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>dont feel like bf and i can work out in the long run unless he gets much more mature >like/love him so much that I don't want to end it prematurely I mean all the feelings are still there. I love him, he loves me. We get along excellently. But our relationship is getting longer, we're getting older. We've been together 5 years and he's not transitioning to adulthood that well. He's so Mr. Right-Now with the total potential to be Mr. Right. But he's so emotionally immature and I feel past that already. Example, he's not a neet, but he doesn't want to move out of his parent's home yet. His long term career goal, he treats it like it's still a dream in the distance when he has the capability to go for it right now. Like to intern, or get an entry-level in the field. While he's not a loser, not lazy, not undriven. He just never thinks about the future. His future. A future with me possibly. He just wants everything to stay the same because it works like that. I don't know what to do. This seems like the biggest potential flaw of our relationship. I fear it may end up as wasted time for me. It feels like I'm waiting around for him to grow up. We're 23... What do?


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So /adv/. I'm nearing my late 20s, the pressure is on from my family (especially my father, as I am his only child) and my partner is also starting to get older. People are expecting me to pop out kids soon. But my problem here is that I don't want to have kids, I don't want to be pregnant, I don't want to give birth, I don't want to raise an infant and I don't want to be bound to someone like that forever. I already have little contact with my family, I feel alienated from them at every gathering, we can't get along. My parents and brother are the only ones I care about. I've always been very clear that I don't want to have children, but when I think about how disappointed and sad my father will be I get pretty depressed (my mom is more chill about it, probably because her other kid (my brother) already has kids). I'm also worried about my partner, whom I love very much and would love to spend the rest of my life with, and how he will feel and react to me not wanting children. We haven't talked about it yet, not properly, but he knows my disdain for children. I wouldn't care if he went off and had kids on his own, but I want nothing to do with it, unfortunately it's illegal to have a surrogate where we live. I'm just not sure what to do or think about this situation, has anyone here been in a similar situation? Pls halp


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I never had a girlfriend, but i also NEVER spend money on a girl ever. now i went on some dates and idk what to do. or what about presents and such. guess i am a greedy cunt but i realize this is kind of part of the whole thing, right? like when i split a bill on a date, is that unacceptable? when should i buy a girl a present? any input will help

Fuckin strippers

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Alright guys, tell me what I should do here. I'm getting married soon. At my bachelor party, the guys hired some strippers. They were busted and really cheap. It was part of the joke. Anyway, they had me go in a room with one. She danced a bit, threw a condom on my limp dick, and started sucking. I was REALLY hammered. Fading to black. I finally snapped back to reality and the full weight of what was going on hit me. I asked her to stop, she got up and left. I told the guys and they kinda just laughed about it, like since it was my bachelor party I get a pass. I feel AWFUL. I feel disgusted with myself. I've been with this woman for 6 years now and never even come close to cheating. I never thought of myself as a cheater until this happened. Now I can barely look at myself in the mirror. My best man is telling me I'm overreacting, but I can't focus at work, I'm worried I jsut ruined my best chance at a great life. If I tell my financee, she would leave me. Period. Help me /adv/. What do I do?
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Help. I am a student and my boyfriend in college 6 hours away. His parents said I could come with them and they pay for the room. I brought food with me for the trip I have crohns and can only eat certian things they got mad at me because I did not want mc donalds. I am also allergic to nicotean and I reminded his dad but he is still doing it. It is against the law to smoke and drive where I live anyway. We get to the hotel and its a 20 dollars a night motel with a smoke room. I am in the washroom hiding it is really gross here. I am too afraid to see his parents. What do I do?

i still don't have a boyfriend

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feel like there's something wrong with me.


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tl;dr: I dont drink soda or beer. what do i tell people when they ask me why i dont drink these. I dont drink beer or soda...like ever I decided long ago to try and quit soda to see how long i could go without it years later i have only drank it on occasion ONLY mixed with alcohol. I bought an alcoholic beverage and well i wasnt going to let it go to waste. This is the only time ive broken my rule, when the soda is mixed with the alcohol. On a side note i also dont drink beer. Ever hear of beer belly? I dont like the taste, think its cheap shitty water basically. (I rarely drink alcohol) ANYWAYS when at social gatherings people usually drink beer here cuz its cheap. then when they ask me why im not drinking i sound like i have Asperger explaining why i dont drink beer cuz i cant come up with a legitimate excuse. I just say i dont drink beer. But you know how people are they insist! also want to know what i can say to when people offer me soda. this is the worst one because thats all there is at social gatherings besides beer.

ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers. And please no derailing arguments. Avoid asking these common questions: >Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>? Some do, some don't. >I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do? Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it. >I like someone. What do I do? Ask them out. >How can I tell if someone likes me? Ask them out. >Where do I meet girls/guys? Anywhere outside. Or online. >Is my body part big/small enough? >Am I short/tall enough? Most likely >Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean? Nothing significant >XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl? Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know >This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this? Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing >Would you date a virgin? As long as they aren't insecure about it >Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance? No >Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date? Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city> >That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking >Brandon or Female Brandon Piss off.

Guys I fucked up - led a girl on

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I met a girl through a mutual friend, she added me on facebook short time later, talks to me through facebook and gives her number to me without me asking for it. She playfully teases me and flirts with me and I reciprocate. Eventually led to me making a promise about taking her to Moe's I don't find her attractive, that's why I don't like her. But she's been the first girl that's been so forward and flirtatious with me that I just ended up liking the attention and giving it back and now I'm regretting it. Obviously going to Moe's would imply a date, and I don't want to lead this girl into thinking I'm into her. Is there any way to salvage this situation by being like "hehe just a flirtatious guy here, let's go as friends ok?" or do I have to be a dick to this girl saying "led you on sorry" and suffer the consequences? Fuck I regret everything.


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I have to change my appearance before I go to college to hide my identity I need advice on how to do this and remain incognito
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How can I tell if an ex still loves me through a text? We live far away from each other (reason) but I just wanna know.
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I have a friend who's boyfriend just broke up with her. He told her, "We just aren't in the same place, and I can't be the person you want me to be." She's had two other guys break up with her since I've known her, and for similar reasons: "I'm not good enough for you." "I think we should pick this up once I've gotten my shit together." I hate to say it to her, but it sounds like maybe her expectations are too high? Maybe she's putting them on a pedestal, and they feel inadequate, or overwhelmed? I'm not sure just because I've never felt this way and certainly never told a girl this when I broke up with them, so I'm not sure if that's the case, or they all found someone else, and it's just a coincidence that they all came up with that to be "polite" in breaking up. Thoughts? What should I say to her? If it is her fault, I don't want to chew her out.

Need some thoughts

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>pretty average guy not very good looking >have child >rachet bitch who always hated me now madly jealous of my gf >constantly tries to be near me, hates my gf guts what is going on? pretty sure i could bang this girl but she's rachet as all fuck and i'm not single i just want to know why she changed her tune


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OK. Where the fuck do I begin. Dating this girl for more than a month, shes really into me( she initiated hand touching shit, bites my shoulders hugs me every so often etc) and we kiss and shit a lot but we never like fucked or anything. I'm always texting her nice things, we call and talk to each other literally like bf/gf shit k? k so my last text I sent was "Good morning beautiful" and she was like "Awwee you called me beautiful :)" all that gay stuff right, next day. SAYS NOTHING. ignores the living fuck out of me. Send her texts, never responds. Send he snapchats, she opens them but doesn't respond. Send her facebook messages, she sees them but says nothing. The worst part? She STILL HASNT SAID ANYTHING WHAT THE FUCK its like she got a change of heart all of the sudden and doesnt even know I exist like I see her fucking snap stories and shes all happy with friends and shit but straight up ignores the fuck out of me. WHYYYYYYYYYYYYY????

Why do people do PhDs?

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You really have to be the very best to find a permanent job in academia as the field is saturated as fuck. Why do people do PhDs then? It's pretty unrealistic to think that you will be the very best/very successful. It's not like you will win some prestigious international award.

Crossdressing, I feel like I might be fucked up before I even try it

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if it helps with context: I'm a 24 year old guy still living at home, I graduated with a stem degree last summer but I'm still working a part-time job, I haven't really had any friends since highschool and I've never kissed a girl or anything like that. so I'm not really really full NEET but close enough since I don't have anywhere to go besides work. My interest in crossdressing started my freshman year when I was really depressed but it came and went as I got used to things, started therapy for social anxiety, started working etc, but the thing is I've never actually done it, because I never had the privacy or the money at the right time. Now my family is going away and I have money to finally try it after fantasizing about it years, and the house all to myself but I feel like I have a problem already. Part of me feels excited like it's I have to do it because I've finally got the chance, but part of me feels pathetic actually getting ready to waste money on something that won't do anything to help my social life, and will probably make me feel even more fucked since I'll just have to hide everything about it. Do I do it and hopefully get over the obsession or do I repress it and try to find something productive to do? Has anyone else dealt with this?
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What are the better self-help books?
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What the hell is so fun about socializing?

What the fuck is wrong with me?

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So hear me out. I just came back from a 5 hour "drink" (not much alcohol involved) and after fucking a random girl that seem interested in me I realised most of the humanity is fucking stupid. How come no one realises the can be tracked 24/7? How they still think their bullshit idea is unique? Why do they perceive their self as more creative as other? I mean, some sure do but not everyone. Why profit for yourself if you have an idea and not give to others? I gave more to others as I gained more from others; the guideline I follow. But certain people think they can profit for their selves even though they sell my knowledge around. Should I quit my job? As a head of development I feel responsible for everything the firm profits without others realising it just takes an idea to solve their problem. Not the money they pay to solve their problem? How come humanity in 2015 is still not cooperating? This is bullshit humanity.

Loss prevention

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Loss prevention guy here. It really gets me that we aren't allowed to touch people that steal stuff. There was a guy in the store earlier that put stuff in his backpack and walked out. I was outside and confronted him about it, and he pretty much knew I couldn't do anything to stop him, he refused to give up the stuff. I mean there's the grey area of if he touches me, I could do self defense and fight back, but that would require them to be upset, and most thieves would rather run away than try to fight people that work there. So what's the best way for me to recover merchandise from people that I can't talk to? I was thinking maybe talking shit to them, see if they want to get physical and recovery it that way, and if cops have to get involved, I can always lie and I'm sure they'd believe me over a thief trying to steal stuff. Any thoughts?

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