How can I initiate "sexual contact" with a shy guy?
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So, this guy and I have mutual feelings for each other, but we've decided to wait a while until we start officially dating (it's complicated fully on my part.) A few nights after we confessed our feelings to each other (we've known each other for a long time) we slept in the same bed and (since it was dark and I was less nervous) I kissed him, which led to us making out/him feeling me up for basically the whole night. He said that he really liked the fact that I initiated that, because he's shy and blah blah blah.(Basically, It's up to me to start everything.) Since that night a few weeks ago though, we've never kissed. Whenever we hang out we cuddle/I lay on top of him/we're just really physically close and shit. He's told me how attracted to me he is, and basically how hard it is for him to be that close to me and not have sex, but since our situation is weird, he wants to take things at my pace/not pressure me at all, and he's probably the shyest person I've ever met. So basically, I want the shit that happened that one night to happen much more often, and It's up to me to make it so.
So, I want to take our physical relationship to the next level, but since I'm shy/awkward as well, I want to know what would be a good way to do that without making the situation uncomfortable for both of us...
TL;DR: I want to make out with/do other shit besides cuddling with this guy, how do I initiate it??
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I fucked up, /adv/. Really badly.
I just broke up with my girlfriend of 3 months, mostly because I didn't think that I felt as strongly towards her as I should have by that point. My only point of comparison, however, is my first and only other relationship in which I fell in love with the girl instantly. Since this time didn't seem as great as last time, I decided to end it. Plus, I was my recent girlfriend's first boyfriend, so her saying how much she liked me made me wonder if I should like her more.
I had planned on getting back in contact with said ex sometime after breaking up with my girlfriend, but now I have absolutely no desire to. I instantly regret breaking up with my girlfriend. Anybody else been in this sort of situation? Would it be stupid to call her and ask her to talk about this? I can't help but feel like I threw something good away.
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I can't stop living in the past. I find myself constantly wishing I could go back in time, and I hate it.
I mean, I'm still young. I'm only 20. I may have fucked some things up, but I can't shake the feeling that I'll never be happy again. I have so many regrets, I guess. I always think "man, if I could just go back, try harder in highschool, pursue my interests instead of being so self-conscious my life would be so much better".
How do I stop thinking like that? I just wanna be able to look to the future. Have some motivation and gain some momentum.
Anyone have advice for me?
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hey there i need some tips,
here's the thing, my gf knows that i am a bit crazy and "hack" her multiple email accounts.
tonight, in one of our normal conversations, she mentions a new one i havne't seen before.
as soon as she went off i tried to guess the password, which i failed, i went to retrieve lost password and got the security question right and reseted password to a password she normally uses.
The problem is - that email belongs to her mother and i could see it's quite active and she needs it. I can't tell my GF that i hacked her email again but she will find strange that she mentions this one and her mother complains the password isn't working?
am i screwed? any tips in how can i fix this without telling her?
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I work 9-5, live in a major city, just got home and I need some suggestions on how to socialize.
I have been living in the city for a year and have turned into a stoner room hermit. The roomates I live with are on a completely different page, so no help there.
I find myself seriously at a loss of how to meet people and make friends. I have had friend groups before, had sex, talk normally. etc. I'm not a total weirdo but I don't really fit into category like hipsters, or geeks or punks so I have a really hard time finding my group.
Really what I want is one or two activities I do a couple times a week that are a good way to meet people, and maybe a list of 10-15 places to go to on weekends. Weird? Unrealistic? Where did you start?
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>recently find out boyfriend was living with his girlfriend/their infant son in a house the entire time we were dating
>was an LDR so I never had any idea
>found out by calling his "home" phone by mistake, having a calm conversation with his exasperated/sad sounding gf
>she gets him on the phone later that night, I scream and sob and make my peace, he agrees to everything in a meek tone
>tell him to never EVER contact me again
>few days later, he contacts me on a new skype
>claims innocence, that all of his accounts were hacked, he has been working hard lately and hasn't been around, acts all mad at his ex
>add him back as a friend on Facebook and tell him that I messaged his girlfriend
>he freaks out, tells me to tell her I was just kidding, acts nervous as fuck
>he removes me as a friend the next day
>see that when he listed me as his girlfriend on Facebook, it showed up as with his ex-girlfriend to everyone else
>mfw he seriously had the nerve to try and tell me that was all a lie even after he had been found out
/adv/, I am so overcome with boiling rage that I just want to rip and tear every fucking limb from this guy. I know that the grown up thing to do is to move on and forget about it, but I have these overwhelming vengeful urges and I don't know what to do.
Does anyone have any experience on something like this? What are the best things I could do to get myself over this?