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So my gf did the dumbest thing ever and idk what to do with her
>Gf is a model
>Frequently meets photographers on Instagram
>Decides she's going to do her first lingerie shoot
>Says she's having her female friend come to put me at ease
>On her way there she finds out that it's totally not professional and it's just at the guy's apartment with only him
>She's sketched out but goes anyway
>For the next 9 hours I get texts saying that they're still shooting (Shoots usually take like 3 hours)
>I know something's up
>10 hours after she got there I get a call from her crying saying that she's extremely drunk and needs me to come get her
>Find out there was no friend, she said that so I wouldn't worry
>She's been hanging with this photographer all day drinking
>She's hardly even coherent. I tell her I'm coming to get her but I'm dumping her immediately if I find out she did anything with him
>When I get there I meet the photographer, who is a fat slob. So I rule out her cheating
>It takes an hour to bring her to, during which I just roast the photographer who was clearly hoping she'd get drunk enough to sleep with him
>I bring her home and she spends the next 24 hours crying about how much she screwed up
I don't know what she was thinking. I know she didn't eat for 24 hours to prepare for the shoot, so she got way drunker than expected and she'll blame the lying on being drunk. It seems like she learned her lesson and is really greatful that I didn't dump her.
My biggest problem is that her actions were fucking retarded. She knows I'd be extremely pissed if she was hanging out with a lingerie photographer, no matter how unattractive, but she did it anyway. She got drunker than I have ever seen her in 2 years with a guy that she met that day. This could have gone horrifically wrong if she didn't call me before she passed out. God knows what could have happened.
I don't know what to do with her. I feel like I can't trust her or her decisions
Sexual repression/generally fucked up about sex
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Ok. Deep breath. So, I'm 26 and still a virgin. I've gotten women into bed before, but cannot get it up due to an overpowering sense of shame, embarassment and awkwardness.
Been figuring out why for over a decade, and this is what I've come up with.
Mom was very nice and comforting, but had a victorian attitude towards sex- never talked about it, acted as if it was a non-issue. Whenever she *had* to, she spoke to me like I was a 5-year old, all 3 conversations were wrenchingly awkward to the point where I just nodded along, hoping to get out of there asap. Hence embarassment/awkward.
Sister was a teaser; whenever anything remotely sexual came up, or even a kissing scene in a film, she would turn to me with this fucking smirk like she was expecting me to do do something hilarious. All I could to was cringe and turn away. Also made fun of me when made female friends at age 7 and kissed one of them. Hence shame. We were young, so I can't really blame her for being a normal sibling and teasing me, but I never had anyone in my life to tell me sexual stuff/feelings were ok and not to be ashamed (dad left when 5, drunken sloth whom we never spoke to).
Then, when age 11, stayed at a trusted friends house. He was 2 years older than me, and we had been best friends since I was 6. We had to sleep in same bed because small house. We top and tail, so I have full view of him and can't really turn away. So, he puts a porno on when parents are asleep. Lesbian thing with racist caricature characters, pretty hardcore. I have zero idea what this even is, but it's affecting me. Dem shame-associated tingly feels in penis. Friend pulls out penis, starts jerking it. I have no idea why he's doing it, but I can kind of sense that this is something big, as in a part of life. Confused as fuck, no idea where to look or what to do, face feels like it's being boiled.
Monty Hall Problem
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Suppose you're on a game show, and you're given the choice of three doors: Behind one door is a car; behind the others, goats. You pick a door, say No. 1, and the host, who knows what's behind the doors, opens another door, say No. 3, which has a goat. He then says to you, "Do you want to pick door No. 2?" Is it to your advantage to switch your choice?
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All my friend talks about is how alpha he is and how beta everyone else is and its completely fucking annoying.
Don't get me wrong. At first, I just thought I was a jealous little bitch. A good example of why, as stated by him. "When you get rejected by a hot girl, you go home and jack off on r eddit. When I get rejected by a hot girl, I go and fuck a fat chick"
This. This is it. He's referring to you as me obviously. All he talks about is sex and its getting to be obnoxious as fuck. I can't cut him off because I owe him thousands for totaling a car that i've been paying off every week but its still awhile before i'm done.
"I fucked 4 girls this week whats wrong with me"
Yeah, 1 you admitted was fat and nasty
Another, I know is fat and nasty. And she's an ex heroin addict whose fucked over 60 guys and proudly admits this.
Another one was a virgin before you fucked her and she's been institutionalized off and on for years, and she looks like a nasty 250 lb pueblo native american mexican
The other one, idk. He says she's hot and has a tight pussy. Who knows. This guy has the lowest standards i've ever seen.
His only other friend besides me is this stanky ass nigger who whips his gigantic elephant branch sized cock out at girls before even introducing himself and gets laid less than i do, and than gets pissed when girls dont fuck him and chimps out and starts whooping peoples asses randomly because he's horny and black and drunk.
How do I get my friend to stop being such a horny pervert, its disgusting. Call me beta idc at this point. My sole interest is not to fuck fat filthy disgusting animals. These girls are disgusting.
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>Have transgender feelings since 8
>become publicly out at 16 to my mom
>get things started at around 19 (present)
>mom keeps thinking it's a phase
>says she doesn't really see it in me
>it starts to get into my head
>well, maybe i don't see it either?
>i'd always liked girly things, played girl characters, drew women, etc.
>but on the outside or as most people know me I was rather masculine, a confident boy
>i didn't dislike being the confident boy
>wonder if this is just a phase..
I have my letter ready to start HRT, but this is a huge decision on my life. I know I can just wait and think, but I have been with no conclusion on my own. I also don't want to suppress it til my thirties and have a midlife crisis where I'm some hon with kids..
Please help /adv/
ITT: Ask the Opposite Gender Thread
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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Is it normal for me to go to a club/bar by myself?
Yes. Stop overthinking this.
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking
>Brandon or Female Brandon
Also piss off.
>Guy who keeps asking who Brandon is