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Hey, /adv/. Since we realized that there wasn't one yet, and its a form of education that's sorely lacking in modern day we're making a discord chatroom to be a general community of philosophy, and its general overlap with science, sociology, or other forms of theory. As well as to be a community in general. Which obviously means it will hopefully include things relevant to advice due to having education from multiple areas.
We only just started up, but this is something that could be useful if if becomes big.
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So, there is some messed up shit i did in the past and i can't figure out why i did it.
There was a guy i liked for a long time, loved his quirks, wanted to know more about him. He treated me as a friend and i always had a feeling that he'll stop talking with me if i stop showering him with questions and act less gentle.
He didn't want to know more about me, i threw a tantrum, he tried to be more considerate, but forgot soon.
His behaviour started driving me nuts, i believed he isn't interested the way i wanted and started subconsciously hating him and being passive aggressive.
Still afraid to confront, because don't want him to feel at fault or talking with me less.
In the end i ghosted him, supposedly because hatred prevailed.
Did he do anything wrong or am i an irredeemable human being?
What do I say
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Ok so there is this girl I have been seeing for about a week. We are really into eachother, but are waiting a few weeks before we call ourselves a couple. She wants to wait because the last guy she was with was very controlling after a month, and really mean to her. The problem I have is that there is this guy who asked her out before we started seeing eachother, and they planned it this saturday. She asked me if I would be cool with it in text, but I do not know what to say. Im not really that okay with it, but I really have no say in this because me and her are not really a couple officially yet. What should I tell her?
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What's your worst bully stories anons? What's the worst shit you've ever got?
Did it toughen you up? Or break you?
Did it stick with you? Do you still think about it to this day?
I know someone will be able to top me, but here's my worst.
>Be 9th grade
>Sit with large group of people at lunch
>Some faggot starts a running gag with "voting me off the island"
>Almost everyone plays along, lol anon you can't sit with us, you're voted off the island
>Laugh awkwardly along with it
>One day faggot decides he wants to turn it up a notch
>He plans with everyone, once anon gets here, we all get up and walk away from him
>I get there, and they do it
>I sit at a bench, and stare at the ground, while everyone sits and laughs at me.
>Only a few people stuck with me
>Faggot and the rest of the lot tells the few people who stuck with me to come and sit with them
>spend the rest of my lunch staring at the floor
I became a more resentful person after that.
>Fourth of July, at Grandparents house
>Entire family on pontoon fishing
>Some cousins and I wanted to go on the boat, but uncles and some older cousins went w/o us
>Wait for them to get back
>We plan to go back out when they do
>anon you can't go back out with us unless you get us soda's
>see them all leaving on pontoon, laughing at me
>throw soda's on the ground and run into bathroom crying
ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out. This is something that cannot be explained. You either have learned to intuit this or you have not. If you have not, the only way to learn is experience--there are no shortcuts. So it comes back to: Just ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online. Don't complain that this isn't helpful; stupid questions deserve answers like this.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't fucking know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>Brandon, that one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Think I'm gonna get drug tested?
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Just got a job at a locally owned, but pretty large business, 40+ employees. Applications were STRICTLY walk in only probably to weed out any scum walking through. The application did say that I MAY be drug tested if offered employment. I was instantly granted an interview for the following day (just before had turned away a young kid probably about 18). Anyways so I come in the next day, nail an interview in like 13 minutes, acting to my full whiteness calling everybody sir and maam and how greatful I am for the interview. Well i get a call today that I got the job, need to come down for "paperwork". I figure of course this must be it, gather my items to fool the test, get there fill out tax forms and official workplace fairness type paperwork etc. I was then told to come for my first day Monday at 9am, still no MENTION of a drug test. I figure they would test me BEFORE I start right? Just curious because I dont want to get ambushed with a cup all "HERE U GO PISS IN THIS IMMEDIATELY." I will eventually have to operate a forklift, and do shorthaul driving to Colorado of all places. No mention of randoms either.
Got Job, application said may DT, got job fairly easily, start monday, still not even a mention of a DT.
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>I'm 18, she's 15
>Met her through a game
>Since the first day we talk,call,webcam every night together until 4-5-6 A.M. (at 8 AM I wake up to go to work)
>She's EXACTLY like me, it's incredible, I still don't believe it. How she talks, how she thinks, what she dreams, and how is she at her age it's like how I was/I am.
>We talk about everything, we share culture masterpieces and dedicate each other poems, we talk about philosophy and most of all, we dream together. We also have lots of fun and there are times we just laugh the entire time, it's something complete and perfect, and we know and feel that there is some kind of weird but intense phisical attraction, tho never met and that's so fucking sick.
>Sometimes we hardly want to hug each other, stay together, do everything.
>We are literally free to say anything's in our brain to each other, even the most extreme fantasies who a normal human being wouldn't ever share with someone else.
>I am not virgin and I had lots of other irl relationships
>My life is divided in between a normal social life and a super hardcore virtual one, as I am also a coder, gamer, and I have always deal with a monitor and even the most deep internet part.
>Basically, I dump irl girls just even to talk 1h more in call with her.
I feel that all of this is sick, unreal, and weird...
I also tried to cut off everything but I was feeling like shit, and she also cried for 2 hours in a call for this sort of decision that I was almost taking;
She's so fucking much important for me and from this distance I am insanely taking care of her, even tho I really can't phisically.
What should I do? How should I take it? Is that weird? Normal? I am completely lost... Hope someone will suggest me something significant to do to deal with this weird thing that's happening.
>oh yeah, also, we're far away thousands of kms.