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My gf broke up with me a week ago. On the day of the breakup, she was saying she loved me, wouldn't stop loving me, and didn't wanna be with anyone else or think about anyone else.
Then yesterday, one week later, we had a fight over the phone and she said she doesn't love me anymore, has no feelings of wanting to be with me, and already she is adding model manwhore guys on Facebook and liking their pictures.
How the fuck do you even deal with this?
Should I leave?
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Move in in with a friend to a new apartment in sep. I pay 700$, friend 800$. All plus bills.
Friend broke up with his gf after few days of move in. After a month they are together again. And heres the deal. Now friends gf is like 5 nights a week in our flat. So basically she lives here even if she have her own flat, but dont pay for it because it's her grandmas house. She dont pay for our flat either, but the bills are obviously higher. Hairs everywhere, she moans like a fucking idiot when they are fucking. This shit makes me mad. I didnt agreed to live with 2 people in this small apartment. There is another option on the horizon for me, to move in with another mate, around april.
What would you advise guys?
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I'm 21 years old, 5'6 and I look about 14-15 years old. It made my life miserable, I have severe social anxiety disorder that I've been taking medication for for the last 2 years. I live with my parents, I don't have any friends anymore, pratically didn't see them since highschool because I never wanted to hook up with them because of my anxiety. Simple tasks in life like talking to strangers or buying something in a shop is impossible for me. I never had any jobs, I'm a virgin. Weed only made me feel worse and sick when I did it in highschool. Any advice for me? Will my life change? I fear going to the job center with my dad I don't feel ready, I fear that people won't hire me because I look like a child... What do I do? I can't take my life...
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It's happened. I've finally broke. I can't take it anymore guys. I fucking hate life. I have a full time job and it's pretty decent -- but I just want more. I want to be happy. I haven't been happy ever. My last memory of happiness was quite honestly in my childhood. Everything else has only been just bland.
I've gotten into drug use. I'm an alcoholic. I've had a lot of failed relationships. My family puts up with me, after putting up with me for so long. I hate that I'm this way. I wish it wasn't just so fucking hard to wake up every day going to some 9-5 job and work my way from the bottom up and earn money to save up for stuff that won't make me happy anyway.
By all means, when I meet people my age, I've actually got it good -- they all say they envy me because I've got my 'life together'. But I'm miserable. I hate it.
I just honestly can't find a reason to continue on, really...
This isn't one of those edgy I'm going to kms irl but I've just come to this realization that, is that all life is going to be about? Just making it day by day without much else? I have high aspirations -- believe me -- but I just don't have the drive, the motivation to do it because at the end of the day all I can think is the fact I'll always, always want more. It won't end.
I can't relate to people, I can't feel emotions like other people -- if any emotions at all. I hate this feeling of being so detached and I want it to end and I'm willing to just take the shortcut.
ITT: Ask the Opposite Gender Anything
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I don't know if I should keep on pursuing a guy who has been always hurting me emotionally. I'm at the bottom of his priorities, he hates commitments, and he also likes this girl (although the feelings are fading). He is somehow attracted to me, though, and that's the only thing that keeps me going. He's the only person who's making me feel alive, I have been feeling extra sad lately. Should I continue this?