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tl;dr what are some neat boat-related jobs?
Hey ya'll, just graduated from uni with a degree in theatre and music. I'm planning on moving to the East Coast to pursue those things in about a year, but I'm assuming that won't pan out, or if it does, it'll take some time before it can fully support me. In the meantime I'll obviously need income. I've got experience in various 'real' jobs (mostly as a sound/lighting guy for bands), but recently I've taken an interest in boats. Those things are fucking cool, and I love the culture around them. So I wanted to know if ya'll have any suggestions of careers that involve ships, be it piloting them, repairing them, or using them as a base of operations (fishing, marine data collection, etc), or whatever else.
I have no qualms about manual labor, and I'm fairly competent when building stuff, (most of what I've done is woodworking and some welding). My main goal is to find something that's interesting. IMO, shoveling dirt for 8 hours sucks only because it's boring, same with a lot of other job.
Oh, and my experience with boats equals the operation of my family's 19 foot fishing boat we use to get around our island (lolhumblebrag), as well as our shitty 12 foot skiff we put a giant motor on. More than the average person, but by no means very knowledgeable about the boating life at all.
Hope my blog post wasn't fucking asinine. Thanks guys!
What is the best method of losing my virginity?
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Backstory : I'm a 19 year old virgin with severe social anxiety and very misogynistic views. Don't want a girlfriend, but I still have sexual urges and frustration I must fulfill. I need to know what sex feels like so I can hopefully stop putting it on such a pedestal and focus on more productive things. I live in norcal.
I don't want to post my picture on a hookup site because I live in a smallish city where someone might recognize me. I consider myself a 6/10 in terms of looks, so if there's a way to get instant one night stands with mildly ugly women without putting my personal identity out there, I'd be willing to try that.
If not that, do you think it's worth the time, effort, and risk, for me to try and get a prostitute? I know it's super easy to do so in countries like the UK, but I'm not sure where I would even look for one in the US.
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Okay so let me lay this out:
> never kissed a woman
> constantly tells me how much she wants to fuck another girl with or without me
> be me, interested as fuck
> feed into it, now a nightly topic during bed
> talk to old friend I havent seen in about a year
> pretty cute, known her forever
> after a shitty bf shes now a practicing lesbian
> invite her to meetup
> gf and bestfriend are now inseperable,
> best friend hasnt left for 4 days other than to work and sleep once
> browse tinder for gfs together, flirt, play footsies n shit
> gf has told me last three nights that she wanted to fuck her
> hungout today after work
> got food, me and bestie catch up
> gf sitting right next to me sends me a text
> "shes only looking at you, she wants to fuck you, ect."
> confused as fuck, ask whats wrong
> thinks bestie just wants to fuck me, not interested in her
> talk a bit, says im flirting too much and need to back off
> confused as all fuck hut avoid argument and try and leave them be all day
> talk alittle bit more about tonight
> gf now wants me to wait so that she can fool around with her before i do/ i was never allowed.
>tried to make my ass sleep on our couch two of the last four nights
Im so lost /adv/, is my gf trying to cuck me? We have a life together and she tells me shes happy but idk if shes just trying to lose my ass and run with a girl. Or maybe this kust needs time. My old friend seems interested in the two f us, but i just cant tell if shes genuinely interested in me or just thinks of me as a friend wholl let me fuck his gf.
they think I don't like them - social anxiety
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I'm a college student and have some strange behaviours because of my social anxiety, trust issues and light depression. I think I gave some people in my class the impression I don't like them. Now they have formed a circle and know each other. I distanced myself for 4 semesters. I did that, because some of them are very eccentric and inttelectual. I was scared of meeting yet again more freaks and felt intellectually inferior. And I grew up in another country and am mixed, but nobody notices that until I say it. That makes me feel different as well. Well, now I regret having been like this.
How can I work this out? I am still scared, because they are so smart and even nerdy an exepctional personalities, I feel inferior
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>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out. This is something that cannot be explained. You either have learned to intuit this or you have not. If you have not, the only way to learn is experience--there are no shortcuts. So it comes back to: Just ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online. Don't complain that this isn't helpful; stupid questions deserve answers like this.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't fucking know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>Brandon, that one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy