First World Problem
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It's break and my parents want to go on a family vacation while I'm still home. They asked me about places I want to go, and my number one choice is Japan since I have friends there, as well as weebshit. Thing is, I don't think I would be comfortable going with parents. Last year when I went to Japan alone, I really enjoyed not being dragged around to places I didn't want to go, and not having relatives look through my purchases. My parents and I don't share the same interests and I feel that if we were to take a vacation to Japan, it wouldn't be an enjoyable experience for anyone.
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Ok, just found out a girl I like slept with my worst enemy.
We both work for the same organization, but work in seperate departments.
Thing is, this other guy worked with us for a few years, and then was caught doing some very illegal shit. Police got involved, myself and other colleguages were question, it was very messy/demoralizing - anyway, end result was he isn't working here any more and has a police record now.
TL;DR - Should I date a girl who I found out slept with who has VERY questionable values?
ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
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And please no derailing arguments.
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't fucking know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck my life!!!!!
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So I've had a crush on this one girl for two years now.
We hang out , play vidya gaems and stuff. We over all like to hang out together. After a year of this, I start to slowly hint at we becoming a pair. One day she mentions that she has a Belgian boyfriend.
I'm depressed, but we still spend time together like we always had. When i'm not doing anything I'm depressed and sad and angry but when she talks to me i become happy again. She notices me acting odd, and i tell her how I feel.
>She isn't even surprised
We start to talk about this situation more and she really helps me cope with my feelings. Its been 9 months after i told her how i felt and we have been talking often. I'm still depressed sometimes and i almost feel more depressed because we can pretty much talk about everything It almost feels like we are a couple, but we are not.
Recently this girl and her boyfriend have been having a rough time. For some cruel reason I love this girl and have decided to try to help their situation. The boyfriend doesn't know about us and thinks I'm just a friend of the girl. I've been relaying messages between them when they don't want to talk and I've given support to the girl when she has felt down. Her boyfriend doesn't want to support her when she needs it and she is sure that hes the right one for her but the guy has said that he isn't sure.
I still love her and thats why I want to help her. I don't want her to be hurt. At this point i don't care if we have a future together. I just don't want this to ruin her.
>When i help her cope with her sadness, I'm feeling worse every day. I can't stop helping her because I want to see her happy, but this situation is killing me inside coz i spend time with her, help her, support her but we can never be together.
>FUCK MY LIFE
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I've made a huge mistake. I fell in love with two girls and can only have one. I thought I could drag both relationships out until one was a clear winner but that hasn't happened. I know I'm still young (24) but I'm not the type to date around and I need to pick the one that I think I'd eventually settle down with.
Here's the story:
Girl A. We started dating during junior year of highschool, dated all through college, and have continued to date with 3 breakups in between. I'm the one who did the breaking. We are both 24 now. She was the first girl I ever dated and the one I fell in love with. We grew up together essentially. She's into the outdoors like me and we've always had a great time going hiking, traveling, and backpacking together. After 8 years of dating we have alot of history together. I really like that she has her own hobbies and interests, keeps fit, and eats well. When everything is right, she's happy and fun to be around.
When things aren't completely stress free in her life, she isn't very fun to be around. She doesn't deal with pressure very well and it effects our relationship. Our sex life was never great in my opinion, though I am really attracted to her and how her body reacts to mine. When she would be stressed out from school or something, sex was the last thing she wanted to be bothered with. I told her many times throughout our relationship that sex was important to me. She claimed it was to her, but we've never been quite on the same level.
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It seems like no matter what I do or how hard I try I can’t get a job. I’m a 20-year-old male living in NC. The last job I had was about a year ago and it was the first job I had ever had. I worked retail from 2014 to 2015. Long story short, I quit that job because the management was going to shit.
While I’m living with my parents and going to college, I feel like a fucking loser because I don’t have any income. I’m tired of my folks giving me gas money and the like, even if I did house work for it. I want to earn my own money again through a real job. I’ve been applying to jobs left and right and even walking into stores, looking sharp, with resume in hand. I have no criminal record, I was never late to my old job, I left on my own terms (gave my 2 weeks), and even my pervious co-workers would put in a good word for me. I even have lots of volunteer work in various areas as well. I don’t think I’m perfection or some amazing worker that anyone would be privileged to have working for them and I’m sure there are many others like me but goddamn I can’t catch a break.
What do I do /adv/? The constant applying and rejection is starting to get to me. Any help or advise is much appreciated.
>TL;DR: What can I do to get a job?