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I think my girlfriend is sleeping with her brother. I never once had a problem with thinking she was cheating on me with another guy, or was I ever paranoid about that kind of stuff. Just lately, I get that vibe. Were watching a movie and a scene comes up where it talks about incest and she jumps a little. Just little stuff like that, where its nothing big but these weird reactions to it
Anyways, yeah. I just needed to type it out, see how crazy I sounded.
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I have saggy boobs and I'm 20, I'm pretty insecure about them. It's not even about whether guys won't like it, it's about myself, I really don't like what I look like myself (not what anyone else thinks) and would rather have small perky boobs. I don't like looking at myself naked, saggy boobs coupled with many other permanent flaws like big stretch marks all over, scars, discoloration/hyperpigmentation, uncurvy yet chubby figure etc etc makes me dislike my appearance. How do I start liking my own body again? It's only going to get worse, so how do I get good body image?
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I feel like my boyfriend looks down on me.
He tells me I'm cute and smiles when I try to do sexy things for him, but in a "how cute, aww" way instead of a "how fucking sexy, oh goddddd" way. I so badly want to be able to evoke the second reaction from him.
I really, really want to be sexy for him - I feel like he is the sexiest person in the world to me, yet I really don't think he feels the same about me. I want to give him that same feeling so badly..
I have tried a strip tease: got to the point where I took off my bra, got it awkwardly stuck on my arm for a split second, he laughed, hugged me, fingered me, told me I was adorable, then we had sex
I have tried beingon top during sex.I watched porn, I tried to imitate it... but I couldn't make either of us cum, he had to flip me over and only then did things go well. I was so embarassed... He told me he loves me and it's adorable tha I try so hard, not to take it personally. He likes cute girls, he likes being on top.
He has said he loves how cute I am and that, yes, he knows I can be sexy, but I don't need to try so hard to be intentionally sexy for him because it's just so cute, no matter what, when I concentrate on something so hard. But he loves cute so it's fine with him. But every guy wants sexy sometimes too, right?
He does like it when I give him oral so I guess I am doing something right on thatpoint at least... But again, he talks about putting "my cute, pretty mouth on his massive, fucking cock". I have tried to dirty talk back, but I get very awkward about it. I get tongue tied easily and too distracted to think of anything good to say so it ends up funny or "cute".
I guess one question at a time would be best - though I'd love any advice, general or specific.
Am I wrong to think that he might enjoy it if I were more overtly sexual sometimes, instead of just "cute"? I want to feel more relevant, like I am satisfying him rather than just a means of him satisfying himself,if that makes any sense...
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I think I screwed up.
This is probably is my fault but hear me out.
One year ago I dropped out of highschool, I have no fucking clue what was I thinking when I done this.
At the age of 17 I left my home and moved to the UK. I lived there for about half a year. Everything was great, I had no problems or I thought so. I developed an extreme case of depression. I went through a nervous breakdown, I couldn't do anything for 2 days. I couldn't even walk or talk. It took me a whole month to recover.
My birthday came. Since I had zero friends or relatives here I spent it like any other day. Sitting in front of the computer.
A few days later I got fired from work.
I tried searching for jobs. I looked everywhere. I never got past the interview stage. That's it. My money was running out fast. I felt my depression coming back, I spent days just lying in bed. Then surprise I was saved. My mother offered me to come to France and live with her and my stepfather. I got offered a place in the Legion.
I felt motivated to do it. So I agreed.
Now it has been 3 weeks since I came to France. I lose my motivation every time I get motivated. One day I set my goals to get better at running and such so I can pass the entry test. Next morning I wake up and have zero motivation to do anything and just continue laying in bed. I can't force myself to do anything. I always stop in the middle and come back to the beginning.
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20, straight, male. Extremely sexually repressed.
Given new years and whatnot, it has suddenly become apparent that my sexuality has been repressed. The crushing anxiety just to even think of others thinking of me being sexual.
My mother has crushed any sexuality I had, can't display anything anywhere around her or my sister. Caught me watching a video of a girl in a bikini (or something, it wasn't that bad) when I was 14 or so, flipped the fuck out.
>I'm blaming her now. No longer am I the only one at fault.
I've cut her out of my life, there's much I haven't gone into but she is toxic.
How do I move on now?
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>be about a year and a half ago
>start dating my ex (first and only gf)
>months later find out she made out with 2 guys before we got to the second week
>Meh about it, guilt her about it like a faggot for a long time and she feels horrible
Fast forward one year or so
>recently become much more confident in my self, start to be more social, work out more, etc
>few days ago reliese all of this and see I could leave her and not be alone forever.
Funny how things can change like that, she doesnt have much of a social life now and is pretty clingy. and her being my first and only gf (she has dated others) I really feel the need to get out of this relationship and try my luck a little bit but leaving her would hurt her alot (She is pretty clingy, plastic rap clingy).I wont cheat but I still dont know how long I can last before I hurt her. Id love some tips on leaving her without hurting her a lot.