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How do i stop hating women and having an automatic disdain and a guard against them? Things like is she a slut, i bet shes had more than 4 sex partners, shes manipulative and selfish and so on just pop up in my head when i think about getting close to a girl. Am i wrong in thinking this, i dont feel wrong. What can i do to change this
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I started meditating a few months ago and my ability to focus and maintain routines has gotten a lot better. My self awareness has sky rocketed and it's rather incredible the different ways I look at the world. I've started trying to learn more and do more for myself. I've started saving my money and making goals and all that jazz. Things are pretty awesome. However, I'm unhappy. The only way I can describe it is as if I put my hands on the wheel of a car and now I can't take them off. I am having a really hard time appreciating my life as it is and am constantly trying to make it into what it could be. So much so that I'm now even starting to lose sleep at night. What can I do? Does anyone else know anything about meditation? Or some ways to alleviate this issue?
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What do you do once suicidal thoughts has become the white noise and ambiance of your thoughts? It's become independent of my life and future.
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>take friend to Korean barbecue for the first time >he immediately takes control of the grilling and giving me advice >insists on keeping raw meat tongs and cooked meat tongs separate >"sterilized" tongs by putting them inside the slots in the grill >still got sick, nobody else in the group did >other friend just won't eat anything besides fast food/diner food when we go out >excuse #1: too broke for a restaurant >excuse #2: doesn't feel like something different Why is it so hard to find a culinarily compatible friend? Or am I somehow the fag?

What is the point?

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Hey /adv/ I've got a bit of a life-problem Let me first just set the scene >I'm a masters student at a prestigious university >I'm torn between going on to working in a high-paying profession or doing PhD and then trying my luck with international organisations >I lift 3 times a week and I've gotten to what /fit/ considers 'strong', diet properly, cycle everywhere, try to take care of my health generally >I've been through long bouts of loneliness and self doubt but I've managed to make some 'normie' friends who I go out and do things with >I'm not unattractive, just average looking guy >Don't really have much luck with women, still a virgin, (combination of not approaching women and not clinching it with potential girls) but working on it And yet, what is the point? I don't feel particularly driven by money, I'm happy living very frugally, I can't foresee myself having a family, being PhD and then a very highly skilled person seems nice but its a great deal of work and what is the point? I'm doing trying my best to self-improve, but I am not really sure as to why or to what end? Conversely I don't feel content, it's like I'm desperately searching for a point where I'll be content, but I imagine such a state being completely elusive
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I don't see why should I even try to improve myself. I'm just fed up with life, everything seems pointless. Why should I make efforts to pursue long-term "happiness"? I'm not even edgy, I genuinely can't feel. I'm an alcoholic and internet addict and nothing else satisfies me. It feels incredibly pointless and empty to even try simple things that would make me happy such as meditation.
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How do you tell your boyfriend that you have saggy tits after they've made a saggy tits joke and laughed really hard about it.
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Why is it so goddamn hard to do work? Whether it's working on yourself or for other people, it feels like an uphill battle every single time. Is there some secret recipe to be motivated to work or are we just meant to suffer as humans?
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Anyone here with social anxiety that's managed to get a girlfriend? How did you do it?
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What do you think about girls who had some scars on their body due to some big surgeries when they were a kid? I'm not even talking about self-harm. I got two through two big surgeries when i was a kid and one from an accident. Really makes me insecure about it. I always feeling embarrassed by the looks of people when they saw it. So,do men even care about it? I've never actually asked this question to all the guys I've dated. So I just tried to be cool with it but deep down I want to know the thought of men about this kind of thing.
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I've been a contractor at a design firm for over 2 years, and I just received a "pre-employment consumer report" in the mail about myself. Apparently someone at the company requested a background check for any criminal records on me, specifically, the CFO. It's a really small company, so I've talked to this guy before and he's super nice. I guess I'm just paranoid, but I'm kinda nervous as to why they'd be checking up on me after two years. I'm on very friendly terms with the whole company (it's very small), so part of me wants to ask what's up, but I'm not sure if that's a bad idea.
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Why do parents forgive one sibling for everything, and the other for nothing? >Be relatively affluent family, given every opportunity, father and mother somehow fluked being pretty well off despite lack of college degrees or significant holdings/estates etc >Mum and Dad love sports, outdoors etc, my Dad always wanted to be a sports star >Younger brother is football prodigy >Basically my childhood is my Dad hanging out with my bro and buying me a PC because I suck at sports >After school my brother does not become Maradona, Dad starts drinking religiously >Best he can get is a low tier club because politics basically, not his fault >Decides to stop playing football, and get a normal job. Dad resents this and gives him never ending shit for being a failure. Even though it was a decent enough job and paid fairly okay. >Brother fucks up job because basically our Dad has taught him nothing but sports his entire life. Fucked up by basically telling his boss the truth and not being a yes man, when he really needed to be a yes man. >Brother starts drinking and dealing drugs. Dad's response is to drink more and take jabs at him. >Whole situation comes to a head when the police get a warrant to search our house for drugs. Dad is fucking full drunk mode when police show up, mother in tears. I end up having to convince the police there was nothing else in the house and it wasn't worth their time tearing the place apart. >Brother leaves country to go to the US, because he needs help. Family there. /1

ITT: Ask The Opposite Gender Anything

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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers. And please no derailing arguments. Avoid asking these common questions: >Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>? Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you. >I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do? Think positive, and get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical act/moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort. >I like someone. What do I do? Ask them out. >How can I tell if someone likes me? Ask them out. >Where do I meet girls/guys? Anywhere outside. Or online. >Is my body part big/small enough? >Am I short/tall enough? Most likely. Preferences differ. >Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean? Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it. Alternative answer: we don't fucking know. >XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl? Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that. >This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this? Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing >Would you date a virgin? As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off. >Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance? No >Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date? Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city> >That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking. >Brandon Fuck off Old Thread: >>16922167

Career prospects with a non-acohol DUI

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Over the weekend I got pulled over for old plates. I had the current plates in the car. I give all my license and registration to the cop. It all checks out. He says he smells weed in the car. I had weed and a grinder. Long story short, he charges me with possession, paraphernalia, and an DUI (I blew a 0.000 and was not drunk, but he claimed I was "impaired" and gave me a urine test). I have a lawyer and he thinks there might be a case there. In the meantime, as I wait two weeks for the urine results, I am planning for worst case scenarios and treating this incident as a serious wake up call. I understand that a DUI ruins your life if you're in the like ..... trucking business. I am a straight-A first year graduate student with a full-tuition waiver scholarship and graduate assistantship. I will NOT lose my scholarship or position. My career plans involve getting a PhD immediately after this degree or perhaps going to law school. As these charges are all first offenses, and I don't plan on getting anymore, I gather that they will NOT affect my admissions chances to PhD programs. Funding maybe, but if I did my PhD at my current school then I am sure it would be fully funded. If I do a PhD then by time I am looking for jobs this arrest will have been at least 3-5 years behind me. I understand that this limits my prospects for government work and stuff that needs security clearances. So I want to know how DUIs have affected the career prospects of educated professionals who have not started their careers. Anyone who works in government, academia, the private sector, anything like that. I also wonder if employers/society will view a MARIJUANA-related DUI than an alcohol-related one.

Is it ok to jerk off to this sometimes?

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1/2 >be bi male >be only semi-out as a HS senior, but adopt an androgynous, somewhat emo-ish style, wearing eyeliner and nail polish >be only one left hanging around in the changing room after sports one day >be in my underwear as 4 guys from my school walk past the half-open door >one of them mutters "faggot" at me >reply by shouting out something about fucking their mothers (don't remember if it involved me or them doing the deed). >they stop in their tracks >3 of them come in, telling the 4th to keep watch at the door >2 end up grabbing hold of me >think 3rd one (pic related) is going to beat me up >is probably his original intention, but then has another idea >tells them to turn me around and bend me over >they press my hands down onto the bench >gags me with a my t-shirt and pulls down my pants >takes my hand cream from the bench and smears some on his dick >tells them to really hold me now and starts entering me >"Hold still, and stop clenching your ass!" >says "Good girl" as he pushes past my sphincter >"That's it, babe...just take it." >one of the other 2 seems a bit uncomfortable with it all (yet still holds me down), whereas the other one seems to find it funny >rape goes on for quite a while >"Yes, babe!" >he shoots his load inside my ass >seems to go on for ages, almost as if he 's having 2 orgasms in succession >is finally done >pats my ass >"You were not bad, sweetie - not bad at all" >takes out a few dollar bills and throws them at my feet >"Here, buy yourself some new nail polish on me" >be afraid the other two are going to fuck me as well, but they let me go >as they leave he says I'll probably want to go and wash my ass now
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I need some advice about a girl. We work for the same company in different offices, 700 miles apart. We were talking a lot over our company chat (we're in the same department, and despite being remote she was my boss for a short period) and met at the Christmas party. We instantly hit it off, I went back to hers after, got intimate. I felt a strong connection and she said she did too. We've been talking since and I planned to meet her at Easter, she's been hinting at more and more. A few days ago, she said she's been fooling around with a guy friend of hers a few times and she felt terrible. This guy has liked her for ages, initially she didn't want to do anything with him but they work in the same office so there's like daily exposure there. i instantly felt any connection was just over on my part but she says she doesn't want it to affect anything and regrets it. I said to her that I don't want to talk for a bit, and now we're here. She says good morning each morning and i say I don't want to talk. I got messages today saying she was miserable. I'm meeting some guys from work at Easter when I go home, and we share a lot of work friends. She's going to be there. I'm not entirely sure how I should act or feel. At the moment it's just a constant numbness. I really did like her, maybe i still do?, but I never showed it, but now, to be honest, I don't know if I know her at all. Any advice, or similar experiences?
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Last night my boyfriend and I tried to have sex. We were both up for it, but he kept missing my vagina, and after five to six attempts he was really flustered and embarrassed, so I suggested he just go masturbate instead. He got really upset and has been sulking and refusing to talk to me today. What did I do wrong? How can I get him to cheer up?
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So how submissive are girls in bed? I've only ever been with one girl ever sexually for more than a month, and I want to know from anons with more experience how common it is to be with a girl who is very submissive in bed (at least from time to time, and enjoys it) I'm talking like: >I can tell her what to do and she will obey >take her head and move it up and down on my dick while she is sucking me >be dominant and agressive in bed, move her in the position I want and fuck her hard whether she likes it or not >put my hand on her throat while I fuck her (no choking) >slap her ass >tell her she is a slut etc >cum on her face I mean, I just love to be able to turn a normal girl into a slut that will do what I tell her.... is what I described fairly common in relationships (as girls are more sub by nature) or rare?
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If a girl smiles at you on the bus, or she notices you, or she goes out of her way to look at you or she does anything at all to show interest in you, what are you supposed to do? How do I deal with this? Is it just a "notice her and smile back" back and forth exchange? Do you just pretend she doesn't even exist? I'm insecure as fuck as evidenced by this desperate post. It's not like I have the stuff to go at her all like "hey babe, how yer dewin"

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