ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
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TL;DR: how do I stop caring about my peers so much that I demean myself?
I feel like I care too much about people and I try to always be there for them. I have a very strong impulse to want to please people, make them happy, comfortable, and not feel awkward, embarrassed, uneasy, etc. I'm the kind of guy that when someone I know says they're sad or depressed, I drop everything I'm doing and try to spend an hour with them or more to make sure they're OK. Even strangers I sometimes try to make time to listen to their problems.
I think it's a nice quality in people, but it always leads me to being taken advantage of. My company means nothing to people, and the friends or lovers I have always expect me to come back to them after they have a bad day and treat me like shit. I spend time with someone and listen to them for hours but it's painfully obvious they are using me. When I'm emotionally distant or not always there for someone, I notice that they want my company more and listen to me.
Sounds simple, but I feel horrible when I'm putting someone else through discomfort or leaving them be. How do I break this impulse and stop caring about my peers so much?
Shit sex life
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>Been with GF for 5 years
>I love her, shes pretty, sexy, cool, etc. The relationship is fine, some arguments here and there but nothing bad really
>Problem is: Sex life has gotten kinda shit and has become more and more routine
This is how it is 9 times out of 10
>Weekend (we almost never have sex outside it)
>I wake up early, she likes to sleep in
>I go about my business, and wait about 2 hours or so
>I go into the bedroom in lie down, cuddle a bit
>Shes maybe half awake and just either rolls over or just lies there
>I need to undress her, then finger her for about 10-20 minutes so she gets in the mood
>We fuck for 2-10 minutes
The thing is, when we first met, the sex was amazing, and even now we do have great sex every now and then, but it usually involves some elaborate scheme on my part
What the fuck do i do?
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I need help. I've run out of ideas and I'm starting to really lose hope.
I am a 22 year old male, dating 17 year old female. And before you ask, no statutory rape is 16 in our state not 17. The long and short of it is that her mother doesn't approve. At all. It took us 3 months just to tell them that we were dating, and it's been 2 months of "playing it by their rules" ever since.
Their ridiculous rules that at first only allowed us to see each other 4 hours a week. Which later, with a lot of work, evolved to 7. We can't abide by these rules. We are very passionate people who cannot truly further our relationship without seeing each other.
Things have only gotten even more tightly gripped on her mother's end. She had me arrested for "trespassing" last month when she decided she didn't like me being in their home visiting my girlfriend. My court date for that is right after Christmas. She refuses to drop the charges.
We tried to go by her rules but every time we get one step forward it's three steps back. Last week my girlfriend was having a panic attack because of how her mother was treating her. The mother called the police and made it official that I was no longer allowed on their property or to keep in contact with my girlfriend. She thinks she's saving her from me and in doing so helping her.
My girlfriend is having sleepless nights worrying what her mom will do next. Worrying that I'll be in prison because of her mother. Her parents track her every movement on an app called "Life360" that we have no idea how to get around. Her mom wants photos of everyone she goes out with so she knows I'm not there. It's so tiring and hurtful to try and do anything.
What do I do? Do you know how I can see her? Can I get past that tracking app? I just want to be there and show her everything is ok. That I still love her and that we can overcome this.
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>after a lifetime of only being interested in playing videogames, i've now decided to quit gaming
>why, because i blame it for being the reason why im a loser in every arguable aspect
>to make it possible i've at least temporarily dumped my pc and everything games related to my brother who doesn't need any of it (he has his own shit)
>it's now the third day with only sleep, work and a laptop that at least has a great ips screen and runs decently, but far from good enough for games
>feeling like playing something out of sheer "nothing else to do" feeling
>was totally motivated before, now i'm really just bored
hlep, should I just give up and give in or is it just weird abstinence that'll go away?