How can I initiate "sexual contact" with a shy guy?
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So, this guy and I have mutual feelings for each other, but we've decided to wait a while until we start officially dating (it's complicated fully on my part.) A few nights after we confessed our feelings to each other (we've known each other for a long time) we slept in the same bed and (since it was dark and I was less nervous) I kissed him, which led to us making out/him feeling me up for basically the whole night. He said that he really liked the fact that I initiated that, because he's shy and blah blah blah.(Basically, It's up to me to start everything.) Since that night a few weeks ago though, we've never kissed. Whenever we hang out we cuddle/I lay on top of him/we're just really physically close and shit. He's told me how attracted to me he is, and basically how hard it is for him to be that close to me and not have sex, but since our situation is weird, he wants to take things at my pace/not pressure me at all, and he's probably the shyest person I've ever met. So basically, I want the shit that happened that one night to happen much more often, and It's up to me to make it so.
So, I want to take our physical relationship to the next level, but since I'm shy/awkward as well, I want to know what would be a good way to do that without making the situation uncomfortable for both of us...
TL;DR: I want to make out with/do other shit besides cuddling with this guy, how do I initiate it??
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s my question, and /adv/ can go fuck themselves, im asking you guys for a reason. so theres about 2 months left on the lease on this house im renting with two others. one of them moves out, so we get another dude to fill in. well first weekend hes here, he brings a girl over to the house and she takes a liking to me. not only that, but makes it very very obvious that she wants me and wants nothing to do with this other dude. well since the dude seems like he likes her and he technically he had implied dibs, would it be bad for me to hit it? now mind you, shes a solid 6 maybe 7, so its not like shes really that worth it, but i also havent gotten laid in forever. me and the roomate actually talked about it and he doesnt seem that cool with it, he basically said he wasnt gonna trip if i went through with it but he would be pissed, which doesnt help at all, so i guess the question is,
TL;DR: roomate brings girl he likes over, shes more into me, do i hit it or no?
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I fucked up, /adv/. Really badly.
I just broke up with my girlfriend of 3 months, mostly because I didn't think that I felt as strongly towards her as I should have by that point. My only point of comparison, however, is my first and only other relationship in which I fell in love with the girl instantly. Since this time didn't seem as great as last time, I decided to end it. Plus, I was my recent girlfriend's first boyfriend, so her saying how much she liked me made me wonder if I should like her more.
I had planned on getting back in contact with said ex sometime after breaking up with my girlfriend, but now I have absolutely no desire to. I instantly regret breaking up with my girlfriend. Anybody else been in this sort of situation? Would it be stupid to call her and ask her to talk about this? I can't help but feel like I threw something good away.
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I can't stop living in the past. I find myself constantly wishing I could go back in time, and I hate it.
I mean, I'm still young. I'm only 20. I may have fucked some things up, but I can't shake the feeling that I'll never be happy again. I have so many regrets, I guess. I always think "man, if I could just go back, try harder in highschool, pursue my interests instead of being so self-conscious my life would be so much better".
How do I stop thinking like that? I just wanna be able to look to the future. Have some motivation and gain some momentum.
Anyone have advice for me?
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hey there i need some tips,
here's the thing, my gf knows that i am a bit crazy and "hack" her multiple email accounts.
tonight, in one of our normal conversations, she mentions a new one i havne't seen before.
as soon as she went off i tried to guess the password, which i failed, i went to retrieve lost password and got the security question right and reseted password to a password she normally uses.
The problem is - that email belongs to her mother and i could see it's quite active and she needs it. I can't tell my GF that i hacked her email again but she will find strange that she mentions this one and her mother complains the password isn't working?
am i screwed? any tips in how can i fix this without telling her?