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Guys, I do not know if I am crazy or anything, but I moved away in the last months for College, but I think I am being monitored or something.
Everyday, when talking to my mother in the phone, she lets something weird slips. Last week, she knew I was sick before I told her or anything, then the other day she asked if I slept well in the only night in my life I had insomnia. Yesterday, when talking about some assholes that that live in the same place I live, she said: oh, they are annoying you and all, but they arnt bad folks, it is not like they are going around with whores and drinking. The last thing I searched in my internet, was one of those prostitute sites (but only for fapping curiosity) and I kinda drank a lot the day before. There was another day also when I just left the bath and told her I was going to the supermarket, and she said: put some clothes and come back soon. This creeped me out, how could she know that? Am I crazy or it makes some sense? She was always very possessive, and those things started after some work was done in my room (construction stuff.)
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What does this mean?
So I met this girl about four months ago. I absolutely adore her, the time we spent together are absolutely the best in my life and I'm looking forward to see her everytime I'm without her. We are just friends though. She feels the same way about me, we are both kinda on the silent side though. After a few months of friendship we decided that we're gonna drop some acid for the first time in our lives because we were both inclined towards this.
That was two months ago when we dropped it for the first time. This week we dropped another. We were at her place watching a film in her bed and in the middle of it we dropped two tabs. It was beautiful, it was her birthday and we spent it together. What I noticed though was that we don't really talk much. When the acid hit it was really hard to find words. We were at her room just enjoying the trip until like 11 p.m. and then we hit off to a bar.
Then again, most of the times we didn't really talked much. I told her about that why are we spending so much time willingly together when we don't really talk and she said that it's okay that she just enjoys my company.
What do you do when you are on acid? We just spent everytime totally lost in our minds it seems to me, I love it though but it gets me confused as fuck everytime.
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Girls often seem to refer to multiple traits they are looking for in a boyfriend:
Although they say this, the fact that they often fall for relationships which are (to an outsider) abusive / bound to fail / not following the above guidelines, shows that they are intrinsically very irrational. Possibly even more so than men.
So if these guidelines are often empty expressions, the reality of what girls want from a relationship is
Even if girls bring this term up it is almost never clear or in the least concrete:
>I am looking for chemistry
>We need to click
>He didn't have that 'special something', you know.
But if chemistry is by its very nature so illusive that even the people looking for it, cannot define it:
>What are they even looking for?
Or is it really just a numbers game, where one hangs out at the venues where there is the highest probability of meeting your 'type of girl' (which is much more concrete imo) and just engage with as many as possible until there is a match based on the arbitrary nature of 'chemistry' the girl sees in you?
>What is 'chemistry'?
>Why do girls keep on using a term they don't understand themselves?
>How do guys 'improve chemistry' and is it even possible?
>What are your experiences with 'chemistry'?
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Is there another way to get laid without pretending to love a woman?
I run into too many women who say "I'm not that kind of girl" "I don't do those things"
So I take them on dates, tell them I like them (even though I don't.)
Tell them they're special, help them out, drive them to places. and then..we finally have sex, and then I slowly give them less attention and move onto spending that time on another woman, and just fucking the girl that I pretended to love.
But, the last 2 girls went crazy on me when I tried breaking up with them. They told me that I was just using them and that I'm an asshole.
I don't get it, how are people having sex lives without making women angry or pretending to love them?
I lied to 6 women now, telling them that I loved them and that we should get married some day.
I'm not an asshole, but I love sex so much, and one night stands don't do it for me. I just want to fuck girls every day.
Cutting someone out that you've been helping for years
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My friend has a 6 year old son with her now recently ex bf. For the past 7 years he's been with her. He's been helping her by supporting her. She's been helping him by watching their child while he was working full time establishing his career, she has worked a few part time jobs in between those 7 years.
He says he hasn't been happy in a long time and is leaving her. She currently has no job. He's not waiting for her to get a job before he leaves since he already has a plane ticket to leave in a week. So I guess he's giving her "one week" to find a job.
Her biggest issue is driving. She can't drive long distances and she has little experience driving on the interstate. As far as her child goes, her kid is constantly sick. He said they will go to court when he settles in his new place.
She has no way of even paying for rent at the place they were staying at together for years and is moving in with me in the mean time.
She's a good person. She doesn't do drugs, she doesn't even drink, she doesn't get involved in bad things.
Are people really this fucked up? I understand her ex bf has no obligation to help her besides child support. But what kind of person just LEAVES and expresses no sympathy, he even texts her randomly fucked up things like "any suffering you go through is your fault, it's not my fault you don't have a job"
He also gave her forty bucks before leaving and said that's all he's gonna do to help her until he sees her in court...
Really fucked up shit. Have any of you known someone to do this?
How do I can cheer myself up, /adv/?
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I'm 26 and I haven't had a boyfriend in my entire life. This year I met a boy at my new job, and even though I don't talk to him, I have a crush on him, but being the stalker I am, I discovered recently he has a girlfriend, and well, my heart broke a little. But I feel really bad, because I feel like no one will like me ever. I always think it's because I'm fat and ugly, ultil I see uglier and fatter girls having nice boyfriends. On top of that, I was diagnosed with hypothyroidism and I gained weight so I feel terrible with my image. I don't dare to sign in dating sites like tinder or similar because I'm pretty insecure with myself and I'm afraid to get laughed at. I'm even basically afraid of falling in love. Geez.
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Would drunkenly confessing to having feelings for a female friend be likely to invoke a positive response?
I don't want to ruin the friendship between us, and the main way I can think of to not do such is, when we're at the same party, pretend to get wasted which I'm not known to do.
Then let all of what I feel go, and then push cuddles onto her and 'pass out' soon after.
Next day I pretend I don't remember what happened, and I think she won't want to hurt me, so will either act on what I said so that I'm surprised, or she'll never bring it up again.
Third thing is she tells me what happened, I act embarrassed, and we actually talk it out.
All three of these outcomes are positive to me.
I don't know if she has feelings for me, I suspect no, but I need to come forward with them eventually and this way I think will minimize the likelihood of fucking with our friendship.
Good idea or no?
a: Atheist, I don't have morals, I have ethics.
b: I don't care that it's unethical, I'd do anything and say anything for a partnership at this point as long as it doesn't legitimately harm anyone.