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Hey guys, I really need relationship advice or just someone else's opinion to figure out myself what I really need and want. I've been dating a girl who's nine years younger than me for about one and a half years. She's the second gilfriend I ever had, the first one I was dating when I was still in middle school. She died of cancer when we were 16. It was a painful experience, didn't date anyone for over ten years till I met my current girlfriend. We've known each other for 4 years combined now. Lately it's been getting to me how hard it is to deal with her. She comes from a weathy family, lived a luxurious life when she was a kid. Now her mom and dad are divorced and her mom doesn't work, she lives with her mother (my griflriend's grandmother) Her dad is sending them money. As my girlfriend told me he's sedning money for her, but throught her monther and she a lot of the time keeps that money for herself, though she does buy things like cosmetics, dresses and shoes occasionally and gives small portions of that money. The rest she spends on herself. She's told me that her mom even tells her to ask her dad, so he would send more money sometimes. My gilfriend sometimes complains how her mom always puts her down, how she says only negative things about her looks and clothes she buys and that makes her feel herself very insecure. But she loves her mother, I'm sure of it. I've met her, but even though I didn't get to talk much to her, she seemed nice. Her dad was always away and she didn't even know him much, but from her storied I got that he was a very calm and quiet, composed man and her mom was always the one who was screaming whenever there was fight. He had a problem with gambling.
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No idea if you guys can help me, but does anyone have experience or advice finding people with limited information? Basically I lost contact with a girl overseas who I was really fond of her as she was of me and I would totally go and visit, but we hadn't shared much personal information with each other up until that point. She sent me a dodgy link one day and whereupon googling it it basically said her Skype account had been hacked / compromised and I don't have an alternate way to contact her. She hasn't been online since. I had hoped to find her on FaceBook as she doesn't have a super common first name and I know her city, but I couldn't find her. Short of hiring a P.I. I'm not sure what else I can do. If this had happened to any other of my contacts I would have got over it, but this girl was special to me. I'm not being a creepy stalker who got removed and is ass-pained about it. She appears to have genuinely lost her Skype account (I haven't been removed from her contacts) and it really wouldn't make any sense for her to stop talking to me.
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I had sex with this girl last night unprotected and pulled out but we were a little worried I didn't do it fast enough (a little inexperienced with sex). So we bought pic related an hour later, and I think she took it, but now I'm getting paranoid thoughts that she pretended to take it so she could trap me with a baby. Women of /adv/: How offended would you be if a guy asked if you actually took the pill?

Racists

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I've always been curious about the psychology behind racist people. Why? And why are racists primarily caucasian? Skin color is literally just a product of evolution and adaption to one's native geographical location. Why do people take it so seriously?
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Will be starting my second day as a grocery store clerk later today for the first time. So much to take in, and I'm still pretty nervous. If I can get any advice, or tips at all it'd be really appreciated. Trying my best to get out of NEET hell.
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Hi, are there some people smoking weed ? I have some questions
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I haven't been able to show my breasts to my boyfriend of 3 years during sex because I'm ashamed of them (they're empty and saggy because I lost weight) Every time I think about removing my bra in front of him I start crying uncontrollably Any advice?
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>tfw in amazing relationship with gf who is literally the female version of me >tfw old fwb came back into my life after a big fallout we had because she misses me and the sex we had I honestly don't know what to do anymore. I want to be faithful, but I enjoy having some variety. Additionally, said fwb was also one of my best friends, so Im wondering if it's even worth trying to keep that as well.
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is this cheating? >staying at my bf's beach house with his family for the new years >on january 1st after partying and staying up late we're all mostly tired, some are sleeping, some are sitting in the backyard area >bf is still sleeping around 11am >I get up and go sunbathe in the backyard >his dad and uncle are sitting there, the women are in the kitchen/outside >I sit in a chair like pic related with sunglasses on >fall asleep, really mostly a snooze >wake up lightly and notice his dad and uncle are staring at me hard, commenting to each other, can't hear what >realize they can't see I have my eyes open because of the sunglasses and think I'm sleeping >keep looking at them looking at my body >I don't even find them attractive but this is incredibly exciting for some reason >pretend to readjust myself while sleeping and open my legs >they are making faces to each other and looking shamelessly >his dad clearly has the biggest boner >eventually some of the women come out and my bf wakes up and that's that is it horrible that I got off so much to this kind of attention/teasing? could it be after effects from the booze? does it classify as cheating of some kind? and why does it feel so whorish to write it out?

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I'm in a pretty strange predicament /adv/. Please help. >be me >madly in love with this girl for 8 years >we have quite a history together >she's had two longterm boyfriends and I've had a few relationships >our timing never quite matches up to where we're both single until now >she broke up with her boyfriend and I made a move on her which led to a fight >we got into a huge fight before Xmas and didn't talk for nearly 2-3 weeks >she forgives me OK here's where it gets really interesting >I go over yesterday night >we watch a movie and knock back a few beers Power goes out >listening to music and talking by candlelight >I start snuggling in closer to her >eventually I make a move and start kissing her >cont? I apologize in advance, these aren't typed out.
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I've been called clingy, needy, dependent, et cetera enough times to believe it. I've gone online and looked at sites that describe how to be less like this, and to sum it up it seems like the answer is pretty much "take all those thoughts and feelings normal people don't have and if you can't distract yourself from them by doing something that will make other people think you're more useful or interesting, keep them to yourself and just let them fester in your head forever because if you tell anyone you're not worth being around". So is the choice really just between "be sad and scared and nervous all the time" and "do this but be quiet about it so the normal people can tolerate you"?
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I need adv /adv/, basically my sister is in college, has no job and is nothing but an expense on my family. I would explain all the bullshit things she's done but it wouldn't fit in one or two posts. I have ignored her alarming behavior but my family is now having financial problems. My father is a senior engineer for the government and makes 250k a year. My mother also works, we are a family of five and should not be in this situation. My sister is a failure and emotional wreck, to start it off, she takes classes she is interested in, my dad then pays for the expensive classes. Once the classes get hard she cries to my parents and drops the classes, no refunds. She has done this multiple times. She rented an apartment with a roommate. My father signed a one year lease and she didn't like her roommate, cried and moved back home after a month. She found a house with a friend and they lived there for a year splitting the bill. Her roommate is moving out and she cried to my parents and got them to rent the entire house to herself. My dad is depressed, every time he calls my sister out and says he can't afford these things, my sister says she'll kill herself for being a problem. I tell my dad to call her bluff and treat her like a child but he says he could never risk his daughter killing herself because of him. She always ask for money to buy makeup and useless things like expensive dinners. I can't stand being around her, I hate my sister. She is a 21 year old brat with no job, she majors in veterinarian science to pursue a career as a vet. My family is falling apart because of my sister and neither of my parents will call her out. I talk with my parents in private and they complain so much but they know they have to be careful. I'm not sure what to do, what can I tell my father, what can I tell my sister? It is depressing to see how hopeless my family is

Reality check

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Most posters in /adv/ have no good advice to contribute AMA and I'll solve your problems in three sentences max
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Medfags? I've tried to patch up a pretty deep wound on my leg, but it's been 7 days now and it doesn't seem to be healing. The steristrips don't work so well on this area, plus whenever I try to redress the wound, the bandage ends up ripping up some subcutaneous tissue.
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So I find out yesterday that my girl friend of 4 years no longer loves me. Not only that she even devolped feelings for another guy who I asked her about and was told not to worry. So issues are that she feels like things are stagnant and somethings are lacking. She also felt that this other guy understood her Better and felt better when talking to him. But she had no plans to persue since he lives far. She had no plans to end the relationship but mostly wanted to tell me she feels alone around me as well as those other feelings. I also feel her depression plays a part in this too but hard to tell how much. She says she hid these feelings for my sake. So we try to break up but several problems arise. We cant get out of our lease as we live together. So we have to stay here as we both have no where else to stay. Of course as well i am crushed cuz i still love her. But she also finds breaking up to be really hard. Not only because she loses me and still cares about me but also doesnt to be alone which she then led to talking about how she dosnt belong and wants to die. The reason by the way we decided to try and break up was cuz i thought thats what she was doing but my misunderstanding led to starting those steps. Things ended up being a huge fight. Fast forward to why i say try because we work it out after talking. We decide to stay and try to fix things but honestly I have no clue what to fix as she was not specific. I have a few ideas but I am scared of them not returning and living with someone (which i gotta do either way) dose not love me. Has anyone had a SO who had fallen out of love? Is it possible to fix?

ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

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GUIDELINES: Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered. Keep questions short for more answers. If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question. And please no derailing arguments. FAQ: >Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>? >What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience> There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off. >I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do? Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. >I like someone. What do I do? >How can I tell if someone likes me? Ask them out. >Where do I meet girls/guys? Anywhere outside. Or online. >Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean? Nothing significant. You're overthinking it. >XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please We're not in their head, we don't know. >This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this? Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing. >Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance? No. >Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date? Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>. >Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy Fuck off

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So I have a question, and I thought random is a good place to post. I have a group of people that I work with but I want to give them the freedom to help out on their own but rules to keep others in check. I guess. Is there a good in-between? Where would drawing the line come in. I'm new to 4chan so help is appreciated even if I'm a fag or something
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how the fuck do you get a job holy shit all my friends seem to have just been handed jobs, and only a couple even have relevant degrees or finished degrees at all why can't I even get an entry level paper-pushing position where/how the fuck do you get a job
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How can I open up to people or improve my social skills? I'm a shy person but I loveee society and talking to people. Feel so lonely
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There's this girl that I work with. Her and I have gotten close over the past few months and we kinda bond over being depressed and having shitty pasts. She says she cares about me and says she loves me but it's almost always in a platonic and friendly way. The problem is I think I've really fallen in love with her. The thought of never being in a relationship with her makes me want to kill myself more than I normally do. I know this isn't healthy, but what should I do? I feel like I see signs every now and then that she might be interested but it really just doesn't make sense. I've never wanted anything so badly in my life.






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