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Ok /adv/isors, tell me what to do.
>meet this girl
>hit it off immediately
>go on a few dates
>have a few moments of emotional connection
>people tell us we're already a couple beacuse our bantering has become a kind of 'secret language'
>she gets a boyfriend at some point after all that
>I don't find out he exists until later because she never tells me, but our relationship doesn't change
>still hang out, still flirt and tease each other
But it looks like she's broken up with her boyfriend tonight. She is away visiting family at the moment, so he or she must have done it half assedly over the phone. Should I send her a flirty message or snapchat to raise a flag that says "I'm here"? I'm not supposed to know that she broke up with him, a mutual female friend just told me. I love this woman and would do anything for her, and from what I can tell, she genuinely likes me back. What should I do to bring her to me now that she is single as of tonight?
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Hey /adv/, I need your help on this
>add a girl on Facebook after a series of cool comments we made on a mutual friend's status
>She knows I'm the ex of a girl she knew and she hates, so we start talking. At the beginning she's like "I'm sorry about that bitch" but I'm like "it's okay"
>She starts telling me she has problems with guys too, that no one stands her, that she's thinking about moving to the north because guys up there would like her more
>I tell her straight "You should come to my city, we're very handsome here you know?"
>From there, I feel things get a little more flirty: She calls me "My baby", we talk about how much we believe in horoscopes (I'm aries and she's Scorpio, guess how much fire could rise between these two) says a couple of times how she wish she would be at Barcelona, and even tells me she will come here in February to celebrate her birthday, and that I'm invited
>She also sends me selfies of herself. We started talking yesterday and since there, she has send me 3 pictures of herself
Now, 2 questions:
1-How do I keep a progression on this? I like the girl, and I sort of feel like I should be talking to her everytime, but to tell you the truth that feels kind of forced too. I would like to get to know her better, but she's not around town until february
2-Should I involve our mutual friend here? I have a lot of trust on her, a lot. But she's also best friend of this girl I added, and she's also very lousy. Take that as good, or as bad.
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I'm bored as fuck, so I'll give my advice to anyone that wants it from now until midnight.
>inb4 hurr durr beta neet didn't go out for new years.
I didn't feel like it this year. Got invited to a party but would rather stay with my parents tonight.
A little about me:
>grad student at major university in the midwest (chemical engineering)
>grew up poor as fuck, worked my way up.
>have battled depression, anxiety, drug and alcohol abuse. But here I am.
Feel free to ask me anything from relationship advice, money, school, anything. I've lived a lot and made many mistakes, but have also learned a lot.
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I really need some help. There's a guy that's been bullying me in my workplace since May. It's been really getting on my nerves and I can't seem to stop him. I've tried ignoring him, I've tried bullying him back, I've tried getting authority figures to stop him but he just keeps coming.
This guy isn't just bullying me, he's bullying my wife and brother and he's bullying my coworkers. The worst part about is that many people are egging him on. How can people stand him? Even in my own hometown people like this guy over me.
So here I am, on the cusp of the new year and I'm thinking about ending it all. Because everything this man is saying about me, deep down, I know is true. I'm afraid to admit it but it is.
GF broke up with me in the final day of 2015
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I just can't this and pretend to be normal but a part of me its outrageous about this.
She wanted to spend the new years eve in some kind of special party, only the two of us but i told her i couldnt because me and my brothers planned to go to our parents house for this day. I want to see my mom and dad happy today (first time in years the whole family is gonna be togheter so you realize is something special)
She didnt understood, she told me that it's her or my family and i have to choose (i picked my family).
She got mad, told that she hates me, send me to hell and told me that if i don't go to the party with her then next year we are not a couple anymore. That she is still going to the party, etc, etc.
I got blocked from facebook and whatsapp and i'm fucking sad.
A huge part of me is telling that this is for the better, that i can't be with a person like her but it has been 2 years, the sadness is not going away
PD: I have shit english skills, i know.
NEET and Shut-In Advice Thread (Version 122.3) Holy Shit It's 2016 (FOR REAL) Edition
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Welcome to the NEET and Shut-in advice thread!
(Version 122.3, running since Oct. 31st, 2013)
REMINDER: This isn't>>>/r9k/or wizardchan
Happy New Year NEETs and shut-ins!
Drop out of school due to anxiety? Haven't left the house in a few years? Maybe you have a job, but don't leave the house or talk to people for any reason outside of it? Finding a job sure is hard these days.
The best time to change your life was 5 years ago. But the good news is, the second best time is right now!
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My brother (m, 24) is about to end up homeless again. Through bad choices in the past mainly (drugs, alcohol, burning bridges in jobs and friendships). However him and I have always been very close because our parents weren't ever there for us and our mother was pure evil, ascended straight from hell. I (f,27) have "lent" him probably around 2000$ dollars in the past (I say lent because I knew I would never get it back) for when he tells me he is stuck for food or rent. Some of his friends have done much the same (for bonds etc) Although I suffered the brunt of my mother's abuse, I managed not to go down the same path as him. However, I need surgery and I need to pay out of pocket as it's not something normally covered by insurance. So although he knows I'm working and that, I really can't spare him money without impacting on saving for surgery.
Would you 'lend' him 800$ for a bond or would you say no in my position? I'm struggling to know what to do as it is hard to watch him suffer but I kind of have to fix my own issues because no parents etc to have my back.