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Question for males suffering from mustache shadow:
The fuck do you do? No matter how close I shave, the mustache shadow looms. It's almost as if you didn't shave, regardless if it's smooth or not, it gives the appearance it's still there since it's at root level.
I heard waxing isn't good for male faces, can even cause damage. Lasers don't work from what I read, nor do I want to pay it. What the fuck else is there to do to get a clean look?
Borderline Personality Disorder
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Anyone here with borderline personality disorder, or know anyone with it, or know anything about it? Is there really hope? Does medicine help? What about therapy?
It has helped me ruin all the good relationships in my life and it drives me insane. I find no joy in life and nearly every activity brings me pain and leaves me feeling empty. I wonder, "do people REALLY feel happy doing _____? how is that even possible?"
The only true joy I have ever had in life was in romantic relationships and 100% of the time I have fucked them up and they left me. I most certainly have interests and hobbies but I can only actively pursue them during my good days which are very rare.
I read so much shit about how hopeless this illness is, how therapists "hate" us, are clueless as to how to treat it, how it yields the highest amount of suicides and self-harm rates of any mental illness, etc. Jesus Christ. How can I have any hope for myself after reading this?
Please help me.
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Is there anyway to realistically disconnect from your life for a bit, /adv/. Like find some people and just chill out seeing some part of the world for a bit?
The past term really got me. I just couldn't work anymore. I felt really unmotivated, even depressed. And as much as I knew I have to do labs and stuff to pass, I just didn't. I didn't mind the readings, for Biology and stuff. In Chemistry the practice problems I didn't exactly love, but I could live with them, sort of. My courses were all prerequisites to this term's. I don't know what to do. Only one course carried over, so I'm taking literally one course right now anon...
I feel so overwhelmed with all of this, what do I do? I haven't even told my parents. I was hoping I could somehow maybe get diagnosed for depression or something, and get tuition reimbursed. Even if that's not possible, at the very least I would just go about my life and take the courses again, not telling them I have to do almost a year's worth of courses again.
However I feel as though I really need a good break right now. I want to go on a fucking adventure or something.
What are your thoughts /adv/?
>Totally lose interest in write ups and assignments, really only care for reading text
>mfw I'm only qualified for one course this semester
>Will probably have to take all courses again
>I don't have to guts to tell my parents, or anyone
>I just want to take a step away from all of this
>Anyway to go traveling or something?
>Am I just running away?
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recently my mother has been thinking that my father is cheating on her with his employees. My father and I both know that he isnt, and we have seemed to get that thought out of my mother head for the moment. But now, just because my dad had his phone turned off during work, she thinks that he is trying to ignore her. She keep saying that all he cares about is his buisness, and that he doesnt love her. I tried to explain to her that my dad was born into a poor farming family and has worked hard to support both sides of the family. And he wants to make it so succesfull that the next generation wont have to go through the work, or the "ku" ( chinese for hard , stressful labor ) he went through. But she is oblivious to that fact. My dad doesnt talk much and he doesnt really express him self, but he know when he loves somebody. But i think my mom has forgotten that. Today, my mom drank a lot of white rice wine, and started to say this " He hates me, i love you larry, i have to see you get married, graduate, and have children. thats why i cant die, not yet, must live for him. My son. ". Tears are flowing down my face as i write this. So please /adv/ please tell me what to do to make things all better again. tell me how to get my parents to start loving eachother again. thanks
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I come to you wizards of /adv/ for advice.
I can't forget this girl, but im not the typical tfw no gf.. it was.. well...
>be sophomore year
>always been the uglyish kid but i had been swimming, lost weight, straightened hair, and acted more alpha
>somehow this gorgeous japanese girl likes me
>we go on walks and talk a lot, she says cute stuff like being nervous and those things.
>one night on fb we tell each other we like each other but without actually saying the words, and we say we will tell each other at school tomorrow,
>note: her parents dont let her date
>I FUCKING DITCH SCHOOL
>had big test, didnt study, i was scared of telling her
>she waits at said spot for 2 and 1/2 hours, friends say she looked sad
>never really the same
>stops liking me
>she turns into bitch because lots of guys like her in HS, kind of conceited now, meaner, swears, but still cute and flirty like before
>i still think about her, i'll have a random dream like every couple weeks about her. just talking to her or at some school fuction with her.
>i went through HS, had GF's, played a lot of sports, went to a couple dances, etc.
>still can't forget her
in college now with a gf, but can't shake this first lady. Is it her? or the idea of her? because we never got that close for me to see her flaws. Am i just seeing the epitomy of a perfect girl? Or am i ashamed of my betaness?
You guys are great at this stuff, any advice?
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I'm so beta, I was dating a girl for two years until she found out I had feeling for her. FML.
Anyways, how -- besides, obviously telling someone you like them (which always ends poorly for me) -- does one go about having a meaningful relationship with another person?
Or, shit, any kind of relationship with someone? I've asked out plenty of girls, but I'm apparently doing something wrong because nothing's ever clicked.
-Sincerely, 18 Male betafag
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I have feels for a coworker. I can't act on them because:
a) I'm in a serious relationship and
b) Technically he's my boss
Now, this is the first time I've been in a situation like this, but I've done a tremendous job of keeping myself in check. I don't do the flirty, touchy-feely bullshit. I avoid situations at work where we'd be alone together. I even encourage him to get other girls' numbers. But goddamnit it's killing me. I have this pent up mixture pf jealousy and guilt, and there's literally no one I can talk to about it.
To be clear, I am not going to pursue my coworker because I have sense enough to realize that this is probably just an infatuation that will pass with time and it's not worth jeopardizing my current relationship and my job, but do you guys have any tips on coping with this until I can get over him?
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>win a prize of 6 million dollars
>no cash but get a house, 2 cars, a yacht, a plane and a motorcycle
>have to pay 51% of 6 millions to the government
>can only sell the house at 50%, the cars at 40% and the rest at 45%
>even if I sell them I still have to pay 3,060,000 euros because the government's fucking retarded
What the fuck do I do? I'm pretty much fucked