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My boyfriend wants to watch me get fucked by another guy, we've been in a relationship for 3 years and he's always been super protective of me, doesn't like me talking to other guys, and is just overall a jealous person.
Now, I'm a little bit confused, I talked about it with him and he said he'd just want someone to fuck me and do whatever they want while he watched - Is my relationship over? I don't really want to be fucked by other men while I'm in a relationship with someone I love I'd feel dirty, and I'd feel like I'm cheating.. and what if he changes his mind half way through and decides and I'm a dirty whore? What if afterwards he regrets it? He's very persistent about it, brings it up during our roleplay sometimes..
Is there any alternatives I could offer him instead of that? I really don't want to ruin our relationship over something he could be confusing with something else because he is a very jealous person
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I have a summer house in France with a rather large garden. I'm planning to throw a festival-like party there for my extended circle of friends (I'm thinking like 80 persons max.), somewhere next summer. Y'know, with a camping and two days of music, maybe a BBQ, ...
I'm obviously trying to plan this very well (I'll gather some skilled friends in the next few months to help me with this), and I'd love to hear 4chan's opinion on it as well. Which board would be the best to help me with this kind of stuff (managing a crowd, cheap-ass decorations, things to keep in mind, etc...), I was thinking either /adv/ or /diy/.
All thoughts welcome, I made this thread just to see some views. If you're really cool and live in Belgium or France, I might even let you come party with us.
How can I stop being an emo bitch?
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little bit of backstory
2014-2015 have been the worst years of my life, just a long string of bad luck...
>lost 70-100k job, haven't been able to find another one in several months
>dog gets cancer, dies a painful death, no money to help him
>best friend from when I was 4 kills himself
>grandpa dies the next day
>another good friend of mine dies in a car accident
>get in terrible car accident myself that leaves me with light brain damage(I feel almost like a different person now, it's hard to still be who I was before the accident), and spinal injuries
>girlfriend leaves me for being too mopey
>girlfriend and other random girls come back into my life to try to help me sort my shit out, but doesn't help when they compare me to "real men" all the time
I know bad shit happens, but it's been about 3 months since most of this happened or ended, how can I put everything behind me and at least pretend to be happy? I've always been a little "emo" in that I wear black clothes and listen to a lot of punk rock, so I've noticed that all of my colored clothing doesn't really find its way into my wardrobe, and even though I smile all the time, I feel like people can see through it. No one wants to be around someone who's depressed, so obviously almost all of my friends have left me, or are always too busy(even the ones who just sit around smoking pot all day).
I'm trying to turn my life back around, but it's so hard when I just feel like a loser the whole time.
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i have a really good friend of mine. we always help each other, and its been like that for years. we always give advices to each other, we do things together. but there is one thing that always pisses me off. i know he really cares, but he sometimes gets too pushy and aggressive. yeah, he is relatively successful considering his age and all, but it seems to me he always has this need to put his opinions inside other peoples heads. like everybody should live the exact same life he has. told him multiple times, but he often does the same, and you cant ever persuade him to do otherwise.
i on the other hand, always told him what i think, but never pushed him to do or not do something he feels like doing, even though i told him what i think. heck, life is about making mistakes too, and i respect his life. and i feel like i have the same right. sometimes what i thought was a mistake he was doing was not, and vice versa. its all life, and we all learn.
it gets into every thing in life. who i hang out with, who i want to be with in a relationship, and all that shit.
recently i broke up with a girlfriend, and when i told him something like "who knows, maybe we will get back together some day" he reacted quite negative and told me he will totally lose respect to me. i mean, jeesh, let me do what i feel like doing, and if it turns out to be a mistake (which would probably be one), then fuck it. show at least a bit of respect and trust in my decisions, as i did to you.
its borderline manipulative and it can really frustrate me. so what would you recommend me to do? he is a really good friend, helped me out with things some other people would never help me with. but damn, he can get quite annoying and pushy.