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How do I treat women?
I've finally quit /r9k/ and am trying to make something of my life. I'm working on getting my driver's license, currently attending a community college, and work at the local Target.
I have no idea how to talk to women even causally. I've just come off an immense hatred of women. I didn't think they're as good of workers as men, any woman playing a video game is just an attention whore, and that any woman who is having sex with her bf is a slut, etc.
/r9k/ is cancer, anons.
ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't fucking know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
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I quit looking at pornography and masturbating five days ago, and for the past three I've been enduring serious urges to go back. They're not overt either, it's just like a subtle stress, blue balls, or oddly enough, dreams about getting off. To those of you who have experience quitting, and know the early stages, how did you guys generally deal with it? The sort of demand I feel for getting off is actually making me feel lonely, but knowing myself it's probably for the best that I don't have a GF or a girl I like presently in the early stages of this fight. How do I deal with this kind of thing?
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help me before i fuck it all up. I have been dating a girl for a couple of months and im fed up of her bull shit. i feel like she is taking me for granted. Im always really nice and caring toward her but she is often apathetic towards me, and makes up excuses not to see me. I nearly sent her a message calling her out on all her bull shit but realised that it might not be the right thing to do so i have come here seeking advice.
we where talking on text and i sent her a message saying that i am down and would like some cuddles, she said "im going out in a minutes, find someone else". this pissed me off and i sent her a text basically saying she is being apathetic. she hasn't replied but i feel like sending her another one saying i deserve to be treated better etc. If this carries on any longer, i will definitely end it because the relationship is toxic, she honestly doesent deserve me right now and i could do better. i lost my virginity to her so i suppose i have some feelings towards her. this isnt east for me. i also might not be able to see her for a little while longer, she lives 40 mins away on the train and she is apparently broke and doesent like people paying for her, so speaking to her in real life isnt an option. what should i do? thanks.
Dating a chubby girl
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I am in serious doubts and would appreciate some of your wisdom.
I recently met online a girl that looks cute and conversations went very well, really clicked.
We decided to meet, and it was then i noticed that she is somewhat overweight. She is aware of it and brought it up in conversation saying it is due to a period of recovering from injury (was a dancer) and depression. she has good proportions and was athletic before. She mentions several time how she started working out again recently.
I dunno what to do here, she might be just saying it. I am athletic myself, and it would bug me to date an overweight person.
Has anyone ever had a success in this kind of thing? How did it work out?