ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking
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OK /adv/, don't give me one of them repetitive first thought advice, i need your best.
So here's my story, my used to be friend used to work at night and he had to walk up and down the hill in harsh winter weather, i had a spare vehicle that i bought from my buddy who was taking off the country in a hurry. the used to be friend, lets call him Z, i suggested to Z to use the vehicle and put it in his name with the promise to pay me X amount of money by XX-XX-XXXX, he used the car and it saved him a lot of time and energy and i was patient, i went on a vacation for three months, and i asked him"Z, will you be able to pay me the X dollars when i come back ?" he said "yeah i'll be working and saving", i said ok. two months and fifteen days into the vacation i chat him up and ask him about my money, he said he wasn't able to save any money. I finally came back from the vacation and this guy says his stupid brother destroyed the car by pouring too much oil in the engine or someshit. I tell him Z you have to pay me back the money, and since our agreed upon date has already passed, i'll give you another chance, you got five more months to figure it out, i don't care if you sell your ass or kidney just get me my money. Five months later i chat him up and he still doesn't want to pay me, i have proof of him saying that he owes me, how do i, lawfully, force Z to pay me the X amount of money ?
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So I recently told a female friend I liked her. The reason I told her is because I had been actively putting a bit of distance between us to get over her quietly, but she noticed. Instead of coming to me, she brought it up to everyone except me
>"Have any of you noticed anon being hot and cold with me?"
>"Anon was quiet tonight, why?"
>"Does anon like me?"
When I asked her about this all, she assured me she didn't mean it, it was just drunken ramblings, to which I later found out she hadn't been drinking any of the times she brought these feelings up.
So the reason I told her was to reassure her that she hadn't done anything wrong, I was just trying to get over her and I was sorry if I made her worried. To which she then assured me that it was never a concern for her, she knew she hadn't done anything wrong. I ended with
>"If you notice me being abit distant, please don't worry, and don't chase after me"
To which she agreed.
So fast forward to now, I haven't seen her in a few days. I get a text from her friend, who's also my friend. Basically saying
>"Are you Ok anon, have me and (the girl I like) done something to annoy you? :/ X"
>"You've been very quiet around us"
>"Me and (the girl) just get paranoid is all :("
At this point I told our mutual friend everything. I told her why I may seem distant, I told her that (the girl) knew this anyway, and I had been assured she would never become paranoid. But she now has, and is getting a friend to make sure I know.
I thought telling her would spare her the confusion, but it doesn't seem to have worked.
I'm so up in the air mentally, I have no idea where we all stand.
Should I continue keeping contact sparse? Or what?
Told a friend I liked her. Told her if I put distance between us, don't worry coz she's done nothin wrong. She agreed. Now she's thinking she's done something wrong and trying to talk to me again.
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Help /adv/. I might be losing my virginity to a size queen. Now, I love this girl and she's actually wife material (not just some slut I wanna fuck) and I want to make it enjoyable.
Problem is, only other guy she's been with was a 7+ incher. Meanwhile I'm 6 inches on the dot, which isn't bad but its not enough for her I don't think (literally when I told her she said "not bad" and not in a sexy way either)
Since I'm completely clueless on sex, what do you guys think? Am I stressing over nothing or will I face a problem? I know its how you use it, but I want to please her. She always said that the sex she had was amazing so I'm a little psyched out.
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/adv/, is it normal for guys (including fwbs) to always express that they want to impregnate me?
I'm 19 and have been with 3 guys in the past, including my boyfriend who I've been seeing for a little over a year and am deeply in love with. We're also discussing marriage.
Before I met my bf, I had a fwb type relationship centered around sex with on real emotional attachment. However, he would often try to slip the condom off without me noticing and make little comments about how much he wanted to "make me a mommy." I noped out of this pretty fast.
I also had a one night stand in the past tell me that our babies would be adorable.
My boyfriend often makes not-serious-but-serious jokes about wanting to get me pregnant as well. He talks about possible baby names at least once a day. To remind you, I am only 19, although he is older with a steady job, and am in college, nowhere near the point of wanting to have kids. (He's 26).
Is this normal? I do not want a bun in my oven.