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my parents caught me growing weed in their house a couple weeks ago and told me to stop -nothing I can do about it, it's their house so I stopped and they didn't mention it again. Yesterday I was away and my mom used the opportunity to search everything in my room without asking, took my two bongs and vaporiser that I use to smoke totaling well over a hundred euro of my own money and the paraphernalia itself is 100% legal.
So what do I do? I'm looking into growing weed on public property so but that's a side issue, I'm not sure how to process my mom taking my stuff away. I know it's only 100-150 euro and I can replace it but it's my money and she didn't even ask. I'm not in a position to move out or anything like that, have less than a thousand euro saved, and I'm supposed to go to college in two weeks while living at home.
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Minor problem, /adv/. Got sent a Snapchat message that didn't make sense, so I replied, "I don't follow." The message got opened, but no reply after 20 minutes! I want to have clarification, but how can I do so without sounding strange?
Advice for a College grad
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>Jump around sciences until 2nd year
>Decide to be an actuary and major in applied math with econ emphasis
>study insurance over the summer before my senior year
>fail exam, hate insurance, math and econ are still very easy for me
>can't come up with another plan before I graduate with no experience and degree I don't care for (at least I have honors)
It's not that I didn't plan for anything, it's just that everyone told me to focus on getting out in four years. I did that despite switching majors so much, but that meant that my whole life was school (even the summers).
So now I have no experience and no obvious career goals. I feel like CS would be a good step but I have no experience in that except for basic jave (like barely the fundamentals) and an intro C++ class.
Any advice y'all have woulf be greatly appreciated, especially people with years of working under their belt.
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So I have a serious problem when it comes to blondes, and I was wondering if anyone knows how to help me get better.
I have a harcore blonde fetish. It's getting seriously out of hand and really screwing with me. I think that blondes are the apex of women and I've only ever dated blonde girls. When I'm in the internet, if I see a picture of a blonde girl (even if it's not really a compromising picture), I'll usually end up masturbating. In public whenever I see a blonde girl I immediately get hard regardless of if she's even attractive or not. It's seriously out of hand.
So basically, have any of you had serious, borderline debilitating fetishes? If so, how did you get yourself over it? I want to be normal. There's a cute brunette girl who's talking to me and who I went on a date with yesterday, but over the night I had a dream that she was blonde instead. There's something seriously wrong with me, and I need some help, /adv/.
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A female friend of mine who I've known for a year asked if she could join me on a trip I'm taking next month. I thought it was interesting that she was so forward about wanting to join me and gladly accepted the offer.
The problem is that I'm a guy, and I'm well aware of the narrative that surrounds men and women being "just friends" (that is to say, they don't exist, and at least one secretly wants to bone the other). A couple of male friends are already egging me on to put a move on her, or seem to think that this was part of some cunning plan on my behalf to get closer to her. In reality I have put women/dating on the backburner, and just want to enjoy spending quality time with people I feel comfortable around. I've grown tired of doing everything by myself, and when people themselves offer to accompany me on my trips like this I'm very enthused.
I won't lie and say that I am not attracted to her. The problem is I've been burned so many times and while she is fun, interesting, cool and pretty good looking I can't pull the trigger. I don't think a relationship is what I need right now. And I don't think pursuing her is in the best interest of my emotional/mental wellbeing. The only thing that would change my mind is if, we go on this trip and we find out we are very compatible and there's even some spark. Otherwise the last thing I want to do is muck up a quality friendship with something stupid like "confessing my feelings" (ugh) or some similar nonsense.