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My girlfriend went to basic training. I've been kind of sad and lonely so I find girl online. We end up sexting via kik and we share nudes. She thinks I'm single. She sends first and I reverse search the image. She's legit. I end up sending a dick pic. No face and very ambiguous. At this point I realize what I'm doing and I want out. I want to cut off all ties. She knows my first name and she saw a picture of my face. I asked her to delete my dick pic and she said she did. So at this point, does she have enough info to come into my life and ruin everything with me and my gf? Do I delete my kik? I dont have a facebook insta or twitter, so is there any way for her to hunt me down. I dont know if she's crazy, well she was crazy enough to send me a video of her playing with herself when we've never even met. Before someone says, "probably a dude" I made sure she was real. What further steps do I take to never see this chick again. She lives in Indiana, I live in Texas.
Birth control which does not suck
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>why is it that all kinds of birth control/contraceptives seem to suck
>condoms seem least likely to fuck over your body, but it's relatively easy to get pregnant even with those on
>IUDs and pills cause hormonal imbalances
>yes i know there are liberal women praising that stuff like it makes the sun shine out their asses
>but I've also heard the horror stories
>and the praisers are the same people who gush over menstrual cups, which are honestly horrifying
>sterilization is worse
>vasectomies can cause post-vasectomy pain syndrome, which is no joke
>tube tying is even more risky
Honestly, it's like for most methods, your body biochemistry and hormones will just scream "fuck you for trying to change things around you, imma screw you over". But still, come on, it's CURRENT YEAR, you'd think medical science would've gotten this shit down pat. But no, I think they're more concerned with marketing their products than improving- what with many doctors disliking to talk about post-vasectomy pain even being a thing.
Tragically, their marketing appears to be working, because so many people now seem to think that this is the age of having all the sex you want- I very much wish that is the case, but I would have to be deliberately ignorant of all those lousy contraceptives and the risks of STDs.
So yeah, really, is there a way to not have babies while screwing someone, and which doesn't suck? I really don't want kids, and I might be getting married to someone opposed to abortion. I can certainly persuade him into using condoms at first, but he might eventually want kids, so advice on female birth control methods specifically, would be preferable
>the tsunami of complaints over Essure only proves my point on the med industry rushing and over-marketing products
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Hey /adv/, i think i want to kill myself..
When I was 9 years old, around 10 years ago, I had this weird sexual relationship with my sister.. there was no sex, but it was sheer mutual curiosity, etc. When my parents found out about it, probably a few months after it started, they sent me to a boys home, and then i ended up living with my grandparents until last year. I have had a great remainder of my childhood/teen years with them and they have been nothing but supportive. Everything has been going fine but a couple recent google searches and seeing my now much older siblings has made me feel worthless, and I feel like shit for what I did. Ive always felt this way, but now I feel like I want to act on it. What should I do?
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How do I help my girlfriend lose weight? At the beginning of the year, we agreed to lose weight together. Our stats were Me: 5'8'' skinnyfat male 190 lbs, Her: 5'1'' female 200 lbs.
We were total shit for the first month, until the end of Jan, where I got my shit together. We had a fight where I said she wasn't serious about fitness and she said I wasnt serious about managing by drinking problem. I got really mad, poured all my liquor out and haven't had a drink for 6 months.
Now today I am down to 163 lbs. Going to try to cut to 150. She on the other hand... gained 10 pounds and a double chin.
I just want her to lose the weight to be healthier. She is probably going to die in her 40s or 50s if she doesn't lose it. I never told her this, but I cannot she myself marrying her unless she is normal weight, because I just can't see myself starting a family with a ticking bomb, plus I don't think she is in shape to even have kids in this condition. There's just no nice way to say it. She keeps wondering why I won't pop the question, but this is really why.
Basically, she has no discipline, has poor self control, and is too ashamed to go to the gym. She works a lot and always uses it as an excuse for being too tired despite my numerous invitations. Tbh, her diet is shit, but she won't listen to my advice because I learned everything I know from /fit/ and she says she's not going to listen to some random losers on 4chan. The only thing I can think to do is become a guy who polices every last thing she eats and to me that seems like being a dick. How do I get through to her?
How do I know if I ACTUALLY like someone?
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I need some advice. I mean, obviously. Anyway.
How do I know if I really, truly, like someone? Have feelings for them?
Things have been going really well with this girl. We're kind of dating now. I like her, she likes me. She's told me I mean something to her. Something more than sex.
She's an absolute joy. I love being around her. I could spout every cliche in the book but let me get to the point.
Some things about her frustrate/stress me out. Mood swings, namely. Bitchiness following the week before her period. I understand emotions, but why does she need to take these out on me? Sometimes I've literally done nothing and she'll be bitchy. Other times it's something small and she gets pissed. But she does apologize though, save for one or two occasions (namely the one where I literally did nothing).
She has self described herself as a "psychotic bitch."
I'm wondering if I'm only putting up with this because I'm just desperate for love. Or if these feelings are genuine.
How do I know, anons?
Questions about breaking up.
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Some background info. We're both 23 and virgins by penetration. Both have had limited relationships. I have no close friends irl and no car. Been together 9 months.
I've been living with her over the summer with her parents. They offered and I was hesitant, but they insisted so I went with it. My apartment is only open during the semester.
I'm 5'11, 175Lbs, reasonable shape. During the semester I hit the gym 4 times a day and before summer I started getting nice results. I'm introverted and feel awkward in social situations. I have a receding hairline (family gene) that doesn't get worse, but it makes me look like I'm going bald. I've been working a full time job over the summer.
She is 5'6" 225 Lbs, she looks better than her stats though. She has a skin condition that makes her skin rough as if she always has goosebumps. She has anxiety attacks about her health and will cry for a whole night every other week. She is on meds for this. She has a car and her parents pay for a lot of her stuff. She has a part time job. She is very sweet when it comes to helping me out. She has been my transport to work (I'm 3rd shift) and aside from a few big things she treats me well.
Onto the problems. She has a low libido. We haven't fucked, she rarely wants to perform or receive oral, and a lot of time she doesn't want to kiss. She also doesn't like any kissing with tongue and is super uncomfortable with her body. The only thing she will want to do is let me use a vibrator I bought for her every couple weeks. After that I usually get nothing in return.
Her mom has also spoiled the hell out of her. She buys her mostly everything and even clips her toenails for her. Her mom is cheating on her dad with 3 guys. Her sister is beyond the point of return, as she literally has not left the house for 2 months and stinks like hell.
I'm wanting to get out, but I have things that are keeping me from doing so, I will continue in a reply (1/2).
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I am facing a huge dilemma, I don't know if I should go into economics and finance, or go into physics/math
The economics is going to get me rich because of my silver spoon connections, but I feel like knowledge may be more valuable to me. I fear jobs, though.
No, this is not me flaunting my opportunity to wealth, I'm seriously arguing with myself over this. I know the money route may seem obvious but I just don't know guys...
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So this is another question about dating, but in a slightly different way.
I've always wanted a long term serious relationship, to get married, find a "true love" the whole nine. But for those of you who know what schizoid personality disorder is, I have that. For those that don't, basically like having a severe case of being a loner, I don't like being around other people and I've never really felt connected to another person even my family members, even during sex the other person is like an inconvenience.
I've tried having many serious relationships, and I've tried FWB and I always find that I grow to hate being around the person very quickly if I see them any more that about once every two weeks no matter how much in common and no matter how much I actually like them. It's just the fact that they're a person I guess. This is an obvious problem especially since I can just swear off relationships and people in general because I still have a need to know that I'm approved of and loved by a SO. But I don't want to keep getting into relationships and hurting the other person by leaving them because I dont want to be around them. I just want the approval, not the person if that makes any sense. So I guess my question is how could I have and where would I find like a permanent long term long distance relationship or maybe someone can come up with another solution to this?
PS. Therapy and counciling does fuck all to help, I've tried. And my family and friends have kinda learned to deal with me so there's really no problem there although I wish I could be closer with them but I think they understand.