ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out. This is something that cannot be explained. You either have learned to intuit this or you have not. If you have not, the only way to learn is experience--there are no shortcuts. So it comes back to: Just ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships.
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking.
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Does anyone else here have trouble cumming? I'm a guy and I can't seem to cum with my girlfriend at all. I'm not sure if it's death grip syndrome since I'm usually pretty gentle with myself, but I wonder if my positions and grips have been so specific that it's having an effect. I've tried not masturbating for 2 weeks at a time and all it did was give me blue balls which made it harder to cum. Everyone's been telling me it's mental too, but I'm relaxed and fully in the moment. She's given me handjobs and blowjobs, and every time I've gotten sooo close but I just can't seal the deal.
Has anyone here beat this issue? Please, I'm upset and scared that I'll never cum with my girlfriend and that it'll hurt our relationship. Yesterday she broke down in tears that I couldn't finish because she's worried that it's because she's not attractive to me. I love this girl. I wouldn't care if my dick never worked again, so long as it worked for her.
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Hello /adv/. Any blood donor here?
I'm just curious to know if you get any reward in your country for a blood donation.
In italy my local no profit organization gives us a couple of cookies and a cup of coffee/juice after the donation, we have free blood analisys once a year (36€ of medical ticket worth). After 10 donations you get a small silver medal, then a gold plated medal after 25 donations. No cash money at all, no ticket lunch, no free cinema tickets.
I know that in US they pay you cash money, is it true? And what about the rest of the world?
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I'm considering breaking up with my girlfriend because she's too nice.
She's a sweetheart and texts me every day --multiple times -- even if I haven't been replying because of school/work. Thing is, even if I tell her in advance that 'll be busy, she'll start aking "why do you hate me," in a joking way.
This is her catchphrase. I know it's fishing, and she does too. She's told me that she needs constant reassurance that I don't hate her, despite the fact that I've told her over and over again that I loved her.
In the 6 months we've been together, she's backed down from every argument. She's taken the blame every time and then apologized excessively. It got to the point where I actually had to argue that it was my fault sometimes and not hers, to which she apologized for apologizing.
She's randomly surprised me with coffee and food while I'm at work (the trip is out-of-the-way for her) which is something that no one else has ever done for me, which I love about her.
She also ranomdly shows up at my apartment without calling ahead. This, despite the fact that I've told her that I hate having anyone over while my place is a mess (I clean up before she usually comes over). She's gone so far as to try to clean my place. I had to stop her and repeatedly explain that I didn't like having other people do my responsibilities since it made me feel guilty.
She gets jealous sometimes when I mention sharing food with female friends, but she usually masks it with sarcasm.
The only thing we have in common is the fact that we go to the same college and like weird movies.
FOR REFERENCE: my last couple of relationships were kind of rocky. I have a leaning towards girls who have some 'bite' I guess. Snarky types who like to complain, which I have always enjoyed doing with them.
tl;dr Is my girlfriend a doormat or am I just not used to having a nice girlfriend?