ITT: Ask the Opposite Gender Anything
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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out. This is something that cannot be explained. You either have learned to intuit this or you have not. If you have not, the only way to learn is experience--there are no shortcuts. So it comes back to: Just ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online. Don't complain that this isn't helpful; stupid questions deserve answers like this.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't fucking know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>Brandon, that one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Old Thread: >>17178987
Should I give it one last shot?
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I posted already.
>Meet M. at end of January
>She sits infront in Pub Speaking
>She's cute enough,
>Start to like her
>Ask her out in Early April
>Say's yes, Friend R seems to force his way to tag along
>I ask her out to get coffee a week later
>"I'm Busy" with now counter offer.
>I stop for a month, other than occasionally speaking in class, and an odd text here or there.
>Most day's we don't acknowledge each other, sometimes talking around each other
>Mid-May rolls around. Invite her to hang out with friends in the City
>Busy (Her Bro's Graduation from College)
>We agree to hang out soon. No dates set, as we both have finals
>Text her randomly a week later asking about the graduation. We end up talking for 5 hours, with another short thing the following morning
>Invite her to a thing in the City that Saturday.
>This time she's doing stuff with friends. No date offered again.
Honestly I'm leaning toward not interested, though things slip through that are semi common when a girl is interested in a guy. (More letters added to words, increased Emoji use and stuff in person)
I suspect her friend R may have influenced her to a degree. Maybe he sees me a competition for her? She does speak differently to me when he's not near, seems more at ease.
I suspect that R tried to get with her, but she friendzoned him.
On the last day I saw both of them, he randomly says bye to me, and only me. Only spoke to him 2-3 times prior.
Obviously, I like this girl alot. She probably does not feel the same, but just to remove all doubt I'm gonna ask her out on a Date, making it known as such. I have it ready to send, just can't press it. Because I know what will probably happen. One word answer. NO
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Ok, so I'm in a bit of an interesting situation.
For the past three (or more) months, my group of friends thought it would be awesome to go on a camping/hiking trip in Canada. We would spend about 7 days doing hikes in the area before we head back. The group consisted of both experienced and noob hikers, the experienced would help out the newer hikers, obviously.
Time goes on, and in the past two weeks, all of our experienced hikers had to bail from the trip for personal reasons, but the rest of us still want to go. So, we met up and brainstormed for about 3 hours of how we would adjust this trip to meet our hiking/camping skills. In the end, we have a plan that would have us spend 5 days in Canada, with 3 days of easy hiking trails, the rest doing exploring in nearby cities. Then we would take a longer roadtrip on the way back, driving through many different states and spending the night in a national park campsite. Overall, it's 13 days in total, with 3 days to get to Canada, 5 days of camping/hiking, then 5 days of roadtripping back. In comparison to doing 2 days getting there, 7 days camping/hard hiking, 3 days getting back with some limited sightseeing.
Unfortunately, I'll be 20 years old when we go on the trip and my parents are worried about how there's no one experienced with hiking going on the trip. And while yes, I can't say that there's nothing to worry about...we as a group decided what would be best for US, and the campsites we'd be staying at would have running water/bathrooms/phones, etc. We would be taking really easy hikes (the longest one is about 9km or about 5 mi) and if one of us can't make the hike, we'd all turn around. We know our limitations, and can only prepare for the worst. I'm not really sure what can go wrong? We're hiking for three days, ten days of sightseeing or driving. With each of us switching driving at 3 hour intervals, I don't see how we could mess this up.
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Dumping OC semi nudes of previous chicks for /advice/
>8/10 on a good day
>generally successful in life
>6.5/10 on a good day
>soccer player, skinny with nice firm ass
>all around amazing person
If people saw us next to each other, they would think I am out of her "league". From how she talks I think she's aware of this. She doesn't wear makeup and doesn't try to dress nice.
But for some reason I fucking really really like this chick. Everything about her. She's a 9/10 in my book.
She's coming over to my house tomorrow night, I want to make sure she craves me more after she leaves. Not just sexually, but I want her to keep coming back and back and wanting me and to try and hang out with me. This girl is amazing. I know how it works. If I get to clingy (which is really want to do, but know I can't), then she will distance herself eventually.
What are some mind games or some tactics I can use to make her want me even more by the time she leaves?