ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking
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I feel like all the people (especially women) who make fun of the friendzone or "nice guys" really don't understand how dating or human relationships work.
Guys get shamed for ever trying to get with a girl at all. Women literally cannot comprehend this because there's literally no scenario where a woman could ever not get laid.
There's no girl equivalent to a neckbeard or a "nice guy" because women never have to try to begin with.
Honestly, do women genuinely believe that all the guys who talk about the friend zone wanted to be friends purely for sex? Really? I'd be willing to bet the guy had genuine feelings for her in 9/10 of those scenarios.
And if he ever responds to rejection with anything other than "Oh okay have a nice day" he gets called a bitter loser, as if rejection is that easy to brush off. And women in general don't have to worry about this because they aren't the ones that have to seek out the partners.
So then it just becomes this self fulfilling prophecy where guys who probably just genuinely want some form of human connection get shamed for ever trying, especially if they get even the slightest bit angry at being rejected.
It's easy to shame men for this when, in general, these are scenarios women would not have to ever worry about.
Idk, sorry for the rant guys. I've just been thinking about this lately. What are your thoughts on all this shit?
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long story short me and ex broke up about 3 weeks ago. I didn't do anything terrible but said I'm not sure if I trust him and so he was like alright and ended it really angrily and hurt. He didn't message me after that for 2 weeks, then i saw him the other day at the bar. he was looking at me a lot and I went up to him and asked to talk, he was hesitant and told me he didn't want an argument and told me to message him on his days off on either friday or saturday, and if i wanted to get back together i'd need an attitude change. I messaged him today (friday) about 2 hours ago saying "hey"... no reply yet.
I'm pretty certain he saw it. I was thinking if I should call to see if the call will go through or if I'm blocked, or maybe message him something of more substance, and then tomorrow just say "alright, i get it. good luck with everything and take care" but I was certain we would talk this weekend... any ideas?
accidentaly raped my gf
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I know it sounds like a b8 but that's what happened yesterday:
>come back from home after evening shift
>gf was at her friends' now she's back home
>she's lying on couch half asleep watching tv
>I ask her what's up, she says she's fine
>go take a shower, get horny
>go to salon, she's still lying on a couch
>I start kissing and undressing her, doing dirty talk
>she says 'come on' or my name over and over again, swats my hands, doesn't really try to help with undressing
>I'm really horny so I enter and fuck her till I come
>after deal is done she falls asleep (or pretends to idk)
>2 horus later she goes to toiler and starts sobbing
>I can hear her crying so I ask whats wrong
>she starts screaming that i raped her, that she was drunk and I used it etc
>calls me a monster and says we are over and that i ruined her
I honestly don't know what to do at this point. she didn't seem to be drunk ((maybe sleepy or tired but we often have sex like that) and didn't smell like alcohol.She didn't say no even once or tried to really stop me. I don't know what to do. She called her mother and told her I raped her and i know she'll tell all our mutual friends and i am done.