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I think my girlfriend is sleeping with her brother. I never once had a problem with thinking she was cheating on me with another guy, or was I ever paranoid about that kind of stuff. Just lately, I get that vibe. Were watching a movie and a scene comes up where it talks about incest and she jumps a little. Just little stuff like that, where its nothing big but these weird reactions to it
Anyways, yeah. I just needed to type it out, see how crazy I sounded.
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I have saggy boobs and I'm 20, I'm pretty insecure about them. It's not even about whether guys won't like it, it's about myself, I really don't like what I look like myself (not what anyone else thinks) and would rather have small perky boobs. I don't like looking at myself naked, saggy boobs coupled with many other permanent flaws like big stretch marks all over, scars, discoloration/hyperpigmentation, uncurvy yet chubby figure etc etc makes me dislike my appearance. How do I start liking my own body again? It's only going to get worse, so how do I get good body image?
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I think I screwed up.
This is probably is my fault but hear me out.
One year ago I dropped out of highschool, I have no fucking clue what was I thinking when I done this.
At the age of 17 I left my home and moved to the UK. I lived there for about half a year. Everything was great, I had no problems or I thought so. I developed an extreme case of depression. I went through a nervous breakdown, I couldn't do anything for 2 days. I couldn't even walk or talk. It took me a whole month to recover.
My birthday came. Since I had zero friends or relatives here I spent it like any other day. Sitting in front of the computer.
A few days later I got fired from work.
I tried searching for jobs. I looked everywhere. I never got past the interview stage. That's it. My money was running out fast. I felt my depression coming back, I spent days just lying in bed. Then surprise I was saved. My mother offered me to come to France and live with her and my stepfather. I got offered a place in the Legion.
I felt motivated to do it. So I agreed.
Now it has been 3 weeks since I came to France. I lose my motivation every time I get motivated. One day I set my goals to get better at running and such so I can pass the entry test. Next morning I wake up and have zero motivation to do anything and just continue laying in bed. I can't force myself to do anything. I always stop in the middle and come back to the beginning.
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20, straight, male. Extremely sexually repressed.
Given new years and whatnot, it has suddenly become apparent that my sexuality has been repressed. The crushing anxiety just to even think of others thinking of me being sexual.
My mother has crushed any sexuality I had, can't display anything anywhere around her or my sister. Caught me watching a video of a girl in a bikini (or something, it wasn't that bad) when I was 14 or so, flipped the fuck out.
>I'm blaming her now. No longer am I the only one at fault.
I've cut her out of my life, there's much I haven't gone into but she is toxic.
How do I move on now?
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>be about a year and a half ago
>start dating my ex (first and only gf)
>months later find out she made out with 2 guys before we got to the second week
>Meh about it, guilt her about it like a faggot for a long time and she feels horrible
Fast forward one year or so
>recently become much more confident in my self, start to be more social, work out more, etc
>few days ago reliese all of this and see I could leave her and not be alone forever.
Funny how things can change like that, she doesnt have much of a social life now and is pretty clingy. and her being my first and only gf (she has dated others) I really feel the need to get out of this relationship and try my luck a little bit but leaving her would hurt her alot (She is pretty clingy, plastic rap clingy).I wont cheat but I still dont know how long I can last before I hurt her. Id love some tips on leaving her without hurting her a lot.
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anybody have experience with sleep management here?
I'm having trouble waking up in the mornings lately. it seems like no matter what time I go to bed, I always wake up much later than I want to. it doesn't help that I live in a basement where there is very little natural light
(inb4 basement dweller- i'm renting this room and I haven't lived at home for over 4 years)
my window is sort of dug out into the ground, like most basement windows, and even worse, it's on the north side of the house, so even LESS light gets in there. I've tried setting multiple alarms to get me up, and even put a light inside my room on a timer that turns on around the same time the sun comes up (about 6:00 this time of year) to give me some light. it still does nothing, and I have a hard time waking up in the morning.
I need some help /adv/. what kinds of things can I do to help me wake up earlier?
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Well, I'm not sure what to do exactly about this. There's these two girls who were basically my two closest friends for the past couple of months, but everything's gone to shit during December.
I hooked up with one for a while but that ended around the end of November and since then she's saying she's been 'busy'. (I'm not even entirely sure if she's ignoring me or actually busy. The few times we did hang out, it seemed normal. Just...a lot less talking and hanging out).
And the other girl, I guess I was selfish and didn't treat her like a friend. I've been trying to ask if she wants to hang out and shit, but she always says no.
At this point, the only thing I think I can do is just try texting them with nice words and hope things go back to normal soon. So what do I say to them? What do I do? How do I make things go back to normal?
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i'll try to make this as short as i can
so, my first girlfriend, that i had at 17, we had a wonderful relationship, but stuff between my parents made us break up. and it was the worst thing that has ever happened to me.
during us being together, i would miss her not being around me, feeling a sort of sick/pain feeling in my middle chest area. it would go away when i was with her, but come back as soon as she was away. i was in love with her so much. but after awhile i realized that even though she liked me, she didn't love me the same way. and it's not because she dosn't want to, she has profesed that she is desperatly trying to love me the way i love her, it's just that things from her past that scared her make it really hard for her
it's been a year now, and we're talking again. just when i thought i was over her finally, all my feelings come right back in an instant, but now the problem is that though she want's to, she can't reciprocate my love. and it hurts
how do i even