ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't fucking know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
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My close friend (at one time best friend) of 20 years is experiencing his life falling apart in front of him. The thing is, for the past two years, he wouldn't talk to me over some petty shit, and now that we've cleared the air, he expects me to be fully supportive and there to pick him up when he falls down.
Most of our other friends either aren't willing to help or aren't in town. He's become super abrasive and often seems unappreciative of anyone's efforts. Plus I'm still super mad at him for shutting me out of his life for two years.
I guess the question is, do I keep pouring effort into helping him, and do the right thing? Or do I set an expectation with him that there's only so much I'm willing to do?
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I've used ADD medication for several years on and off starting around my freshman year of high school.
I mostly used it as a performance enhancer for when I played music, or popped one before I wanted to write something cool/do some drawing.
Everything that I did while I was on the ADD medication was highly praised, while stuff that I did while off of it not so much. It really ate away at my self esteem, basically I realized that I was shit without medication.
I'm at a crossroads in my life right now, where I think I need to get back on medication in order to succeed, and I think the ADD stimulants are what I need. I think I should get back on them, but I feel like I need to sort this out first.
Basically, I just don't know how to cope with the depression of realizing that I'm garbage without stimulant medication, that I'm basically dogshit and untalented without the magical focus powers of smart pills. That everything I create should really be credited as 'me + adderall'. I don't know, maybe this is stupid, but it's destroying my pride and sense of worth.