How can I initiate "sexual contact" with a shy guy?
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So, this guy and I have mutual feelings for each other, but we've decided to wait a while until we start officially dating (it's complicated fully on my part.) A few nights after we confessed our feelings to each other (we've known each other for a long time) we slept in the same bed and (since it was dark and I was less nervous) I kissed him, which led to us making out/him feeling me up for basically the whole night. He said that he really liked the fact that I initiated that, because he's shy and blah blah blah.(Basically, It's up to me to start everything.) Since that night a few weeks ago though, we've never kissed. Whenever we hang out we cuddle/I lay on top of him/we're just really physically close and shit. He's told me how attracted to me he is, and basically how hard it is for him to be that close to me and not have sex, but since our situation is weird, he wants to take things at my pace/not pressure me at all, and he's probably the shyest person I've ever met. So basically, I want the shit that happened that one night to happen much more often, and It's up to me to make it so.
So, I want to take our physical relationship to the next level, but since I'm shy/awkward as well, I want to know what would be a good way to do that without making the situation uncomfortable for both of us...
TL;DR: I want to make out with/do other shit besides cuddling with this guy, how do I initiate it??
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So, is there such a thing as a male support thing that isn't just "bitches and whores with black hole between their legs that suck up your masculine light?"
I mean, all the usual suspects are full of female support, and that's fine, no problem, but anywhere I go for help is just misogyny and hate.
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Long story short, I've got a close friend who is worrying me. She's acting increasingly self-destructive, and when she went to her parents (at my and another friend's urging), they told her to stop looking for attention. What the hell do I do here? I'm really worried for her, and I feel like I'm running out of things to say. Where can she get help, and what can I say to make her feel better?
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I want to become a family physician.
Is there some sort of hidden down-side to this career path? I know there are issues with other career paths.
Pharmacists can get no jobs, almost every career kids want to be (vets, firefighters, police men, etc) suck when it comes to salary, vets are likely to be suicidal and depressed, etc.
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How do you know when you're gay, or if you're just bi-curious, or if you're in denial, or what. I feel like I could be gay or at least bi, but without actually going through with gay actions, how will I know? then if I hate myself afterwards, what then? I mean fuck.
Any advice would be great.
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My girlfriends dad just died. Me and her have been together for less than a year, but her dad has been muh nigga ever since she introduced me to him. I was with him when he died, me and him were standing in a mall and talking and he told me was feeling a bit strange and then we made a joke and I turned around to get something from a shelve and while I was picking stuff out I heard him collapse, I looked back and he was grabbing his chest and panting. I called the ambulance, but he didn't make it, they took him away and the hospital called them to tell them he died.
I don't know what to do right now, I haven't spoken to my girl since and it's been like 12 hours I just I don't know.
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>tl;dr met dude at my university on OKC, he's alright, but I am acting like an aspie fuck and I don't know what to do next.
I started talking to this dude on OKC who goes to my university, and he asked me out to lunch one day. We got along alright, and we text occasionally, but our conversations are pretty empty and bland at this point (e.g. how was your day, how's class, etc.).
So last night, he invited me to dinner and we had that sort of conversation once more. Also, I learned he was going to be in one of my classes next semester. I invited him to whatever I was doing later that night, but he just says he's going to head back to his room.
Here's the funky aspie part.
We're walking towards his place and I awkwardly say, "oh, I actually have to go the other way." I hug him goodbye, and after I do so, he kind of gives me this look. In the most awkward, scatterbrained manner, I basically say, "hey, so...what is this? We went on two dates I guess, but I'm not really sure what is happening" (with a lot more uhms, and uhs). He replies, "let's try this," and kisses me. I then proceed to say something along the lines of, "uhm, okay, that's solid too." Cue awkward laughter, and we kiss again, and part ways.
Later that night, I end up getting pretty smashed at some shindig somewhere, and I get the urge to text him and ask him to hang out...at 1am. Not the wisest decision, I know. Goes something like:
>How tired are you?
>Alright, I was going to say if you weren't too tired, we could hang out for a bit.
>He doesn't reply
This was last night. Where do I go from here?
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Shes the first girl I've ever fallen for that i don't want to fuck her to keep her from talking.
I've never had an issue with 'friend-zoning', wasn't even aware that it actually exists. After spending months perusing this girl we finally got there. She unexpectedly spent the night in my bed. I finally got over the mixed messages, got over having feelings for someone who didn't share them back. We got intimate, far beyond the casual one night stand. We spoke for 12 hours straight that night. Shes not overly beautiful, we don't have all that much in common. But i can't resist falling in so deep that its driving me insane.
From her actions it was obvious that she felt something for me. We conversed about how earlier in the month she'd felt guilty for getting close with a guy who she admitted to stringing along. I told her i didn't want to become that guy. She continued being intimate. She has been to his house since, telling me she was going to be clear with him, she comes back home. Only now, after i attempted to clarify were we stood, shes brings up how she can't see a place for me in her future.
Im so far over being fucked around. Im seeing her in a few hours. What do?
Shes no slut by all means, real intelligent. Are some girls really this fucken cold hearted?