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I'll never fucking forgive my sister. She deserves no sympathy. She's been spoiled and sweet-talked all her fucking life. She is a terrible mother and I'm ashamed to call her my relative. My grandmother has done EVERYTHING for her. When she got in major trouble with the law, she spent thousands, THOUSANDS of dollars on a lawyer to defend her in court. My grandma works 60 hours a week at a very stressful job. My sister had a baby and no where to live, no where to go. Her boyfriend is a dopey loser with sense of responsibility. My grandma let her stay at her house for FREE for over a year, gave her a FREE car, and babysat at least 2-3 times a week, often at night. And how does she repay my grandma? By going out with her friends, getting high and getting drunk. Then she comes back home at night and screams at her baby, telling her to "shut the fuck up", calling her a bitch, not even putting a fucking diaper on the child. I've never seen anything like it.
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I've never met my grandparents from my fathers side. They weren't approving the marriage of my parents, so they dropped contact completely. I've heard they were quite religous and my mother isn't, so that may be why.
I don't know their names, age or how they look or looked, but I do know where they live now, and it's only a couple of blocks away.
I don't have any real desire to meet them, but in some way I want to know what kind of people they were before they pass away.
My grandparents from my mothers side are both 89 now, so time is probably ticking. I don't know if they are mentally stable or if they are healthy at all, I just don't want to have regret later if they do pass away in the future.
Would you meet up with them if you were me? I don't actually miss them in my life, so I don't know what I would gain if I met them, other than that I've tried everything to see if they want to meet me.
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What are some hobbies or things to get me out of the house, my mom is making me look for work and I've applied for place but nobody has called me back yet. Everyday she nags me about looking for work, it's getting on my nerves and we've had a few fights about it. I have no friends and she doesn't like me sitting in the house all day but what the fuck am I suppose to do? I can't force people to give me a job.
I guess I could try volunteer work, though I've never volunteered for anything before. It's also hard to make friends in my tiny city, most people my age have full time jobs and are always busy. A lot of them probably have children as well that they are raising, even if I found some friends I doubt they'd have as much free time as I have.
>Inb4 collect stamps
Starting Long-Distance Relationship
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I plan on confessing (just telling her I am interested in being more than friends - not in love) to a good friend, I have known for more than 5 years. I have reasons for thinking she might mirror these feelings.
She is a very important person to me and we share many mutual experiences throughout secondary school.
But we currently live 45min apart (via bus), and have different time schedules at different universities and subjects.
We both are often very busy, with university projects and (in my case) study associations. We both are in demanding study programmes
I am not sure how a relationship/dating would play out in our situation.
In case she is also interested:
>Is it ok to start a relationship, when already living apart?
>Is it even a good idea to confess in such a situation (I really feel that is time, as I have been thinking about it a lot.
>Do I still need to do the 'dating routine' with somebody I already know so much about?
>How to go about it?
Please share your opinions and experiences (with LDRs).
ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out. This is something that cannot be explained. You either have learned to intuit this or you have not. If you have not, the only way to learn is experience--there are no shortcuts. So it comes back to: Just ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online. Don't complain that this isn't helpful; stupid questions deserve answers like this.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't fucking know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>Brandon, that one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy