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/adv/ Advice

Threads added between 2013/01/18 22:00 and 2013/01/19 04:00

Borderline Personality Disorder

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Anyone here with borderline personality disorder, or know anyone with it, or know anything about it? Is there really hope? Does medicine help? What about therapy? It has helped me ruin all the good relationships in my life and it drives me insane. I find no joy in life and nearly every activity brings me pain and leaves me feeling empty. I wonder, "do people REALLY feel happy doing _____? how is that even possible?" The only true joy I have ever had in life was in romantic relationships and 100% of the time I have fucked them up and they left me. I most certainly have interests and hobbies but I can only actively pursue them during my good days which are very rare. I read so much shit about how hopeless this illness is, how therapists "hate" us, are clueless as to how to treat it, how it yields the highest amount of suicides and self-harm rates of any mental illness, etc. Jesus Christ. How can I have any hope for myself after reading this? Please help me.
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I got fired from my job after only five days for taking too many breaks and just standing around resting/doing nothing for periods of my eight hour shift unloading trucks at Sears. I think it might be this kind of braindead work that makes me like this, not general laziness. At least I hope so. I'm 19 years old on Sunday and still don't have a clue what I want to do with my life. Something that is easy to get into that requires little money because I don't have any and don't want to get in debt from college unless its a near guarantee I get the job I want in the end. I actually don't even want to go to college. Something like an apprenticeship or an easy learn on the job type thing. I just wanna live, man. Get my own place and work, go hiking somewhere and play basketball till I die. Tell me easy ways to make 30-50k/year to do this.
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I want to adopt kid, preferably between the ages of six and thirteen. The problem is I'm a single man. /Adv/ice? I've always heard it's pretty impossible in the US. I'm thinking of doing the "foster care then adopt" method. It seems the best for both the child and me.

college dropout

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guise... I need advice. tomorrow I'm becoming a college dropout from a pretty nice art college. I'm, or rather, WAS a sophomore and I have 100k debt to pay off once the 6 month deferment period expires. obviously I don't have to pay up all at once, but still, it's a big debt. I was studying to become a comics artist and I'd still like to become one one day. not sure whether I should get a day job and do comics in my spare time or focus all my energy into my job and paying off my debt. I'm 19, fat, but willing to work hard. what jobs should I and CAN go after? I'm 19. reason im dropping out btw is a clusterfuck of family problems that I'm not going to get into here.
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Hey, /adv/, I need to write an e-mailing telling my former boss that I want a job this summer. Let me know if what I have right now sounds autistic and what I should write. Names and dates aren't real. John, I'm interested in working full time in the summer and spring once I finish school on April 49th. Please let me know...[whatshouldIwrite]. -Bob Doe
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I am really depressed for no reason lately. >I feel like I suck a music production (even though I've learned a shit ton of techniques, I can never have that creativity). >Talk to a girl I haven't talked to in two years, told her how I felt about her and that I was pretty much cockblocked when hanging out with a certain group of people and she confessed her feelings for me and I feel like shit. >Feel incompetent even though I am the most looked up on at my job. What the fuck am I doing wrong?
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One question for /adv/ Lets say you're in a relationship with someone. Find out they've been molested at a young age by an uncle and nothing was done + it was denied as a lie. What do you do? Do I have a right to find her family disgusting pieces of shit? (it may be the reason why her life was the way it was)

Gamer in distress

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I need help /adv/ my anus was not prepared for this. I have a problem. I just moved into a new place. I just received internet and was provided a NETGEAR model DOCSIS 3.0 11-N wireless modem. My internet works perfectly fine on my labtop, no problemo, but my PS3 is suffering and I weep. I can log on, browse the web and watch Netflix. The problem is when I try to play online, nothing happens. >Battlefield 3: I press Multiplayer, I get nothing, not even an error message. >Socom Confrontation: Failed to Log into Server(not entirely surprised) >Hitman Absolution: Go to play player contracts, "No Contracts Found," go to Leaderboards, "No Information Available" DAFUQ!? I heard port forwarding helps and I've tried but every vid or tutorial i watch or read is so half assed and they are all using different routers, similar sure but their PF menus have only Start and End while mine is 2 Start slots and 2 End slots. Can you guys help? IM BEGGING! inb4 fan boy faggotry
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Should I go back to school? I left because I was unhappy but then I attended a few other schools I currently live at home and are researching jobs that I can do at home like writing, freelance type I've also thought about going into the air force if they would accept me I'm smart and schools fairly easy I'm just not sure how healthy of an environment it is for me
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How do you actually take the step from obvious flirting to kissing? I've never been good at it. I am a little cowardly, but mostly it's like that because I don't know how. Just kissing seems is to forward and she might react badly, and saying something like "What would you say if I kissed you now" always seems to break the mood a little bit. So how do you actually take that step? I have a date with a girl I really like next week...
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Hello, Im 16 years old and live in the US. I was trying to travel by an exchange program and recently I got a opportunity to go to brazil and live their for 1 year. What do you guys know/think about brazil? Should I go or wait until I can choose other countries? WOuld you enjoy living there?
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GUY FROM YESTERDAY WHO HAS A CRUSH ON HIS COWORKER. (UPDATE) Some of you might remember me, this is what i posted: > Crush on coworker, she's 29 and i'm 21 > She is all flirty and smiles around me > We start getting a bit intimate, everyone in the office notices she treats me in a special way > Finally have the courage to ask her out and she says "maybe" > I playfully press on and she replies "I'll think about it..." > Completely give up and start ignoring her, she also gives me the cold shoulder for a few weeks This is what happened, until a few days ago, she started giving me a lot of attention again, being all flirty and smiles, touching me, making up excuses to talk to me and be around me.... Guess what happened today? She asked me to go take an icecream with her, and then we talked a lot and when we were leaving she said "wanna go out sometime next week?" What's going on bros? Why the sudden change in her behaviour? Do you think she is into me? If so why did she dodge my advances from a few weeks ago?
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I need honest answers. Is there any chance for truly ugly (2-4/10) woman to have a relationship? I know even fugly guys can compensate with money, talents, personality etc. But as a woman I'm fucked right? The only way I can think of would be massive plastic surgery but I don't have the money for that.
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>me: hey how many pages are we supposed to write for the senior project paper? >girl i like A LOT: 4 :/ >Oh wow. Im screwed. Anyway, are you busy tomorrow? >no reply in an hour >le feelings man when i wish girls liked me
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How would you start a life with $65000? My mother recently passed away and I found out that I'm going to be receiving $65000 in life insurance. Currently do not have a place to live, staying with relatives until I get that money. I'm 20 years old without a high school diploma/GED or a car. Obviously the first thing that I'm going to do is get my GED and get a car (I've been suggested to get a loan on a car even if I don't need it and pay it off to establish some credit) I'm about 10,000 in debt to family members due to funeral expenses, I'm going to see if I can make a payment plan with them so I don't have to put so much up right at the start, but assuming I do what would be the best way to start a life with $55000, no car no home no anything, completely from scatch?
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I've had this song stuck in my head for 125 days. Need /adv/ice on how to get it out. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MkWWx0YSyM0

no job offer

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im 24. i started my first class of a 32 credit hour certificate of a systems analyst. im dreaming that once i get the job, its just coke and hookers for me, no joke. With that i can once and for all leave all of my failures behind and rub it in the face of the people who looked down on me. the people who thought unkind of me. the people who laughed at me and disrespected me, will see me winning. just winning. However there is just one thing that can bring me down and i can feel it in my bones that maybe i was designed to fail after all. that one thing is not getting the job offer because my resume doesn't have enough experience. I will lie that i have the experience. I will lie my ass off because i want to win so bad, i can feel my heart beating and i can almost taste the victory. lord jesus christ, humiliation has been my lesson in life and i have known my place. i shall rise from the ashes as a phoenix or fall as an angel in your fathers grace. get meh that job.
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It's too much /adv/, can't handle that my gf was molested. Upsets me too much, can't even think about her without becoming upset. What do I do? Kill us both? Break up?
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he does drugs and my life is meaningless what do?
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This girl I like is have a small little birthday get together thing, and she invited me. It's customary to bring a gift, but I'm terrible at gifts, and I don't really know what she likes, besides hello kitty. I'm thinking I can't go wrong with jewelery, but I don't think I'll be able to afford that, and I don't really know what's "in style" or whatever. And I don't want to get something too expensive. I don't want to be one of those guys that spends a fortune on a girl just to get friendzoned. I only have until Sunday afternoon, unless she decides to move it to next Sunday. What should I do?

Lost

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Hey /adv/ Lately i've been feeling really depressed. I dont have a goal in life.. I wake up, go to work, come home, fap, vidya, sleep. Same routine, every, single, fucking, pointless, day. I don't want a girlfriend because they are a bunch of life-sucking vampires doing absolutely no good, asking for money and teddybears 24/7. And I don't have an urge to fuck, or look for a girl because I want to find my life again, so to speak. After my goal is set, and my life is in order, maybe i'll look for a relationship, or atleast start dating. I have many friends, and maybe 2-3 really good ones, and I hang out with them as much as I can, but to no use. I'm not the guy with abs, or a really fit body. I'm more like 6'4" and 260 lbs.. I have abit of a belly, but not like its hanging down covering my dick. And I really hate going to the gym seeing all those pathetic fit guys there, I mean, what the fuck are you doing there? You're done. - Jim Gaffigan. Anyone here that can relate? Maybe i'm sad because i'm not fit, whilst my other friends are? How do I cure my "sadness/depression" What is the CAUSE of this? Help me!
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I'm in trouble, /adv/. I'm 25 and I'm already having trouble to maintain erection (not having a problem to get an erection though). Wat do? I'm trying to do a kegel excercise but it's kinda hard to do it correctly. How the fuck do you keep breathing while tensing your pelvic muscles at the same time? Also, should I consider buying viagra?
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Of all the bullshit she has put me through, this takes the cake. She just tried to tell me she was gay instead of ending our relationship like an adult. I don't believe it for one god damn second. I believe she is bisexual but after the shit she said and did, she is clearly does not want to be (and has not been in the past) exclusive to women.
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>21 >virgin >had two girlfriends before (one in middle school, one in highschool) >been single for almost 4 years now >meet friend of a friend at a party >she is super shy, very repressed, certainly a virgin, probably kissless >year younger than me >not exactly hot but not ugly either, just incredibly plain >no ass or tits, but she has a nice, healthy weight >she is pretty boring but super nice and thinks I am the most interesting person ever >way more intelligent than I am >super submissive, has no backbone and agrees with whatever I say I really don't like her, but am really lonely. I've considered asking her out and I know if I do 100% chance she'd say yes, but I feel like a dick asking a girl out that I have no interest in and only want to get with because I have no one else. What do you think I should do?
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Alright BIG question here. A while back (late November 2012) my roommate and I got caught having pot in our dorm by the police. Both of us claimed ownership of the pot, but only my friend had anything on him. My friend received a letter from the judge sometime before the 20th of December (when he left for vacation, he received it before then). I still have not received any kind of letter FROM THE JUDGE (already spoke with persons at the school). Anyone have experience with this? I gave them my current address (not dorm address). They took it off of my license so it should be correct.
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So I'm going on a date with this chick tomorrow. This is the second date. We're just watching movies at her place. How do I go for the kiss in a situation like that, /adv/? Is it too soon to go for it?

Age of Consent

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What does this mean? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_North_America#Michigan Does this mean that a 16 or 17 year old in Michigan having sex with a person of any age above 16, is not considered statutory rape? (Pic unrelated)
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ill try to keep it short >18 >faggot >super nervous and shit about new bf >hes very new to sex (had it with a woman once) >really want to introduce him to bondage >how do also, pink or red? http://shop.erotikknett.no/Bondage-og-SM/Collar/Master-collar---Rosa http://shop.erotikknett.no/Bondage-og-SM/Collar/Master-collar---red pic unrelated
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I have too much sexual stamina. Please bear with me for a moment so I can explain why this is a bad thing and why I could use help. It takes me way too long to reach orgasm. I usually don't even go when I have sex with my boyfriend because it turns into 'try to get anon off for 30 minutes'. It's not nerves or anything, because I take the same amount of time on my own too. I've learned to enjoy getting other people off just as much, but sometimes a guy just want to cum. How do I learn to do a five minute orgasm? pic related it's how gays have sex
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Yesterday I posted this about a girl I had been seeing I'll try to make this as short and concise as possible. I met this girl a couple months back, and we ended up having sex. We did this a few times and I realized that I really liked her. Not just for her body and look, but her personality mostly. I haven't met anyone like her. We continued this trend, and I felt that she might have feelings for me too. Eventually I told her how I felt, and she said she felt the same, but that we should actually get to know each other. After that though, she seemed very enthusiastic about the whole deal, and suggested that we see each other more. Well, that was last Monday, and I haven't heard from her since. It's been about 10 days since I last heard form her. I texted her last Thursday and then again Saturday and got no reply. The general consensus was to just ignore her and wait for her to come around, or drop it. I just want to know, has anyone actually had success with this? Have you gone for a while without talking to someone you liked, but eventually made amends and worked everything out? Or is this just one of those things that set in stone, and once this happens they're gone for good? Just curious to see if anyone else has been in a similar situation and how it ended up
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Hey /adv/. So Im a senior in high school right now. My friend got hit by a car when he was walking to school this morning. He's got a skull fracture and in critical, but stable condition. But throughout the entire day, I kept wishing it was me that got hit. Just to see how people react. And not just that, I kept thinking how I would of jumped in front of the car if I was there. Is that selfish to think that?
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To make a long story short, I'm 22 and was home schooled. Got my GED back in 2008 and decided to work for my dad in his shop. Got sick of that, and now I want to go to college. Got a good SAT score, but there's one problem. I have no transcripts. Nothing. I took a achievement test every year until I was 16 to prove to the government I wasn't an idiot. Does that count? Or am I hopelessly screwed by not having any? Pic not related.
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would you guys consider having cybersex with a complete stranger on those random video chat websites to be cheating?
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Might be having sex with this girl I met on OKC who I've been talking to for about a week. Thing is, she says she's clean, and on the pill. But I'm paranoid of STD's. What do i do without coming off as a weirdo for asking her (which I did already but I hardly ever take things at face value).
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I know there is a lot of relationship thread on here now and I hate adding to the problem but I just want to vent. So awhile ago I met a girl at a shop. We made small talk about a band she had playing. I wanted to ask her out but my brother was with me and I was a chicken shit. So after I dropped him off at home I came back and asked her out. Things went better than expected and we went to eat the next week. It was a nice time then. So after a while we start dating. Things went smoothly and I began to care for her a lot. I spent so much time with her just siting in my car talking to each other until 3 in the morning. Anyways she had a ex boyfriend always coming to her place and causing trouble. Didn't really care at the time just because I thought we were solid. After a couple weeks we start having talks about stuff that leads to us being friends. I deal with it and just keep on. So for her birthday I took her to this cool river in the city and then we walked around a park. Just a great day. When we get back that night, her ex was standing outside. The dude was hella pissed at me. She yells at me to stay in my car and just let her talk him down. So I just chill for a sec then she says she will just see me tomorrow. Later on I decide to talk to the dude because he was pissing me off. Thats when I found out they got back together. Rage and sadness consumed me for a month before I moved on from all that.
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How do I overcome a mental block against writing papers? People keep saying that I'm a good writer, but I don't believe them. I just can't get any ideas out of my head and onto paper in a coherent format. I've spent days looking at tutorials for developing essay topics, making outlines, and the general structure of an essay, but when I go to actually write something, my mind just goes blank. I've used anxiety and ADHD as an excuse for extra time to finish papers, but even then I have next to nothing written the day its due. I've even tried using Adderall and Concerta, but all they seem to do is make me get frustrated much more quickly. I'm just incapable of sitting down and writing anything.
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Why am I so shallow and immature? Ever since I started becoming interested in finding a mate everything about my personality has lost every shred of decency. I am consistently irate, I fucking hate women, I am extremely impatient with them, and I don't want to have anything to do with them if it doesn't lead to sexual arousal. I read stories online about patient people with amazing hearts who are in wonderful relationships with their partners, and I think to myself that I must be an outrageously fucked up individual because I can never see myself being chivalrous in the way they are. I don't know if something is wrong with me or if I am doing something wrong or what. Maybe I just haven't met the right girl?
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Is it possible to brainwash myself into thinking that ugly girls are actually really hot? I'm sick of dating attractive girls. They're too much work, there's too much competition, and they don't appreciate me since they know they could drop my ass and find 20 other replacements at any time. I want to date one of the ugly girls who will treat me like a prince but my dick recoils and I don't think I can physically do it.
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So /adv/, I'm really confused. When I woke up today for work at 2:55am like usual I randomly checked my call history. Not really sure why I did, I never do. So thinking back on it, that was weird too. Anyway, the last call that I made was to a girl that friend zoned me about 8 months ago. I cut all contact asap and told her I never wanted to see/talk to her again. I was pretty bitter about it. So I started to freak out about it...I then checked the time/date, exactly the day before at 2:55am when I had no work and slept in till 9. I'm freaking out right now because I live alone and NO ONE but me could have made that call. Did I fucking sleep call her or something? I have no recollection of ever doing anything that night. I didn't drink, do drugs, ect. I have been only getting 2-3 hours of sleep though. Honestly, it's not even the calling her while sleeping that's fucking with me...but the fact that it was her of all people and at fucking 2:55 in the morning. IDK what's going on, I've never been so flustered in my life. Help /adv/
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at first i didnt think male virginity was a big deal...until a boy confided in me that he was a virgin who had saved himself for marriage or some shit. he just randomly threw it out there and asked me if i had sex, and i was like...wat? i don't have issues with virgins that don't act like virgins but for fucks sake, dont tell a girl whom you've talked to for a collective 2 hours that you haven't had sex. itt male virgin discuss
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Hey guys, Im dating this girl for about 3 months and we had sex a few times And its getting better each time we do it, but since she was a virgin I dont know how to get a blowjob from her, and I dont know to tell her that I want it and she never did. I really feel like getting a bj. What do I do?
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How do I stop being such a perfectionist? I want everything to be perfect but in most cases that's just not possible. A few years ago my friends tried to get me into WoW and I went along with it. I played for about a year and a half and not once have I ever reached level cap. I was constantly jumping between classes because I was trying to find the "perfect" one for me. This happens in most aspects of my life. If I find the slightest thing wrong with something or feel that it's "not for me", I just abandon it in search for something better (which I never actually find).
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My parents won't let me out of the house. Should I say "fuck that" and go hang out with my friends and sleep at their house (which i'm "not allowed" to do) or just humor my parents and not get harassed tomorrow? is it unreasonable for parents to keep their 17 year old kid away from their friends?
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I always get ignored by my friends. >me - "hey man wanna hang out?" >friend- "lol yeah, sure after work hopefully" >me - "alright" >wait all day, no response >find out later (by facebook/twitter, i know i'm a fag for using it) that he/she hung out with someone else >this happens all the time I'm completely normal and I'm not an asshole, I don't get it. I crack jokes and I get people to be happy around me, but they never want to talk or invite me to anything. I guess what advice I'm seeking is where do I get better friends?
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I see one of my professors pretty often, since all of my classes are in the same building. I'm polite and say hi when we see each other in the hallway, but I don't go out of my way to talk to him. This happens about once a week or so. But he only comes off as friendly when I'm in his class though. Any time I say hello is outside of class, to which he kind of half-assedly says hi, or he'll literally just looks at me and doesn't say anything. He doesn't look pissed off or annoyed(although it's kind of hard to tell, since he has a lot of facial hair and what not). Is this a regular thing for college professors? He only teaches about 50 students a semester, and I've known him for a few years now. I'd stop saying hello in passing, but I feel just as awkward.
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Dear /adv/, I'm a 19 year old, female, college sophomore and I've never had any sort of job before (but a lot of volunteer experience from high school if that helps). I'm looking to get some sort of small part-time job at a retail store or food place. I honestly don't care at this point, but I have no idea how to go about getting one. I'm pretty shy/quiet/a little awkward, but I know I'm a good worker and can get my shit done. I fill out applications and ultimately get no response when I frequently hear about other people literally walking into a place and getting a job. So I guess my question is what makes retail/food/minimum wage type employers interested in you? Is it based on looks? Personality? Experience? Just good timing? Any other advice would be much appreciated, I'm going job hunting tomorrow in a shopping center down the road from my university.
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I went to a psychiatrist wednesday. He diagnosed me with ADHD and minor depression and anxiety. I have been taking the medicine he prescribed for 3 days now. I'm a bit unsettled. I feel like something is off. Like how when you go to a familiar place but there's something different, like the baseboard was painted a different color but you don't realize for a while. I feel like that except it's like I can't figure out what's different. I feel like my thoughts fade out constantly. One of the medicines says "can slow your thinking and motor skills" I'm pretty damn nervous about this and I know that this feeling isn't just a side effect of the pills. I just don't feel right at all.
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adv, what're you doing tonight? what's on your mind?
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To Myself: It's time to stop fucking around; you have (or once had) a tremendous passion for art and cooking. You are talented, and willing to learn. You need to live your life with the fire of this passion, and stop treating them like an interest. Creation makes you feel alive, makes you want to live where most other things in life don't. You gave apathy a roll, you gave gave drugs and alcohol a run, and even with your fiancee as a solid crutch in life, nothing makes you forget that life isn't worth living like the excitement of learning food, creating a dish, completing an illustration. You spend hours researching techniques, watching shows related to your interests. Stop fucking around, live your passion. Stop spending time on sites like 4chan and forums, sure you pick up quite a bit, but nothing technique is NOTHING IF YOU DON'T USE IT AND BECOME THE TEACHER! DON'T KEEP RECYCLING WHAT OTHERS HAVE TAUGHT YOU, LEARN THROUGH EXPERIENCE. Where do you want to be in 20 years? Do you want to call yourself a chef, an artist? Or do you want to be the guy who lived with half-assed passion who made nothing of himself? Get your fucking head out of your ass. Find the fire of passion, and spend as much time involved with it as you can. Love, Your only real friend.
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Hey /adv/, So I'm a senior in high school, dating this girl for about a month now. She's in several of the same classes as me, so it's nice to see her throughout the day. However, she doesn't talk to me in class. Whenever we're along in the car or somewhere else, we talk it up like there's no tomorrow, but in school, I try to start conversations and she acts like I'm some stranger. I know she's still into me; we made out the other day. But it's almost like everything disappears during the school day and she avoids/ignores me. Then if I text her after school, she's throwing smiley faces left and right, so I know she's not mad for any reason. It is my fault that she somehow doesn't like me just during school? What should I do about it? Thank you for any responses I get. pic unrelated
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boxers or briefs?
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hopeless betafag here, can anyone tell me how to start a conversation with this girl i like? she seems to take an interest in me and likes what i have to say whenever we talk, but she always has to be the one start the conversation. will give more information if prompted to do so, please help

Life's Avenue

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SO - You go to college, you earn your degree, but you also acquire knowledge that leads you on a road course that is filled with unopened lanes, some lanes are blocked off, and a lot of others around you (not physically in the same room, but worldly) have a gist of this similar knowledge as well. What is one to do when they are faced with TRUE intentions of a place shared with others, but this intention is not "suppose" to be shared?
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Is there a over the counter medication that i can trip/get high,with not too much harm to my body?
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What should I do tonight? >friend hits me up and says that he misses me and will buy me drinks at the club if I come over to see him. 40 mins away. >other friend hits me up and says there is a mansion party and he just needs a ride there and its byob but he'll buy us a bottle and he just broke up with his gf so he could use some bro love I dont know anybody who is going to be at this party. But my bro needs brotherly support. To be honest I would rather get free drinks at the club. I haven't chilled with my club friend in like months, and I said yes to his plans first. But I dont want to skimp out on my other friend who is emotionally a wreck. What would jesus do?
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I don't have a gun or a garage. What chemicals do I need to mix? Will bleach and ammonia be enough?

/adv/ I will do whatever you ask. Please help!

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/adv/ my life is empty and hollow. I have very few friends and no gf. I spend far too many days at home on sites like 4chan wasting away my precious youth. I want to turn my life around. I want to be less of a beta. Less of an awkward faggot. More social. More adventurous. More confident. More attractive. I just want to be happy. To accomplish this I have come to you /adv/ in request of any suggestions for anything- ANYTHING AT ALL- to improve my life. It could be how to improve hygiene/posture or it could just be a hobby or sport you think I might enjoy. >I WILL TRY EVERYTHING AT LEAST ONCE I may rule out some of the crazier shit (or troll advice) but I am very VERY open to suggestions. Every suggestion will be written down and I will come back to report on current progress and take more suggestions. I will answer any questions and provide any pics (except nsfw pics). I am your humble servant /adv/. What is your command?
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How do I break the ice and get to know new people? I'm always meeting new people at work but basically in any social situation where I haven't known the person for a while I seem like an autistic fuck.
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Can /adv/ rate me? I recognize that this isn't /soc/, so this might get deleted, but I don't really trust them to give me a brutally honest evaluation of my physical appearance, and that's what I'm looking for. I've heard everything from a 3 to a 9, and I don't know what to think. pic related
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/adv/, I've been with this girl for coming up on 4 months now. She's super awesome. Fun to be around, cute, supportive, kind, all that business. Problem is, my strength of feeling toward her just randomly and rapidly shoots across the spectrum every day or two. One day I'm thinking I want to be with her for a long time, and I could even see myself marrying her someday and all that shit, then the (literal) next day I feel like I have no real emotional connection to her, and I get the feeling of dread that you get when you know something terrible is inevitable (the terrible thing being that I feel like I'll have to break up with her in the near future and break her heart). So, what the fuck's up with that? Anyone had similar experience? Any way to fix this? Any general advice on the subject? Quick background info: I'm a sophomore in college and this is the first girlfriend I've had that's lasted more than a month.
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If you could go back in time and tell your former self the one thing you think would make their life exponentially easier. For me: >Stop taking everything so personally. Learn to separate what people are criticizing from your individual self, because most of the time, they aren't criticizing you as a person and they aren't trying to really offend you.
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so, uh, it looks like my girlfriend is moving in with me. Any advice?
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Is okcupid (or hell, online dating in general) full of completely socially decimated people? I'm 18 and I can't seem to find the one, but I'm scared of online dating because I hear some real horror stories from my fellow New Yorkers who have used it.
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How do I know if I have a fever? I don't own a thermometer, and I can't remember the last time I had a fever. I feel cold and tense and I'm pretty sure I have a UTI.

IS THIS WEIRD?

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is this weird /adv/ I would keep track of how often I fap. It used to be that I would fap every 2-3 days, now it's usually 5-6 (>tfw no gf) I guess i'm supposed to feel great, but I feel weird telling you guize so yeah
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lame poll time /adv/? between optimistic and pessimistic people (assuming its the only two kinds that exist) what kind of people do you think are more likely to be douchebags/assholes and/or have similar personalities?
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Sup /adv/ For you constant lurkers I am the person that was on here the other day because of my depression and shitload of problems (HIV, Cerebral Palsy, No Friends, etc). Anyway I am sitting here depressed, actually doing homework on a weekend night (something is seriously wrong there), with my 'friend' sitting next to me bitching about his league of legends games while he talks to his 'friends' over vent. I don't play LoL. I am board out of my mind and I keep thinking of how my life is going to somehow get progressively worse. I can't have a serious conversation with him nor have any weekend plans for the next forever. With the 3 kids my age that I know one is drunk, one is out of town probably getting hammered, and then this guy next to me who only asks for my help when his internet gets fucked up. I am not sure what to do /adv/ I am supposed to see a counselor on Thursday but I just hate doing this over and over. I can't relate. I have watched everything on Netflix. I am just sitting here in my own head and it is driving me insane. Help?
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Help me. Help me. Please, someone help me. First off, I don't know if it matters, but I'm schizotypal. It isn't reeeally a big deal, but it probably will be in later life because it can develop into schizophrenia and that's what my mom has. But right now, it just means that I have some quirks to my personality. Look it up on wikipedia if you want, but 3% of people have it. Anyway, I've been having an identity crisis for as long as I can remember. I don't know who I want to be. It's like I have a new hero or role model every day -- and I change my personality and ambitions to reflect that. People tell me to "be myself" or to stop being influenced by other people. I don't even know what "being myself" is -- I can't describe my personality beyond "fucking weird". I'm lost, I don't know who I am, or who I want to be, and I'm already in my early 20's. I've engulfed myself in philosophy, traveled, done fucking everything to find myself, and I can't. If you want more details, just ask. Please help!
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I am extremely bored, and want to watch a movie. I like comedies and actions and movies like "Hitchhikers guide to the galaxy" and "V for Vendetta" Can anyone recommend me something to watch? In return: Morgan Freeman
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Ok, I never post on /adv/, but I thought this was genuinely interesting. It is a relationship thing (I think), but it's weird. I'll try to keep this concise: I'm a freshman in college. I broke up with the girl of my dreams who I dated for 2 years in September and it basically destroyed me. Also, developed an alcohol problem first semester and got arrested once. Fast forward to New Years my parents get separated. I go to counseling now and I probably have major depression (might be getting meds soon). Ok so now fast forward to Monday. I meet this girl in my physics lab. I decide we should hang out after class. That night we hang out and we end of having a heart to heart until 5am where I literally tell her all my problems and many tears were shed (I don't talk to people about my problems.) It turns out she has a lot of problems as well, and also we just were really similar. So basically we felt really perfect for each other and really close, and then I found out she has a boyfriend. I've hung out with her two more times, and cheated with her and everything seems amazing, but I still feel like I'm basically homewrecking because if the boyfriend found out he'd freak. Last night he saw a completely innocent text from me to her and grabbed the girls phone and started freaking out. Apparently, he is a huge dick, but obviously that doesn't make my actions right, but it feels really right at the same time. So can I please have some advice on what to do in this situation
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>tfw parents are insane and controlling >tfw my dad doesn't talk to me >tfw my mom is really paranoid and annoying but actually on my side >tfw they both think i'm a fuckup who won't get into college because i smoke weed (I got a 3.7 gpa and a 32 on the ACT) i thought about it for a while, and my life would be significantly better without them. the thing is, i can't exactly up and move out, since i'm underage, and they were supposedly going to help pay my college tuition. the reason i do all the shit they tell me to, is because they only make my life more difficult when i don't, by taking my shit, harassing me, or refusing to do me favors they promised. also i don't want to piss them off to the point where they won't pitch on tuition in the near future. i'm outta here as soon as i'm 18, but /adv/ is it worth it? if my parents do little but make my life difficult should i stop complying with their demands entirely? for example, i want to kick it with my friends tonight. the house they're at is "off limits" to me but i go there every day. i want to chill and crash over there but my parents won't even let me out of the house right now. should i just go? i feel like my mom will try to guilt trip me tomorrow crying about how she was up all night worrying because she didn't know where i was. is it worth it just because the alternative is staying at home alone on a friday night? or is it fucking stupid to do so because i'll just get harassed to no end about it?






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