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The constant presence of cameras and the ability to photograph myself on my free time has been driving me insane for the past three years.
People tell me I'm attractive, if a bit awkward, and decent photos usually reflect that.
But on my own time, I have a horrible habit of photographing myself with the front camera of my phone or my laptop to see how I look, constantly, and I always find myself looking grotesque. It reveals every imperfection, every little zit. I fucking hate it, I wish I didn't have access to this shit, it's such a self-destroying compulsion.
ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Even online.
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking
>Brandon or Female Brandon
depressed friend wants to reconnect
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So, this girl used to be my best friend, then we got in a relationship, and then she got depressed and broke up with me and pretty much stopped talking to me for 7 months despite my attempts to contact her.
Now she writes:
"Hey, let's drop everything that happened, and just pretend nothing happened. I honestly do want to talk with you again. But bringing it up pisses me off so, if you're interested, you know what to do."
What should I do? I do want to still be friends with her.. better than being ignored and treated like shit, but at the same time i don't want a "friend" who disappears during the bad times and who never opens up with me. She says "bringing it up pisses her off", and I really don't like that part. It seems like she doesn't want me to mention her depression or ask for an explanation as to why she flat out ignored me for 7 months, and I honestly can't do that. I need an explanation for how she behaved and an apology.
Anyone has been on the other side and can maybe explain to me what's going on through her mind?
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So I met this guy, and he's pretty cute and nice. I really like him, and things have been going along smoothly for a few months now. But there's a huge problem. He loves anime and Japanese shit. His bedroom is covered in anime wall paper and he has anime dolls. When he's not with me, he spends his spare time watching it constantly. He always tries to talk to me about it, but I just don't care. They're cartoons for kids, and we're in our mid-20s. If he doesn't quit it, I feel like I'll have to leave him. I've kept quiet about my resentment for it thus far, but he knows I don't like it.
How do I gently tell him that he needs to stop with the Japanese crap and the cartoon girls and whatnot, or else it could jeopardize our relationship?
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Today on the way home from school, I was driving about like I usually do, except that I got pulled over. I was going about 35 MPH in a school zone, and as far as I know, the school zone speed limits (20 in my area) only apply when there are children present, and in this case, there were no children present.
The thing that surprised me the most was that the officer pulled me over, but not the person in front of me, which doesn't make sense to me at all since we were both pretty much going the same speed.
I'm due in court in about two weeks, and I was thinking about what I could say to avoid getting any criminal charges. Mind you, this is my first time ever getting involved with the law, so I really need to know what I can say in court to avoid blemishing my slate.
I've never been in court, so I don't know if you can say anything, but if I'm allowed to, I was thinking about telling the judge one of the following (with "your honor" obviously preceding any of these statements):
"When I saw those lights go off, I didn't hope that I wouldn't get a ticket, I hoped I wouldn't get shot."
"The first thing that came to mind when the officer pulled me over was my mom. I hoped everything would be okay because I didn't want her to get a call saying her son was dead."
"There was somebody else driving in front of me and we were both going the same speed. I'm thinking that person didn't get pulled over because he or she was light-skinned."
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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Decided to make this thread for all of us to help each other out with tips on dating, or asking her to be your gf or fucking..w.e.
I'll start: I have been chatting/hanging out with this girl for about 2 months now. We have been to concerts.movies,shopping,netflix..just the 'couple/friends' thing. I am trying to NOT to stay in the friend/beta zone, but think I am already in it.
I am, however, always laying and rubbing my hand on her legs when I am driving..grab her by the waist/sides from behind and wrap myself around her so I am grinding agaist her..she does not push herself away or move my hands away..I rub her on her lower back and put my arm around her when we walk in public.. tell her I want to take her on dates and we go (I use the term date as that what I tell her 'I want to take you on a date' ) I want to tell her we should date..or at least fuck, but am worried that maybe I am just getting mixed signals..
What should I do?
I already told her that I really liked her,but never directly asked her that we should date-date as bf/gf.
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Femanon here wit a problem. Serious/knowledgable answers only please.
I have been sexually active for 3 years now. I have had two different partners, and my current SO tels me he is not unexperienced. But it has been a year now, I have not been able to come. not once. I am very close to going to sexual psyhologist or something because I am at the end of my rope.
I do fine with masturbating by myself (vibrator, change my hands once in a while to variate).
Can you imagine how frustrating it is when you're with the one you love, and you feel nice things, but you aren't able to come for a whole year?
When I ask my bf to do something (i.e. fingering) because I dont want to be vague about it, he seems pressured and ends up not doing it at all. Like, he hasn't fingered me in 2 months now, while he is still getting of.
What do I do. I have had times when I am so frustrated I seriously want to hurt myself.
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>Need info on something uni related
>Remember a girl for the same class as I from 2 years ago that could have it
>Contact her via FB, add her to my friends so my message doesn't end up ignored in the "other" message box
>Answer the message, giving me the info, but doesn't add me even though she has 3 friends from the same time, that barely knew her anymore than I
How not to be affected by things like this ? Not a creep nor a wizard btw, I'm kind of outgoing and well seen by people by these kind of attitude really brings me down especially during a time of low self esteem like those past few weeks.
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my closest friend is becoming super weird nowdays or i see his real character, i dont know, what should i do know?
we have known each other about 14 years, now i moved a new city that he is already living, i live in some kind of residence apartment, i visited his house about 4 times before, slept there etc. but when i call him to stay mine or just for friendly visiting, he always refuses and this make me angry because it feels weird for me, you are my friend? and i am new in town, i call you endless times to come my house, but you refuse
there are other weird things about him but i need help
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So... i think i just saw my online gf in a homemade porn vid.
I'm freaking out cause it looks just like her but the video is in bad lighting and quality. She's the kind of girl who literally has no friends besides me, and is always the anxious type, so it seems far fetched, but god damn it looks just like her from this angle, the nose, the tits, the belly, the arms, the hair, the eyes, the body.
How do I go about asking her? or should I ask her at all?
I already know people are gonna ask for vid. this is it on mothaless F75ABA9