Please help me, Should I facebook message my former doctor?
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Long story short, I have a crush on my doctor who I just stopped seeing because I no longer need his services. It was not for anything serious, and we saw each other once a month for my allergy treatments. Now everything is good and I no longer need to see him. I have a big crush on him. He's all I think about, seriously. I just JUST found his fb, which is weird because I've tried searching him before- trust me.
He's in his late 30s, maybe early 40s. I'm 25. I have no idea if the attraction is mutual, he remained professional the whole time and so did I.
So should I Fb message him? Will that make me look like a stalker?? Or does that stalker thing only apply if he isn't interested?
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I asked out a girl on the date. And she said yes, we are going out on Saturday.
Problem is I've never been on a date before.
And I live in a boring town. Not shit to do.
We are both in college, and we are already friends.
So I don't know if I should do just a small ice cream date for lunch, or do I go all out and go to some interesting place, and then dinner, and then desert?
I really don't know what I am doing.
I don't even know what to wear, I think something casual, I don't think she is going to be very dressed up, and I don't want to be overdressed and look like a retard who has never been on a date.
Confused about my girlfriend
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So I've been doing an LDR with my girlfriend for a few months now. It's been very rocky, but we made it through with 0 incidents on either of our parts.. I am about to see her again, but she is telling me that when we meet up again she isn't sure about wanting to see me for very much time.
I was hurt, and kind of pursued it saying I'd like it if we could leave it on the table, but clearly it was something that really bothered her and made her feel upset.. She wants me to come see her for tea and lunch and see each other first, and the idea of spending more time with me seems.. daunting? To her. She can't handle thinking about it. She is extremely introverted, for background. Extremely shy, not outgoing at all.
So.. can a femanon or introvertnon help me to understand? Should I be hurt? Confused? Worried? Or does she just need time to get used to having me back in her? I mean, she has what her counselors (ofc she has counselors) call a "very strong internal life" and has legitimately 0 close relationships except for me.. and having me come back could be a serious shock to her system and her life.. is this maybe what it is for her?
Anyone help me out?
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I was having a sorte of an "open relationship" with a girl around 2 months ago. We weren't dating. We just went out once in a while And made out. She was the first onde to ever touch my Dick. I didn't want to, but I fell in love. Now she is in love with somebody else. She posta things about him on fb with such glee that it makes me want to throw up.
The worst psrt is that she stills treats me well because she wants to always have me as a "step", someone she can go to when she has nobody else. That all hurts. I AM seriously considering blocking her on FB. I've already stopped following her wall, but i always end up looking her up again. Do I want to hurt her? A little. But I certainly do not want her to think I AM mad at her. I just want this Pain to end. Maybe I shouldn't give a fuck about how she feels, but it's just that she is such a good person to me after all.
I know that she lives him...And they probably have already fucked. I AM still a virgin And thought she ought to be the one.
Anyway, i'm getting off track. Just how AM I supposed to handle seeing them together day after day? We all study together.
PIC is her with him. I don't give 2 shits if you find her or me.
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I was wondering about something that has been making me quit every study i start.
I am 23 years old and i can be overly interested in a specific field, for example:
>Started to do a study about safety and quit
>Started Chemistry and quit
>Started Engineering and quit
>Started CS and quit
>Currently doing trade school and want to quit
Every time i quit it was because i wanted to do the field that is listed below it.
Every fucking time..
I get so interested in a field, and want to go for it and suddenly i think of something else and i gain interest in it and i cant fucking lose it anymore, while the interest in the current study is completely out of the window, cant motivate myself to finish it because somehow i am certain that i dont want that field but i want that other field i just thought of.
now i am doing trade school and all of a sudden i want to do psychology and i lost all interest in the trade school
It fucks me up,
Does anyone here know what could be causing this and how i should deal with this?
>Probably good to tell that i have ADD and dysthymia
ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking
>Brandon or Female Brandon
Also piss off.