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/adv/ Advice

Threads added between 2013/01/19 10:00 and 2013/01/19 16:00

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need some /adv/ please? >be working two jobs >payday at both jobs >fuckyeah.jpg >decide to get paycheck from Papa Murphy's since my other job stays open later than it. >Pull into parking lot and park >Get out of car and walk on my merry fucking way to the store >See cop car arresting someone >Fuck yeah, I never see this shit >My manager is handcuffed and being put into car >All of my what >Go inside to worried looking workers, find out manager has placed cameras in various places in the bathrooms to look at employees (mostly 20 yr old girls) undressing, going to the bathroom, etc. >Mwf I'm a minor and can charge for child pornagraphy So what do I do? I don't want to get my parents all involved and pay thousands for a lawyer. I have never been in this situation. Do I sue? I've been hit with so much in so little time, I'm still in shock

Taking Ritallin/Aderrol as a Uni Student

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Hello Adv, i come to you with a rather unusual request : Whenever i try to study for some subject, most of the time my mind just drifts off to things that are interesting & difficult while completely non important for whatever i am doing. This happens when i go to the library to study, or if i stay at home. Besides the aforementioned, i can also hardly wake up before 10 or 9 in the "morning", when i have important classes that start at 8. now, besides working out and eating healthy (both of which i am doing) there remains only one valid option that i see as "ok" : Ritallin, Aderrol, Modafinil, Armodafinil etc. have all a similar effect on the individual that would seem to help me. I ask of you two things : 1. Talk about your experiences while taking these and how they affected you. (ive already read source material on the web, i just want "normal people" opinions on that). 2. How were i to go about it and gain access to these in germany. Keep in mind, i am not planning on relying on this stuff, but i want to see if ut can help me. Thanks and cheers.
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Me and my girlfriend recently got into a fight, well recently we get into alot of fights. Shes paranoid and thinks every girl in college or every girl that is my friend ( which for example was her cousin that i knew two years before her) i want to have sex with.I never cheated on her and I never once went even close to trying. She is my first girlfriend and I lost my virginity to her,which i think is why she acts so possesive. Her on the other has has not been a virgin for a very long time and has had around 12 different partners before me. I know she loves me deeply but tonight was the last straw. She was bitching and complaining ( because she lives with me, she typically does this) and i decided to make a comment along the lines of "girls in college fall on my dick" or whatever and she goes and mentions just like I fell on " insert boyfriends name here" In my house in my room she said this too me infront of my friend. I ignored her at first and decided to smoke inside ( which I knew would make her mad) and she decided on leaving >scare tactic and i pretty much insisted. Now shes apologizing from home and bawling, What should I do /adv/? Do i ditch the girl of 1 year or keep on truckin? Pic Totally unrelated
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Well I'm nearly years old thanks to my appearence, my height and good old female hypergamy it's become damn near nerve racking to talk to women and because of my lack of experience I feel there's no hope now. Used to believe that I actually had a chance but well why bother a huge chunk of women go for the raging arseholes/sociopaths and then bitch and moan about it . Break up with them and then do it all again having not learned anything. Basicaaly how should I approach women and where would I go that would well increase chances they aren't one of the ones not obsessed with height?
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Hey....so... >be drunk as fuck >be texting best friend who i wish to hook up with in the future >she gets drunk too >starts telling me she wants to fuck me >we are now dirty talking and all that jazz >words have been said that cannot be unsaid >feelsgoodman.jpeg >keep going on for awhile >now the thought hits me WHAT THE FUCK AM I GONNA DO TO TOMORROW WHEN WE SOBER UP? will she think differently of me because of it, will shit be awkward. i have no idea how this well go down...help me bros...i really like this girl and this shit could fuck everything up.
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I was born and raised Muslim in Egypt (but haven't been there since the age of 17, I now live in the West) but left the religion around the age of 20 (I am now 24). After I saw the Islamist rise to power alongside the Arab spring a developped an obsession with Islam fearing that it will manage to take over the West which, which is now my home, the same way it managed to take over my country of birth. I really don't care about what Muslims or anybody else believe in (I'm not interested in preaching my beliefs and I think that new atheism is stupid), but the fact that Islam comes with a clear cut political and social system that collides with my preferences makes me terrified. The way Islam is gaining power in the West, and especially in Europe, is making me worried. How do I stop worrying about Islam and start living?
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Hey /adv/, 21 M here. I'm after having a bit of an odd run in this evening. It was a good friend of mines birthday, So we got together with a couple friends and his girlfriend drove us around town/local pubs. All in all it was a good night but when she dropped us all off we were in the car [Me and her, I was finishing my smoke.], And she had come onto me and was hinting that we should fool around. This really bothered me, I want to say something to him but i'm not really sure how to go about doing this, They have been together just shy of three years. Any advice?

Gambling addiction

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Have any of you ever had an addiction to gambling? If so, how did you get out of it I'm struggling to pay my bills and to eat because of my addiction, but I still keep doing it. Did your friends/family think less of you when they found out? pic semi related
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How does one go about becoming a writer? Like when I say writer I mean writer in the same way that Hunter S. Thompson was a writer - going on insane adventures, living to tell the tale and so forth. How does one go about living a life that is structured like that?


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I had BO for 7 years already, its affecting everything in my life, I feel dead when I have BO. I am a very confident person when it comes to people, however, once I start to sweat, everything goes away. U would try to avoid people as much as possible. People ask me why I become insecre suddenly, and I just can't tell them. I am so embarrased. I tried every brand of deodrant, anti-pespirant, soap and 'secret recipes'. I shower at least 3 times a day, whenever I have the chance. Still, it isnt going away Once I sweat, I smell like shit. My brother tells me I stink and ask me to shower more. She refuse believe that I am actually trying hard to be hygienic. How? How? How? I am so depressed. All my thoughts go away when I sweat. I feel like I cannot function. Please offer any sort of help I will greatly appreciate it.
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>Hot bitch at work How do i hint to her that i want to fuck without it being obvious\sexually abuse incase she doesnt want my dick and reports me?

long read ahead.

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I'm 22, sitting on 90 credits, and today was supposed to transfer from my commuter college to a university upstate. I'm basically a shut-in, have no social life and don't do much besides workout, play WoW watch tv and work at a gym about 25 hours a week. Without sounding like an asshole I'm probably a 8-9/10 physically and most people think I score tons of girls but I'm incredibly anti-social and really don't even have a desire to do anything outside my own world. My parents were vehement that I had at least a year of real "college life" to see if I liked it. I can't bring myself to go through with it because I honestly don't see the positive for someone like myself. College is a social experience, and the independence everyone touts seems to be bullshit from my perspective. I do my own laundry, have a job, cook, clean etc I just happen to live at home and commute. TLDR; anti-social, commuting to school. parents made me feel guilty about not wanting to go away and I'm unsure what to do. I am failing to see any positive aspect of going away. Not to mention i will literally double my financial debt from this one year if i do go through with it. any opinions please.
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What is a polite way to decline? I'd like to hang with this guy but I'm broke, getting to his will be difficult, and I don't want to risk getting sick before an important date I have on Monday. (alcohol+no sleep=immune failure lel)
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Okay, /adv/, I was robbed at gunpoint tonight and tried playing it cool. Now that I'm back home I'm shaking like crazy, have broken down, and have a shotgun loaded and next to my bed, although I can't sleep. What should I do now?
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How do you deal with crying/being emotional when you're watching movies with your date/gf? And ladies, what do you think of it? We were watching some french movie which she really liked yesterday evening. I was pretty neutral about it and thought it was okay'ish most of the time, until this damn scene comes up with some old guy finding his childhood toybox. That shit caught me by surprise. My feels weren't ready. Luckily, I was behind her so I don't think she noticed me quietly weeping like a bitch in the background, despite us being pretty close. Opinions /adv/?
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Hey /adv/, please help me to get my gf to swallow. We do have sex often, i receive BJs sometimes, and we both love it. She did not have much sexual experience before we met, but with me she loves the dick. Just this tiny detail annoys me, she simply doesn't want to swallow or the cum to get anywhere near to her face. I really love when girls swallow and hate to grab a tissue (seriously, NO) after receiving a BJ. She once tried to swallow, after a while she told me she did not like it, found it a bit disgusting. So, /adv/, how could i make it less disgusting for her? There are a few ways to make cum less bad tasting, i think, but i don't have pics about that. Help is appreciated. Also, my penis is always clean ... she kind of likes to give me BJs most of the time, so that's not the problem. I wouldn't even mind if she spit it out, as long as it's not cumming into a tissue. I would love to cum facial, too.. but as i said, she does not like it. tl;dr >asking on a non-femanon board >how improve taste of sperm >how to talk gf into swallowing / cum on face >general advice appreciated


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Ok, here is the deal. I'm now single and searching for a girlfriend. I have no real clue about what to do to improve myself. So I ask you, fellow /adv/isers, what would make me more attractive ? I'm very well aware that I'm not a good rating, but I still hope I'm not fugly. I am again lifting on a regular basis (I stopped months ago). I thought about growing reasonably long curly hair, maybe ? HALP ME§
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After losing faith in women after the one I lost my virginity to cheated on me, I resigned myself to focusing on me only. Problem is, now that I've removed the "women are goddesses, the ultimate objective" mentality, I don't know what to do with myself. It's like I've reached the maximum level in a game, and there is nothing else. I feel empty. >I try fitness There is noone to impress anymore. >I try my education Tory cunts have jacked up uni prices, and medicine, the only thing that seems worth doing to me, is a 5-6 year course. >Express myself using music I've only tried this recently, and as a result, I know nothing about theory, and find it a frustrating endeavour. Anything I manage to make that sounds really good? I convince myself it's been made before and I'm undergoing subconscious plagarisim. Wat do?
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Yesterday I went out with a group of friends and friends of those friends. New faces. All of them are related because they work at the same. Between this people, there was this girl I sitted with. I started talking with her, and we pretty much had a nice time. Laughs, you know that stuff. But more happened. Turns out that, while I wasn't looking, she asked a friend of mine questions about me... Who I was, how I was... and something really funny: If I was virgin -According to this friend, the girl asked "Is he really virgin? that would be very arousing..." We had been drinking a lot, but not enough to get so crazy! Even if I'm a virgin -and I don't think how someone could "smell" that, I find that question very funny... So after knowing she's into me, I asked her to have a date next weekend. I'm going after her. What do you think? This girl is like 10 years older than me. I'm 19. And she's like 29. I don't really give a crap about age, but i'm curious about your opinion on this weird happening! I want to talk about this details, it's the first time something like that happens to me...
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How can I talk with vegans? I am working atm with some of my coworkers and one of them says that eating meat is horrible and compares it to having black slaves because "its a fashion". I don't know what arguments to give because she seems to feel hurt by it. Are there any good arguments to show that someone can eat meat and not be evil? I'm okay with her being vegan and all, but I don't like her shoving that we are the evil because we like meat

Things to do indoors with girlfriend - weathers bad

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We can't go out due to the weather, what are some things that we could do indoors?
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hey i was wondering if you guys could give me some advice, what's a career in which i can make more than 50 thousand a week without having to go to college for more than four years, and what degrees/certificates would i have to get to attain said job
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So a companys van backed into my wifes car in a parking lot about 8 months ago and we still havent seen any sort of compensation for it. We have a written statement from the driver admitting his fualt, pictures, and I have contacted their insurance adjuster like 100 times and still nothing....I really dont think they have any intentions of paying for the damages to the cars door (which is falling off at this point), the the headlight and everything in between..... I want to take them to small claims court but I've never been through any type of litigation....Should i just call a lawyer?
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I'll spare you the expositional onslaught and get to the point. 1. Got girlfriend. 2. Love going down on her. 3. Not that experienced at it. 4. Want to get better at it. I have no idea where to start (and/or type into google) so... yeah. Chuck me a bone please.
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Looking for a career I Have no interest in anything. "Except med-school but the cost is too much" What do? Going to apply for barista position soon.
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do i still have a chance with my ex? okay well my ex and i broke up about 4 months ago.. and the reason was because of distance. i lived 3 hours (flight) away. we're best friends, we understand eachother and tell eachother everything and we have so much in common. he doesnt have a friendship with any other girl like he does with me. and we talk all the time. and play LoL together.. and sometimes end up gaming until 3am. i went back in december, we hung out and hooked up. then went out for lunch and i had my flight back the next day we flirt quite a bit and joke around and everything. and hes pretty open to who he dates.. like hes the type of guy that likes to experience shit, and gives chances.. maybe in a few years or something would there still be chances or me and him getting back? i still have feelings for him and he doesnt know that. but im happy to wait.. as i cant get over him.. and hes like my soul mate.. and i have high expectations for relationships/guys that i cant move on and get over him.

I smell bad

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Hi adv. I need your help. I just took a shower, changed my underwear and socks. For some reason i smell rather bad, from my lower regions. I shower pretty regularly, whenever I take a piss, I use toilet paper to avoid piss stains, I always wipe when I take a shit. This smell is most apparent when I'm crouching. The smell: It's kind of like farts, not excactly like shit. I smoke cigarettes, and I'm a coffee drinker. What do I do?
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ok /adv/, another ex-gf problem thread here, to summarize: >dated for 1.5 yr >had problems, fought, etc >lived an hour away >broke up finally about 2 months ago (reasons unimportant) >she gets new guy >we both cut off all contact with each other >today for the first time, i check her twitter, already having problems with her new guy (arguing, disagreement, whatever) >i feel like i should step in even though i know i will probably get shot down or ignored i stil love her and all and but a part of me is saying that he'll hurt her and i shouldnt give a rat's ass, but i also feel like i should be there to pick up the pieces. another part of me just wants to see her suffer for moving on so quick. what do??
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i think that approaching a girl in a bar/club and say "hey, whats your name?" and ask her about where she is from, what she is studying showing some interest for the answers is not weird or creepy, but lately i read a lot of dont do that or that in fact its creepy...dont know what to do then...
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/adv/ i need some help.i'll try to make it as short as possible. Yesterday had the worst sexual experience ever. Hadnt had a lot, but this one is the worst. I couldnt get it up. I mean, the whole hour of foreplay, when we were making out and i was eating her out, i was hard as a diamond but after getting condom on, it became flacid and nothing could get it up. Maybe it was the music that was playing in the background? I was singing in my mind all the time lol. Also did a leg day yeasterday and got huge cramp inbetween sex. How fucked is that. I was laughing like crazy while she was a little worried. Also i ate her out for like 20 mins, she was moaning and breathing hard as fuck, almost shaking (did i do good? or was she faking it?) and she knew i am flaccid why wouldnt she just get down on me ? I mean it would help a lot. So what do you think she thought? Is it a big deal i couldnt stay hard for her? Has anyone of you been in the same situation? Wut do????
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So, /adv/, I need some direction as to where I'm going to seek help. I have a girlfriend and an exceptional amount of friends, followed by my close circle of friends who are basically like brothers/sisters to me. And I can't shake the feeling that every single one of them secretly despises me. I get panic attacks every other day, where I sweat profusely, I start to shake, and I feel a huge emotional weight on my chest. I don't feel like people are out to kill me or anything like that though. I'm also losing my interest in everything I like to do, as well as people. I don't eat major meals anymore, because if I do, I just feel full or sick. Is it Anxiety, Depression, or both? and how should I pursue it?
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what do you want in a relationship? like what is most preferred/ideal? or like what works out? e.g telling eachother everything? the physical shit, being best friends also?, likeee what
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Hey /adv/ Is it possible to escape the friendzone? Have you ever done it? Friendzone escape stories welcome. Pic unrelated.
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Hey /adv/ I'm a 25 year old virgin, never had a gf, unemployed loser living with my parents. But lately I finally found a job. Having a job is one of the best things I've done so far even though it eats a lot of my time and it is tiring as fuck. The pay also is so low but I've got to start from somewhere right. My problem now is that I'm planning to finally move out of my parent's house. I still share my room with my older sister. However, I've tried to look for some apartments and the rent for them cost half of my monthly salary. I don't think my salary could pay for all my daily needs when I am already living on my own. I also have a hard time waking up in the morning for work even though I have an alarm set up. I still need my mom to wake me up. Add the fact that my parents especially my mom doesn't want me to live on my own. She already told me almost a hundred reasons why it is better to live with them like it is cheaper, I don't have to pay electricity bills, free food, no one will take care of me when I get sick etc. Now I believe that having my own place is a big step for me to finally stop being a manchild and be independent. It is also a way for me to invite friends especially girls to my own place. But I'm having a dilemma whether I should continue with it because my parents wouldn't approve and my current financial situation isn't suffice to support myself independently. What do /adv/?
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Any ideas for a classy haircut, that can be shown at work, but still has short hair elements in it? Best example for this is the undercut, but that's my previous haircut and I don't feel like doing it again. Any other ideas, preferably with picture? pic related, it's a typical undercut
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Would it be a bad idea to hire a photographer to take fake "casual" pictures of me for profiles like OK cupid, meetup.com and facebook? Here's the skinny. I'm 30, resoundingly average looking. No kids, has money and nice place to live, just bored and lonely. Used to have a lot of friends that I went out, got drunk and partied with all the time. Now I'm kind of a loner. I think I am a terribly unphotogenic person. Every picture of me looks like shit. I'm not revolting. I get laid on occasion. Just average. But because I hate seeing pictures of myself I never let anyone take them of me. I don't even have a facebook, google+, etc. Now I'm thinking about joining some dating sites, but I literally have no pictures to post. Self shot pictures look like shit, plus I want to have pictures of me "doing stuff." Is this a stupid idea?
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Hi /adv/, is my dad a sociopath? My dad is on the board of directors for one of the largest commercial banks in asia, and he is the most mentally tough guy i have ever met on the planet, but not in a typical way you would expect, to people he loves he is a complete softy and he is completely non violent, he has never ever once in my entire life gotten visibly angry at me for anything, yes he punishes me but it's like he is impossible to piss off. He never seems to have any emotions other than happiness, when somebody does something annoying or confronting to him in the real world he just arrogantly laughs in their face and brushes it off, in fact this was the way he handled the divorce of my parents, and it was so resonating that it left my mother in a state for weeks, to see his complete lack of concern over something that affected him so. Another example was when both of my grandparents (his parents) died at the same time, my uncle gave a speech and broke into tears, but when my father gave his speech once again he gave an incredibly charismatic speech, to the point where he even had the people in the funeral service laughing (reflectively, not in a bad way), literally everyone i know loves him to death. One day i aspire to be as mentally tough as my dad, his upbringing was incredibly harsh (since the age of 4 he shared a boarding house with kids up to the age of 18) and my upbringing has been incredibly sheltered, so i am not nearly as hard as my father was at my age. >How do i go about become as mentally strong/ shielded as my dad? Is it possible without having some kind of mental illness? I try so hard to emulate his behaviour but things still affect me that he would just typically shrug off
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That feeling you get when your own parents fuck you over

clingy gf

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been with gf for 4 years now, we bost lost the V-card to eachother. Now i'm off to university and she keeps freaking out about every girl that i meet there. She thinks it's a giant orgie and despite not cheating on her for 4 years, she doesn't trust me. is this something that can be repaired or not? because it's either going to stop (which i told her) or i'm going to break up (which i didn't tell her)
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So I've been seeing this girl for awhile, at first her drug use scared me but I got used to it. I don't do drugs but I realize smoking weed and taking psychedelics every now and then isn't going to kill or ruin someones life. I come to accept this and I would like to state this before the world jumps on me. She said she did some hard drugs at one point like coke but hasn't in awhile. A couple days ago I was going to hang out with her and her friends but they were going to start snorting something. It wasn't coke but I got disgusted and just left. Why would anyone want to do that? She says I'm trying to control her but to be honest I don't want to be with someone who is going to do stuff like that. I don't even feel like I am being controlling, if she doesn't want to be on board with me on that then she can go do her own thing and I'll do mine. I don't want that stuff in my life. Shit's rocky anyway as she is still working out feelings from an old boyfriend. So it feels like she can never get close to me. It doesn't seem like it's working so it's just smart and mature to end it and move on with my life. What does /adv/ think?
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Some guy I've been hanging out with and talking to for a while asked me if I had a boyfriend a few days ago,and when i said no, asked why not ( laughing whilst doing so ) and if I'd want one. How should I even take this? I'm either dense as fuck or being too analytical.
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I feel tired even though I slept well and I have no energy to do things. I can barely get up from my chair. I don't want to go out even though I know it'll make me feel better. I know I suffer from major depression and surely some other shit, apathy, anxiety you name it and I will get help for that but in the meantime what can I do to improve my situation?
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I talk to a guy friend of mine often. He is always talking about wanting to get a gf or working out so he can get a gf. Does that mean he doesn't even consider me as gf material?
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If i were to ask a girl to come to my place and hang out, would this be acceptable as a first date?? I'm broke and have no job, so i cannot afford going out. I have no idea how to entertain her other than watching movies. I on't want to just sit there in silence watching a movie, i want to do something and interact/talk. What would be some good things to do?
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Hey lads. Asked a girl to see a movie with me tomorrow and she said yes - to me it's a date but I'm not sure she knows. Would she assume that us going to the movies together is a date? And how do I let her know that it is a date without outright saying it (don't want to make it awkward if she doesn't think it is)? Any advice would be appreciated

So /adv/ I need some help

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I'm really depressed right now and I don't know what to do. The other day 2 of my dogs got into a fight, in the end we got them off each other and my dog had to go to the vet, which led to her being put to sleep and being buried, I've had her for at least 2 years, she slept on my bed, loved me, I loved her, I don't know what to do, I can't face reality, I feel like she's still here, and in my head I get images, of her being here, being all happy and loving, then her in her grave. We did the old, find a nice private place where the body wont be disturbed, dig a hole, bury the body, say some things, stand around for a minute and leave thing. I really miss her, what do I do? I know I have to move on and face up to the fact that she's gone, but I know moving on means forgetting about her and I just can't, god I'm tearing up now. I really don't know what to do, last time we had a dog die it was like >cry for a few days, nothing. Now I'm just... I saw the whole fight, everything. I'd never seen her in that situation, her entire nose part of her face had teeth in it, that vet visit I mentioned earlier was because the second dog tore her eardrum, she had blood pouring into her brain, we thought it was like the other times they got into a fight at first, nothing would happen, it'd be k and we could just keep them away from each other for a bit but a few minutes later she was holding her head at a weird angle at first I thought her neck might have just been feeling weird, but then we found it, I saw her all happy to get into the car, waited in the lounge just waiting for her to walk into the house to come say hello to me waiting, instead I get "I had to put her to sleep", they had the body in the trunk, I went out and took one look I was instantly like "Why do you have the body, that's the last thing I wanted to see" anyway, that's the longest text wall I've done in years. tl;dr Dog died, loved her so much, can't cope with her not being here, what do?
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Hey /adv/ how on earth do i gain weight? I am 150 lbs and 6 ft 21 years old, and i eat like an animal... macdonalds atleast 4 times a week, i order 2 big mac chickens. i'm always eating when i am watching something or on the pc, everything unhealthy and full of sugar/fat like chocolates and fatty meat, bacon.. and still i barely gained 3 pounds... for my age i am too thin my girlfriend feels fat around me when we have sex
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How do I attract white girls /adv/? I consider myself intelligent from doing aeronautical engineering and more inclined with middle class manners than lower class. But the only women I attract are fat disgusting black women. This pic is from before I started working out and was an unemployed NEET for like 8 months so my eyes are all dark and red. I'm not looking for really attractive women, I'm realistic and I just want a decent looking one. Not some fat chav.

End of a friendship/beggining of new ones?

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So here's the deal /adv/, my closest friends and i have grown far apart. Ive known them for about 10 years now that i think about it, but at this point were just too different. All they want to do nowadays is stay at home, get drunk and smoke weed. That is there definition of fun, but i want to go out and do things with my life. I brought up the idea of starting a business with them, mainly a youtube series, which they were excited about, however, whenever i suggested we actually work on it, they just flopped. I tried so hard to get them motivated about SOMETHING, but there motivation would only last for a day tops. One of them is in college and failing all of his classes, and one of them isn't in college right now, and i don't see him going back any time soon. I worry ya know? but every time i hang out with them, i just feel drained; so i haven't been hanging out with them recently. Well, today, they called me up, and we talked it out, and decided that we should pretty much stop hanging out, because were just too diffrent. My last question was what their passions in life were, to which neither could give an answer. So, the question is, how can i find new friends, ones that actually want to go out and live life, and have some ambition? i'm actually not sad at all right now, just thinking of the vast possibilities i have in my life, as i am only 20. tl;dr Lost my best friends of 10 years, how to find new ones that share my ambition.
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I wrote this last week, and only got one or two replies, and now I'm posting it again to see if I can get more advice because, quite frankly, its driving me insane. Prepare yourselves for a sea of fucking text... My biological father walked out on me and my ma when I was 18 months old for another woman with a baby herself. He went on to have 3 kids with this woman, but from what I'm told, had me for a few weekends here and there until I was about 2 years old and then nothing. My mother raised me as best as she could, and she did a fucking sterling job of it in my eyes. Until I was 19, when one of the three kids he had got in touch, as they wanted to meet their older brother, with a hope to building bridges with my real dad. I accepted, although I was warned my whole life he was a loser who simply didn't want to know, so I didn't really get my hopes up. We met, it went well for a while. I was always the one visiting and ringing and whatnot, and one day decided to see what would happen if I stopped. I soon found out that they simply wouldn't bother trying to get hold of me. Years passed and I bumped into him in town. He was all "sorry, really busy, didn't mean to, so sorry", we exchanged numbers, and it went exactly as it did before - once I stopped doing all the running around, nothing. Once again, years passed, and it happens again. Again I do the same thing, and again they don't bother with me. Years pass, I'm now 29, married, got a little boy, and I bump into one of my half-sisters while out celebrating my son's birth. I tell her I'm a dad, and then I wander away. Two days later he turns up at the house, apologising, etc etc etc. When he leaves I send him an email telling him I've had enough. Cutting my losses. Don't bother trying to get in touch. He's taught me what kind of dad NOT to be, and I owe it to my kid to keep that kind of person out of their life. I hear nothing.
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I've come to an understanding that i'm not being taken serious by any of my friends, it's been going for a while now. What do I do and how do I fix it?

Venting General

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So there is a rumour of me going around saying that I beat women. We've had our arguments [spoiler] Prue [/spoiler], but I would never go that fucking far. I feel like I've got a knot in my stomach and it sort of feels like I'm falling. I loved you, and you start this? It's not fair.
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Hey /adv/ I live in a white dominated area and im surrounded by racist people who im smarter than. I used to think that if it take it on the chin it'll not get to me but it getting fustrating and especially as most of them are very stupid. What should I do ?
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Is it atall possible, in any capacity, for a girl to be sexually assaulted and then choose to be in their attacker's company later that day? Take into accoumt that she's somewhat tied to the perpetrator at their particular location
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I have perspiration problems. I will wash my armpits and five minutes later I'll be sweating like I haven't bathed for a week regardless of whether I use deodorant or not. I don't wear many layers so it can't be clothing related surely. I don't even have to go anywhere warm. my right armpit sweats more than the other. Why does this happen?
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advice on picking up girls pls... will dump the best animals in town
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Hi /adv/, can you help me find GF?
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Everyone around me cares SO much about money... I just don't get it... It does not matter to me. Am I naive or stupid or foolish or what? (Excuse the picture, it's all I have).
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Alright /adv/ this is a long shot, but I need your help. Basically I have this college radio program where we (me and my colleague) bring to the studio musicians of every style of music, and we do a live interview to them and they play a couple of their songs, always in a acoustic way. The problem is that we´ve had a few kinda famous musicians on our show already, but our facebook page and our show is relatively unknown. Could you please put a "like" in this facebook page? I am fully aware of the "not your personal army" doctrine, but it is something simple and would really help to boost us. The link is facebook.com followed by /Idealteca?fref=ts Thanks in advance, and I really have nothing else to contribute to you but my most profound gratitude to everybody that "likes" the page.
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"_adv_ - _adv_, I need your help. I just scored a job in a" Someone screencapped this thread or saved it? I thought I did, but I didn't. Some anon gave good advice about job related stuff. I was interested but busy, so I didn't read it thoroughly.
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Ok so here's the back story. I'm going to propose to my girlfriend in a few months. We have been together for 5 years and have lived with each other for 3 and a half years. We both love dogs so my thinking of proposing was getting a puppy and putting the engagement ring around its colour and surprising her with it. Biggest issue I'm having is finding what breed I should choose. I want it to be a medium to larg family dog that is gentle and smart. My thinking was either a Labrador Retriever or a Golden Retrivere. What do you guys think would be the best dog to get?
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So I'm pretty sure that I struck out with this girl. We were both drinking and i was trying to make a move while watching a movie. Had my arm around her, but she told me to remove it twice; i tried it two separate times But then she was telling me about about how she was part of the mile-high club. Then just now she randomly texts me high 5 hours after i dropped her off. Whats up with that; did I strike out and we are just friends, or is there something else still there?
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Talking to this girl a town away and she says: >I'm kinda seeing someone >but nothing official He's in another country. do I have a chance?
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>be working with cute girl at theater >ask girl to see a movie, agrees >go to dennys afterwards, joke around have fun >few days later, get courage to ask her to come around my place, she agrees >we watch a movie on my bed, get comfy >after movie, tell her i like her and kiss her >she kisses back with some enthusiasm >tells me about her ex of 2 years and how she isn't ready to tell me how she feels, but says she want s to get to know me more >those feels, but stay positive >talk to her regularly on phone/text and invite her over a few more times >things start getting more comfortable between us, she will cuddle and kiss and nap in my bed with me >awesome! this could really be going somewhere >visit her while she's working, bring her lunch and she is grateful >suddenly, one day she just doesn't respond as often >eh, this happens from time to time, shrug it off, but still talk to her >sudden;y she becomes more distant, and starts declining wanting to come over >get more nervous, kind of panicking now >send her a letter that says, in a nutshell: my strong feelings for her and how I would like for us to continue talking like we were so we can advance to the next level together and start doing other things beside just always coming to my place >she doesn't know how to respond to me >next day I hope for a real response! >she avoids me the entire day and leaves work without ever talking to me >now I'm really scared and angry >confront her about it >she gets angry and claims to have never seen me that day >total bs (where we work isn't that big, we have placements, and I'm the tallest one there) >get into a back and forth argument which result in me wanting her to come over so we can hopefully talk this through >she doesn't and I call her >states again how she isn't ready for something yet >we are currently in limbo, haven't talked at all in a week
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How do I convince my friend to stop focusing his life on music and start looking towards maybe going to school and getting a real job? He's disillusioned he's going to make it but he's really not that good sadly, I want to get him out of it. (best friend for 7 years)
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