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Question for males suffering from mustache shadow:
The fuck do you do? No matter how close I shave, the mustache shadow looms. It's almost as if you didn't shave, regardless if it's smooth or not, it gives the appearance it's still there since it's at root level.
I heard waxing isn't good for male faces, can even cause damage. Lasers don't work from what I read, nor do I want to pay it. What the fuck else is there to do to get a clean look?
Borderline Personality Disorder
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Anyone here with borderline personality disorder, or know anyone with it, or know anything about it? Is there really hope? Does medicine help? What about therapy?
It has helped me ruin all the good relationships in my life and it drives me insane. I find no joy in life and nearly every activity brings me pain and leaves me feeling empty. I wonder, "do people REALLY feel happy doing _____? how is that even possible?"
The only true joy I have ever had in life was in romantic relationships and 100% of the time I have fucked them up and they left me. I most certainly have interests and hobbies but I can only actively pursue them during my good days which are very rare.
I read so much shit about how hopeless this illness is, how therapists "hate" us, are clueless as to how to treat it, how it yields the highest amount of suicides and self-harm rates of any mental illness, etc. Jesus Christ. How can I have any hope for myself after reading this?
Please help me.
Work motherfuckers, do you do it?
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Hey /adv/, for those of you who are in employment, how did you go about and find a job. Post your applications/interviews/offer ratio. Just phoned up three companies (thats only today) offering basic warehouse jobs and got told "we'll call you back" i.e. fuck off. All this rejection fucking sucks absolute shit, I think I'd rather stay NEET.
But Im tired of sitting here, constantly refreshing 4chan and I need the fucking money
Its not like I dont have experience either, Ive worked in despatch for two years, yet still the fuckers want an almost like-for-like experience for the job vacancy. I mean seriously, what do they expect?
I know how it is, they put some inane hoops for you to jump through, only to have some routine, repetetive job that a monkey could do - and I'm happy to do that if they gave me the opportunity.
To top it all off I have a degree, but I omit it from my CV
Should I lie on my CV and come up with some fake work experience?
And any tips on finding work?
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I have zero appetite right now. I live alone and cook all my own meals, so this basically means I haven't had dinner in the last week because no one is forcing me to eat. I don't know what this is about, other than that I have been feeling really stressed and tired over the last two months.
I'm basically living off of breakfast, snacks and sandwiches in the evening. The thought of having to make food is bothersome, and I don't feel hungry either. I guess that if I was to become really hungry I would make something, but atm I don't want to bother.
How do you work up an appetite?
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Hey /adv/, haven't been here in a while, but I need a bit of guidance.
I'm a freshman at college, and for the first time in my life, I don't really have that many friends.
I'm not that sure how it happened. In the beginning of the year, I went out a lot and met a lot of new people. But because I had a group of really close friends in high school and my general personality, I'm pretty cynical and judgmental of other people. I was nice to everyone; I just didn't really want to hang out with people who I didn't like that much.
So as time went on, I did less socializing and meeting people and never developed my own friend group. Because I had a normal social life in high school, I've never really been in this position before and it's strange to be that kid that stays in his room all day, and doesn't go out on the weekends.
I'm worried that as time goes on it's only gonna be harder to make friends and that soon I'm gonna be screwed for four years. I would love it if you guys could give me a bit of advice on what I could do to change things.
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There's this girl I've known for about a month. It started when I asked her out, but it kinda went down from that to "Why don't we be friends first?" a week prior. It's been about 4 weeks since then and I see her, talk to her, and have lunch with her pretty much every day at school. I still like her, and I've had this idea of randomly going up to her on Tuesday at school and giving her a hug, but I don't know how she'll react. My (female) friend says that I should do it, but she and her family are of the type that expect hugs from visitors; so I don't know if her reaction would be the same as my friend's.
What do I do? ._.
Pic unrelated, have some softness.
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My dick just about hits 4 inches long.
I'm at least 5 inches in girth, it's widest at the base.
Normal condoms are too tight on me and can't roll all the way to the base.
Magnums can roll down, but with a little difficulty at the end, and unfortunately, because I get thinner as I go up, the condom rolls up.
Like, imagine putting a condom on a street cone.
I don't know what to do about it, there are no condoms out there which work, no method of getting it to stay on.
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So, I was in a restaurant earlier, and there was a woman in her 20's with two little girls, who were like 3 and 4.
They weren't really doing anything wrong, they were a little loud and I guess they weren't eating, but she grabbed one by the arm and yelled at her "Just wait until we get into the car, I am going to smack you and your sister. And if you don't eat your food, you're just going to have to starve." then she took one to the bathroom and spanked her. This happened more than once, lots of threats. They repeatedly said "Just WAIT until we get to the car."
I got their license plate down, do you think I should call the police about this or just mind my own business?
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Whenever there's an argument, my girlfriend always gives me the cold shoulder or doesn't feel like talking. We cannot come to an immediate conclusion, leaving me confused and upset and presumably her the same. The next day, she'll call me and we usually iron things out, but it's the same old cycle and I am honestly fed up with her roundabout bullshit way of dealing with this. How do I handle situations like these? What should I do, /adv/?