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> ITT we talk about why we are losers and others try to help us with our situation
Here's why I'm a loser
> meet girl on tinder
> we hit it off online
> get her number and set up a mini golf date
> date goes fucking amazing
> we really click and I have a ton of fun, setting the standard for all the first dates of the future
> she's basically perfect except for one significant thing
> she has the h2 virus
> I think about it long and hard and decide that I'm not gonna hold that against her since it wasn't her fault for getting it
> I am gonna wait until things get more serious before I take the risk and have sex with her
> we hang out a couple times and go on a second date
> we go see doctor strange
> it's her second time seeing it, and she goes with me even though she's sick
> in the theater she starts kissing my hand, sucking on my fingers and biting them
> I don't do anything about it cause I awkward as fuck and there were people in the row right behind us
> we go back to her place and we just go to sleep without doing anything
> we sleep basically naked together (like we've done a few times before)
> it still seemed like she had fun and she seemed into me when I left the next morning
> send her a text later that day asking about a job interview for a barista that she had
> no reply
> next night I invite her over for pizza and a movie
> no reply
I fell for this girl hard, and now I'm afraid she ghosted me. She always complements me about how attractive and sweet I am, but I think she might have gotten bored with me or something. On the first date when we were making out, she said she was pretty kinky and I think I've been too nice and vanilla so far. She said she wanted something serious so I wanted to kinda take things slow, but I think I may have overdone it on the slow part. I'm honestly kinda depressed about it and I'm gonna wait like 3 days before I text her again so I don't seem too clingy.
ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
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Well, It's hard to explain without it sounding too far fetched but;
I've been dating someone for around 10 months, she's great honestly.
I ended up having sex with another person in the heat of the moment, a cheating situation but she said she wanted to keep it our dirty little secret and If I wanted we could keep doing stuff and she'd never tell my girlfriend. She obviously has some kind of fetish for "Stealing someones property."
The situation is kind of insane, I don't know what I should really do, It seems like a once in a life time chance but It also seems rather fucked up. Even If I didn't accept her offer, she'd just keep a secret. Literally a crime that could have 0 repercussions If I don't ever tell my Girlfriend that it happened.
I'm at a loss for what to really do, opinions?
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So I finally met a girl from tinder with whom we really hit it off on all fronts - same interests, absolutely stunning, seems like a great personality etc. Ended up kissing at the end of the night and she wanted to schedule something this Friday (yesterday).
The thing is, she called in sick, thus cancelling the planned meetup, and isn't really too keen on reading my messages on facebook/doesn't communicate much online.
What the fuck's going on? This is a first time I've had a thing with a girl since I broke up with my ex 1.5 years ago. My confidence was through the roof and I felt like I had won a fucking million dollars, but right now I'm getting really, really mentally crushed. I've had rejections with tinder dates before, but not after a girl shows that much interest. How do I deal with this, what do I do and why the fuck would someone do this to me.
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Is there a reason to date or marry anyone as an adult?
I haven't dated anyone for over 3 years, and while I very much enjoyed dating this one girl for a couple years, I just don't see myself enjoying something like that anymore. I'm 20, and I feel like I'm just too old for the dating phase.
And as for marriage, it just seems like a responsibilty with no reward.
So why do people date? And older 30+ guys, why get married.