Prostitutes and escorts
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So I'm a 21 male virgin and I want to establish my sexual identity. Long story short, I was a fairly attractive young guy at 16-17, set to lose my virginity to my high school girlfriend, but she committed suicide and it ruined me in every way. I'm beyond it almost entirely, but I've missed out on a lot of social and emotional experiences the last few years.
I'd try to have casual sex with girls at my college like a normal person, but I've become unattractive. I'm a 5-7 depending on whom you ask, but I have scars and a skin condition that would drop me down to a 3 probably; with a prostitute or escort, I wouldn't have to worry about that and would just learn the act, right?
Is this a good idea? Where can I get what I want? I'd go to Vegas for an escort except I'm poor.
ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Is it normal for me to go to a club/bar by myself?
Yes. Stop overthinking this.
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking
>Brandon or Female Brandon
Also piss off.
First move /adv/ice
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To make a potentially long story somewhat short, I've met a girl, whose really good childhood friends with my best buddy, like 4 times now(always through and with him - party enviroments).
>like 4 years ago
>she got shitfaced
>we talked a fair share
>held her hair and shit while she threw up
Fast forward to recently
2nd time irrelevant, didnt talk really
>distant because basically strangers again
>recap on first time meeting, tease her
>talk really much, also mostly just us two, she engages and comes back to me and other way around
>tells me I'm funny and make her laugh
>friend sends her a snap of me cooking, she asks what were up to/if she can come over
>much talking again
>she has to go somewhere(idk) while me and my group go down town
>messages like an hour later if she can come back to us
>us two talking again, sharing drinks
>i even pull the ill pay card, she gives me some money back
So now I'm here, semi interested in a girl thats grown "fond" of me but dont know how to make a move since we live quite a distance from each other and ill casually only meet her through my buddy. Shes coming over for christmas. Someone send me her number but she knew of it, so texting feels rather awkward. I probably just drop the thought (mainly cause distance) but out of interest, how should i go about getting us two isolated from "the group" to change our relation? Or maybe just SUBTLY go about making out with her without throwing myself over the fence and potentially being the weirdo of the evening in the group
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The story goes like this. I'm 21, third year of college, been in a mostly happy relationship for two years, haven't cheated in my life. This girl adds me on facebook, messages me. She's seems pretty cute, but wasn't interested then (this was about four months ago),
Last week, we start liking each other's posts, but no talk. Try to get my mind off her, no use. I talk to her for a bit, turns out she's really nice. We agree to meet. I hang out with my girlfriend before the date, she doesn't know shit about it. I start feeling like the biggest piece of shit in the world, want to pussy out. Still, I really want to at least meet her.
I finally meet her an hour later. 10/10, really smart and playful, cutest voice I've heard in my life. I figure out that telling her now will make her leave. We get pretty close, I can see she really likes me. Hang for a bit, comes to my place. I show her some of my music and poetry and she's really into it.
We watch some shit, talk for a bit. There's a lot of silence and gazing, the comfortable kind. Don't do shit. She fakes feeling ill, I open the windows and it gets really cold. I give her my hoodie. She expects me to kiss her or hug her or at least hold her hand. Still no cigar.
I figure out it's time I do something, I can see she's uncomfortable and I don't want her to feel rejected. I tell her the truth. She tells me I don't give a shit about her. Fuck, this hurts a lot. Can't hold it in any longer, cry a tear or two, still trying to keep it together. She hugs me and tells me this will be last I'll hear from her. I feel really bad. She says she'll hang around until sunrise (that meant about two hours later). She approaches me, kisses me more passionately than anyone ever has. I'm in heaven. Says she's sorry if she did something wrong, then I kiss her. She tells me the nicest things anyone's ever said to me. Enjoy what little time we have left. Before she leaves, I give her my favorite guitar pick. (cont.)
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I met a guy in April. Things were awesome; he said he wasn't ready for a relationship, but he got very attached and he was clearly into me.
After 6-8 weeks, tho, he got really depressed and cut me off. We didn't talk for a month or so. When we started hanging out again, we acted like friends, even if we still flirted from time to time. I mainly helped him to deal with his depression.
A couple of months ago, he got better. He started fucking around, even if he was still putting me on a pedestal and telling everyone how I was the only girl he ever liked and stuff like that.
Two weeks ago, I met another guy and stopped flirting with the first one.
Today, the first guy asked me to be his girlfriend.
I don't know if he's doing it to distance me from the "new guy" or if he genuinely cares about me and feels ready. I feel really confused by his behaviour.
I honestly don't think I'd date him, but I still want to understand why he is doing this.
Where can i meet happy people
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My family and my friends have been telling me about their problems way too much, i try to help them as much as i can but sometimes the problems they speak about are completely up to them to fix and im kinda getting tired of hearing about their problems because it makes me feel depressed too
Don't get me wrong i like helping my family and friends but sometimes i just want to talk about happy things and they always manage to find a way to change the theme of the conversation into wathever trouble they have or whatever horrible thing was recently shown on the news
In order to stay happy i would like to get new friends, i want to meet people who are emotionaly stable and know how to stay happy without having to talk about their problems everyday
But i don't really know where to find this kind of people, i tried going to 2 different art classes because i tought artist were very creative people and should be happy and optimistic by nature
but i was completely wrong the 2 teachers just kept talking about how under appreciated their art is, and the student were even worse, a bunch of "rebellious" and emo guys and girls that were around my age and filled with a bunch of emotional problems
i think i just want to meet someone with a lot curiosity or sense of wonder, i think it would be really fun and i could talk about a bunch of happy stuff
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hey /r9k/, i really need some help...
for the last couple years at high school ive been procrastinating and didnt do any ACT tests until now, in my senior year, 3 months away from the due date for college applications.
the test is tomarrow and i dont know how well ill do, and i need any help i can get..
is it anything similar to the asvab? i scored in the 81st percentile, but thats not exactly the same as being scored against others in the state
i cant fuck this up guys...any tips will help, especially things you learned when you took yours
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My boyfriend is a serial procrastinator and I am starting to hate him for it.
If he is not at his job, he is sleeping or watching tv, it's a major turn off when there are so many things that need to be done around the house. If I don't do them, neither does he and if I am not home to cook, he just eats pizza and drinks beer all day. He's like a stoner without the high. Talking hasn't helped in the past 3 years, I really don't want to live with someone like this anymore.
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I have a Tinder date tonight!
It's about fucking time! I was convinced that Tinder was a useless pit of depression and loneliness.
I have been reading The Game by Neil and I have been watching RSD videos here and there for the last couple years. I feel I have a grasp on the basic fundamentals of pick-up, however I do not feel I know the basic fundamentals of having a successful date.
I have not met this girl. I just asked her if she wanted to go to the mall with me and she said sure, when she gets off work. There was no prior conversation other than "hey hows it going" type stuff.
Thing is, she is fuckin' gorgeous. I don't know what I'm doing. I can be outgoing and fun, but she might think I'm immature or silly. I don't know. There are plenty of things to do at the mall, but how should I act to keep her interested and wanting more from me after the date ends, as opposed to never wanting to text me again? My confidence would plunge and I would spend another 6 months alone.
Thanks in advance for any advice, guys! I love this community.
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Girlfriend's number of previous sexual partners
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Would the amount of people your partner has slept with affect your judgement of them?
I recently discovered that my 20 year old girlfriend has slept with about 20 guys, although only two of them could really be considered serious relationships (one she dated for two years).
Now apart from this revelation, she's pretty awesome overall. She's incredibly honest, funny, beautiful, has an awesome body and we can talk about anything. I feel she helps make me a better person. However despite all this, I can't help but feel a little bit irked by her amount of sexual partners.
How would you feel should you have discovered this about your SO? Keep in mind it could be considered hypocritical of me to feel this way seeing as though I am 25 and have had a considerable number of sexual partners myself.
Tl;dr bothered by the amount of guys my young girlfriend has slept with. How would you feel?
NEET and Shut-In Advice Thread (Version 120.5) Almost christmas edition
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Welcome to the NEET and Shut-in advice thread!
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Drop out of school due to anxiety? Haven't left the house in a few years? Maybe you have a job, but don't leave the house or talk to people for any reason outside of it? Finding a job sure is hard these days.
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