparent" or is it in my head?

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I'm socially awkward and stuff and get a lot of anxiety. I've already accepted that shit though and sort of just go on living and dealing with it. Something I tend to do A LOT is freak out in my head whenever I'm passing someone on the street or just generally I think people in cars are makeing fun of me. I just get nervous and tend to stay that way until I get to my location. What I've noticed tough since I try to analyze every fucking passerbys facial expression is that most of them have this "what the fuck" smile or laugh or a dirty smirk on their face. Is this just in my head or am I transparent as shit and everyone can tell I'm nervous as shit? Pic unrelated

need some clarity here

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my girlfriend just broke up with me. she is worried that she is going to fuck up our relationship because she has been unfaithful in the past and she worries is will happen between us. and she says she feels 'stuck' and isn't in any condition to be in a relationship right now. but it sounds like she is insecure and can't trust herself. we were together for 17 months and I feel fucking dead inside. she was my world. she took my virginity and things were going so good. we were happy but she doesn't know if she can remain faithful. she says maybe in due time once she gets herself together we can get back together but she 'didnt want to get my hopes up'. I take this as I'm not good enough for her. I just don't know right now.

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