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Can people learn gratitude?

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I'm not good at this so bear with ne please. 3 days ago my girlfriend/mothers child told me she needed money for our sons day care as it will be more expensive since she has to awake earlier than normal for this week. I just recently got my first paycheck so I told her after I cashed the check the entire thing would be hers. She thanked me and we continued on normally and she was being kind for the most part to me. Yesterday or saturday I guess when I woke up I noticed the entire check was not put into my account since they can only deposit up to 200 dollars once a day if you deposit the check using the app. Since it was not a working day it obviously won't be deposited until monday. I told her about it and sent her the 200 and she threw a tantrum at me for missing the 40 dollars she needed for the day care and said she and my son couldn't count on me since I'm not dependable. She hung up on me and I had to ask my mom if she could lend her the 40 dollars for daycare and I'd pay her back today. I told her the rest of the money was sent and she was happy and didn't apologize until I called her out of being ungrateful to someone who cares about her well being and does a lot to help her already. She gave a shallow apology and I just left it at that. The thing is she does this a lot. I will go out of my way to do something for her and if one thing goes wrong she will insult me and criticize me. I cannot lie, I think I hate her and I don't really see her changing from being the selfish, entitled little girl that she is. I can't leave her though as she will keep my son from me. As time goes on though I start to care less and less about her and my son. I love my son, but if I have to deal with my girlfriend for 18 more years I'd really consider killing myself. I'm doing everything in my power to accommodate her and I give her literally everything I have. Even when it benifits neither of us or in a bad way.
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How do you deal with everything being unstable, unreliable and temporary and being unwanted everywhere?

Bored Navy Recruiter

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Hey guys, Im currently a Chief Intelligence Specialist, working as a recruiter for my shore duty. Please feel free to ask me anything, about my career or questions about the Navy in general. >Pic semi related, sort of looks like me

Community College vs University

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Hey guys, so I'm in my freshman year at a community college, it's going well academically, my professors like me, me grades are good, etc. Anyways, why I'm going to Comminity College is because it's way less money to go to CC than my state university. Now this is where the advice part comes: should I go to my state university next year? My community college is pretty damn dull, I don't have any friends there, and my friends are all having a great time at the university. It costs a lot more money to go to the university though. Should I keep hustling through at CC next year and be bored out of my mind or pay more money to move in with my friends at the university? >pic unrelated
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Last few months, I've been getting weird vibes about my girlfriend of 1.5 years and her coworker. Suspicions have been confirmed - she has cheated to some degree. I have a zero tolerance policy. She does not yet know that I know. I do not wish to confront her because I have a meeting tomorrow morning and cannot deal with a breakup right this minute. She's been living with me for the past 4 months (as in, 90% of her belongings are here). However, her bills and licenses and anything official is all mailed to her real address (her parents' house) The house is mine - I owned it before I met her. She does not pay any bills or taxes. Onto my question: She leaves an hour before me in the morning. I plan on changing the locks. I do NOT want her back in the house. I plan on dumping her via text and telling her that she can pick up her stuff tomorrow night. Am I bound legally to let her in the house again? I'm not going to keep her stuff, but I don't want her in the house again for a variety of reasons (mainly, not in the mood to hear her profess innocence, take things that aren't hers, claim abuse, etc.)
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If I get a new girlfriend am I obligated to delete nude pics and sexy videos my ex-girlfriend gave me? I still like to masturbate to those.

ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers. Avoid asking these common questions: >I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do? Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it. >I like someone. What do I do? Ask them out. >How can I tell if someone likes me? Ask them out. >Where do I meet girls/guys? Anywhere outside. Even online. >Is my body part big/small enough? >Am I short/tall enough? Most likely >Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean? Nothing significant >XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl? Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know >This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this? Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing >Would you date a virgin? As long as they aren't insecure about it >Did I fuck up with a girl? Maybe, maybe not. Only she knows. >Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance? No >Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date? Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city> >That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking >Brandon or Female Brandon Piss off. And please no derailing arguments.

Social advice...again

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Hey adv, it's me again. I'm not sure what to do about my social life, I have one or two good friends that include me in their things with their other friends but the others don't seem to like me much. Help?

How is it that men can feel this entitled

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Why do men who complain about how women have it easy and how "beta males" have it worse than them because they "are unwanted and women are repulsed by them" always forget to mention that they're only talking about the most hot, beautiful popular women? they can get women easily. they call such women plain, homely, etc. so basically these men are saying women who dont look are dress like taylor swift for example aren't women and they don't count for shet.

I cheated

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So I cheated on my gf of two years. We have two kids both younger than two and in finding out she told the whole world including my coworkers. Were trying to work it out for our kids, but my life is extremely depressing now. Feeling like I'm constantly being judged by coworkers and family sucks. And it doesn't help that my girlfriend will have the occasional outburst and making me feel like more shit. I guess I do deserve it but will things eventually get better? Has anyone been in a similar situation or cheated before? Seriously, don't cheat.
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So a girl I really really like wants me to take her virginity. Anyone here done this before? She masturbates apparently but said she has never penetrated herself, I'm scared of it being an awkward bloody mess. So advice? Experiences?
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>live in rural area >2 hours from nearest city >county is nothing but a clusterfuck of trees and small towns ridiculously far apart >no jobs at all >nothing but a single grocery store per town and fast food, gas stations, and honkey tonk bars It takes a very special person to live this far from anything and I can't relate or connect to anyone. How the fuck do you survive this?
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I'm in 30k of student debt for a useless degree and working in retail. What is the best way to get out of the shitty-job slump without digging myself deeper into debt?

School depresses the fuck out of me

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No matter what I do, school is always a fucking huge downer. I tried getting into clubs and other stuff, but I always end up with people I fucking hate (which I seem to see more than others). None of my courses are fun, and I want to graduate, but GODDAMN does this suck. I also have no idea where the fuck I'm going in life, so I'm kind of doing my best at everything just to make sure I get whatever job I decide to have in the future, but that tires the shit outta me, plus it interferes with my current job. Is there anyway to make school more fun for me?
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I feel lonely. I like being alone. That is not the issue (introvert and socially awkward. Bt still fairly social). But I've been single for a year, and went through 4 months recently with little contact with people my age. Or people my age I actually like. A girl I've known for a year, and who was my neighbor for a while, just heard a rumor about how I'm more open and nice than my usual cold and distant self when I drink alcohol. Now she wants to come at my house one night with beer to get to know me better and see how I am when i'm at ease. I accepted. I don't know if I should see that as an interest from her or not. She did hug me, and so did I, several times. And she kissed me on the cheek when i asked (I said "I think I deserve at least a kiss for the effort this is going to be"). Which she never did the previous time I made such a move. (months ago when we barely knew each other).
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>18 >works towards getting a job >is passionate about art >likes comics, vidya, cartoons, and some anime >get but started lifting, meager gains still a fatty though >has friends but generally doesn't hang with them So the only reason I'm single is because I'm fat right? Once that's gone ill be able to meet someone nice?

How do I meet women my age?

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Holy shit /adv/.. It feels like women my age(24) are pretty much fucking dead. I am a 24 year old male and I have never had a girlfriend. The only women I ever see walking around are 30 something OR fucking teenagers. I never see 20 something year old females unless I am at a place like a university which does me no good because I work at a university and dating the student body is some kind of ethical concern to me. Anyway, WHERE THE FUCK ARE ALL THE WOMEN?! I hate clubs, hate dancing, hate bars. would it be inappropriate to ask a womans age? Assuming you don't know her very well. Is it inappropriate to ask out store cashiers? I saw this really pretty indian girl at the store near my house on the cashier. I really want to talk to her more than just when she rings up my shit.. I want to have full blown conversation! Is it inappropriate to ask her age or even ask her out? How the fuck do I build a rapport with these women when I only get to speak with them for such a short amount of time! HELP!
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Can a man love two(or more) women?
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Why do people who do good things always get shat on? There's this one person I've been getting to know who is one of the nicest people you can meet. He's generous, let's you talk about whatever you want, he listens, he always gives away a few bills to homeless people if he has any to spare, he volunteers for a number of good causes. Quite a bit to add to his repertoire. Yet you'll still find people who give him a hard time. Who are sometimes just absolutely awful to him. Making weird, bigoted assumptions about him that you have no idea what they're basing it on; and sometimes sound like the complete opposite person. They talk about him behind his back. And make very judgemental conclusions about his character. Not only that, but there's a surprising number of women who do this. Often ones I don't think I've even seen him approach or be in the same space as. He usually sticks to people who knows well, so you don't really see him venturing too much outside his usual circles. Is this why it's hard to find good people in this world? Because others treat them so terribly? I thought this shit would end the second I left undergrad.
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My girlfriend is a massage therapist. She is currently doing a 100 hour residency to get certified in our state. She says that literally every single black guy who has come in has gotten an erection during the massage and tried to get her to touch it. No other race tried that, all the other men understood these are student interns and it isn't that kind of massage. There is absolutely no way she can say no to black patients, but she still has a month left of her residency before she can start her own practice and pick her clients. Do we just have to sit back and take it, or is there a workaround?






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