Argument with gf
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>arranged to meet up with gf Saturday a week in advance
>tells me the other day her friend is having a birthday meal the same night but she isn't going
>tell her my friends invited me out Saturday night too, but I'm not going because they didn't give me enough notice (and also because it would be rude to bail on her)
>starts saying oh you can out if you want to I don't want to feel like I'm stopping you
>suddenly tells me later that day she IS going to the birthday meal so we will have to meet up later
>little bit annoyed but let it slide and say yeah cool we can just meet up later then
>gets a bit worried and says oh no are you angry with me, but say nah it's cool
>then tell me she'll be late arriving to the meal because of work, so I say well if it makes things easier we can just meet up another night
>OH SO NOW YOU'RE SAYING YOU DON'T WANT TO MEET UP, FINE WE WON'T MEET UP THEN, THAT'S BASICALLY WHAT YOU'RE SAYING
>makes me feel like I'm in the wrong and making me feel like a dickhead, bearing in mind she said the exact same thing previously by saying I could go out with my friends instead of us meeting up
Not a very interesting argument but this really pissed me off and fed up of being made out I'm the bad guy when I'm trying to show I'm being reasonable. Is it futile trying to argue with logic with her? Should I just leave this?
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How do you accept that your gf had a "wild past"?
I know a few details from my friends who say they face fucked her, came on her face, rubbed their dick on her face, etc.
You might say it's immature to even care, but I find it so hard to fully be okay with it. Other than her slutty past, she is the perfect girl.
Too old for 4chan
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How old is too old for 4chan?
I am 34. I've been posting here since around 2006 and I've watched it evolve over time. From my early days as an innocent /b/tard spamming Bel Air and Rick Roll threads, through all the wasted years on /r9k/ which became my venting outlet to the world but which slowly poisoned my mind in the process, dipping in and out of other popular boards like /fit/, /fa/ and /mu/ in the process. It feels like such a long time now since I first stumbled across this place as an ebaumsworld exile. I was in my early 20s, a socially anxious loser but strangely never in the slightest bit interested in anime, weeaboo culture or video games, the crux of 4chan's appeal to most. I arrived here by chance and never intended to stay. And yet all these years later, as I approach my mid-30s, I am still an addict. And I still don't really know why.
I've promised to quit so many times over the years but yet I can't help but waste hours every day shitposting for attention or getting into arguments with other anonymous losers, most of them guys half my age on the other side of the world. What a waste of time it has all been. I'm at such a strange and pivotal place in my life right now. I am a manchild wondering how the hell things came to this. I find myself adrift with no career, no independence, no girlfriend and no social life. Everyone around me finally grew up when they turned 30 and now they live like grown ups. I sit and post on 4chan and make vague plans that never I never really believe will come to fruition. I think it is time to finally say goodbye.
I could get nostalgic for all the years spent here. As pathetic and regretful as it may be, 4chan has taken up a significant chunk of my adult life and its impact will stay with me forever. I never really belonged here, I wish I could explain it better. I'm a "failed normie" I guess with one foot in the real world, one in my clandestine internet loser world.
Should I stay or should I go?
I have no personality
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I don't know if /adv/ is the right kind of place for this, but this is my story; I don't have a personality.
There is no real me, or at least any rule that would describe my personality. I'm basically good at anything I lay my eyes on. From computer programming, sports, math, physics, arts, music, dancing, social skills, business skills; most likely I will become the best in whatever I do, in a short while. But this is just because I map things into my brain, find the simplest pattern and follow it thoroughly.
>Continued in the next post
ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
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So I'm the only black guy in my neighborhood and I'm around mostly rednecks. I have one neighbor who is super sweet to me, whenever I leave my backdoor and into my yard, she's out there seeing hello and we have a small chat.
Yet I'm not going to lie, I'm nervous as hell, since she's been a bit...touchy whenever her husband is gone.
And something else...
Today, when I was doing yard work in the morning, she was outside in just a pink robe, yet her cleavage was showing and asked if I could fix her lawn mower tommorrow, since her husband would be gone and was a bit lazy plus knew I could fix lawn mowers.
I said "Sure!" Yet when I said that, she gave me a hug out of nowhere and I could feel her big tits against my chest. It was a different hug, which worried me but I allowed it.
I'm 26 and she's 39 and looks damn good for her age. But I'm scared where this could go and need advice.