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>Have GF of 10 months
>Was logged into her insta, because she was using my phone
>She did some "tbh" thing
>And she sent some dude a direct message, telling the guy that he was amazing, cute and she had a huge crush on him but not to tell anyone, and then told him to never change
So my GF is crushing hard on someone. This is my first relationship. Is this something to be concerned about, or just let it slide?
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Okay /adv/, my girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and we are both just now in college (seperate ones). She's the only person I've ever dated and the only person I've ever fallen in love with.
It's always been a problem, but even now more so, how toxic and dramatic our arguing gets. It seems to have gotten way worse and way more frequent as of late. She manipulates my emotions and I feel like I inadvertently manipulate hers. We've always just resolved our disputes by saying we'll work on it, but we never do.
We've been arguing over breaking up for the past week. I'm terrified of the idea because I don't want her out of my life and I'm not okay with her friends and family hating me for my decision. I want to be friends with her, but I don't want to be so close that we hurt each other. She entirely rejects this idea and says that either we stay together or she, her friends and her family disappear from my life forever. The whole situation is a hundred times more dramatic than it needs to be, and I just want some guidance from someone who's experienced with breakups.
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>Be 23, chat and sext with 15 year old (legal here), fantasy about me taking her virginity but she's 7 hours away so nope
>She loses virginity, then gets a boyfriend (not the same guy), then gets dumped when he finds out he made her pregnant
>Turns out her grandparents live 30 min from here and she might move in with them, she came to them to stay for a few days last Wednesday
>We agree to meet in the afternoon, she keeps postponing it until she texts "Sorry, falling asleep, know you really wanted to meet, call me in the morning"
>Ugh but ok then
>Next morning get a maybe, she has to check out new school. After school she has plans with some friends, get increasingly pissed off until evening, tell her to grow the fuck up and learn to respect other peoples' time
>She apologizes profusely and promises to see me tomorrow
>Talk in the morning, between her school and my work there are like 1,5 free hours, so we agree that she'll come to my place when I get home at 23:00
>Text her at 23:20 saying "Third flake in a day, a letdown, but not a surprise..."
>She replies "Just got off the train, gonna be at your place soon..."
>15 minutes pass, she video calls me on Skype, turns out she's still at her grandparents place in the other city and is about to shower
>Does nothing for a while after shower, then hangs up and texts "getting dressed and coming to you now"
>Wait 80 minutes, then go to bed at 02:40, pissed as fuck.
So...I know this amount of flaking should be met with a fuck off and a block on all social media, but still, she's both pregnant, barely legal and likes to swallow (something my current fwb refuses to do), it's like a fetish dream come true...
Molested my sister, but still want to be friends
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Sort of an odd situation: I wish to be closer to my little sister, on a platonic "compadre" level with that classic camaraderie that should exist between normal siblings. I don't have many friends as it is, and I've recently sort of drifted apart from my little brother (I guess Iwish to fill the void with another family member). My sister seems like the best choice because we are closest in age of all our siblings and share similar hobbies (70s-90s music fetishism, potheads, sort of driftless post-graduation). The hiccup is that when we were little, I molested her. It wasn't full on penetration or anything involving my dick, but it was definitely inappropriate. I think this has soured any chance at a good relationship, but from how she acts towards me nowadays, it seems to be water under the bridge and she has forgiven me. I don't know. Should I even bother reaching out to her (like a simple "hey you wanna go to a bar tonight" type of thing) or should I just not even bother her and not put her through the supposed "repressed memories"?